Ronnie

Wow definitely! I would have been so excited the entire time. Just be cool about it so she doesn't freak out!

LOL

I agree. Make sure you explore every avenue before giving up your marraige and kids. Therapy is a great idea, and who knows maybe your wife being able to discuss your diapers with someone will help ease things even more!

Yup, soft dry padding against the most sensitive area on your body is going to feel good. Enjoy it!

I was attending my physics class in college some years ago and on that day I was low on sleep. I kept dosing off, and at one point musta fallen asleep for several minutes. When I awoke I realized that every time I moved, it smelled like someone farted, baaad. So I wheeled out in the hall and I realized I completely messed myself! This is very unusual cause I have a bowel movement in the morning before my shower. I really wear diapers for peeing, and cause I love them. Luckily my diaper held it in! I was mortified at the thought of my classmates knowing it was me putting off that smell. I didn't even bother to go get my books, I just went home. Thankfully the teacher brought them to the main office.

Hi. I discovered loving diapers by the age of 4 I guess (1975). I came across an old box of Pampers in my closet, and curiously tried one on. I did not have the skill in my fingers to really put it on, and my mom who was watching me just giggled. I guess after watching me for a while she helped me tape it on. All I remember is how nice they felt between my legs, and that's all I wanted to feel again. Over the next couple years I only had diapers when I happened upon them. Sometimes I got lucky and found a box in our community basement, and other times I took diapers from my friends little brothers and sisters. Much of the time though I used plastic bags pulled between my legs to feel that crinkle down there. When I was 11, I discovered my moms maxi-pads. I started wearing them in my undies whenever I could. The softness blew me away. I was going through puberty and was discovering of my [what I thought was weird] sexual self, which was confusing and lonely, but very exciting at the same time. For some reason I never knew about adult diapers as a teenager. I tried buying a few packages of Pampers, but they never would fit. I would have bought some adult sizes had I realized the Attends and Depends were a few isles over! But I was still loving the maxi-pads in my undies. In my late teens I had an accident that left me in a wheelchair and incontinent. In the hospital they used to hook me up to a pee bag, but I had many infections because of it and it was very restrictive. When I told my nurse how uncomfortable it was, and she told me she could put a diaper on me instead. I didn't know what to say cause I got very excited and embarrassed at the same time. She was cool though and joked that it would give me more "room" to move. This was when I saw an adult diaper for the first time. It was blue in color. Even though I was paralyzed I could still feel everything down there, and when she pulled the diaper up and snuggly taped it to my body, I knew that's what I wanted to wear from now on. The turn-on for me was incredible, and I've been wearing them ever since. Since I came out from the hospital, I discovered that placing 3 maxi-pads side-by-side in Attends diapers is the best. Stayfree Overnight Classic shape pads in my Attends are the softest thing I've ever felt. It's weird but I'm happy I enjoy despite that I have no control over it! OMG I'm babling way too long!

I like they way diapers feel when dry the best. After being catheterized I usually stay dry for about 4 to 6 hours, and I'm aroused almost the entire time. I usually have at least 2 to 3 orgasms between diaper changes. It's the best feeling in the world! It's just difficult when it happens in public. After peeing a few times I get changed and catheterized, and it starts all over again.

I have my attendent unpack them and place them on the shelf of my closet. I can't put them up there by myself cause I'm in a wheelchair, but I can get them down with my reacher! I sometimes wonder how many of my friends want to secretely try one of my diapers on when they look in my closet

Well after I sent Attends the letter they got back to me saying that they were going to return to the previous length and size, and offered me free samples as well as mentioning that the requests I made on improvements will be forwarded to the appropriate people. Today I got a box in the mail and in it was a full pack of 18 large sized waisband style 6 tape briefs. At first I thought maybe they were just trying to pacify me with free stuff, but I did notice that these diapers were definitely longer, great news! Hopefully they will implement other improvements as well!

Thanks. I already received a response saying that based on complaints they will have to remake the original length.

I just sent them the following letter... Dear Attends: I am an active person who uses a wheelchair to get around due to a spinal cord injury. I have used Attends fitted briefs for over 10 years. I currently use the newest equivalent, the Attends 10 waistband style large size diapers (with six tapes). For the majority of those years they were nearly top notch. They fit great, had good absorbency, and guarded against leaks quite nicely. Attends was way better in quality when compared to Depend and other department store brands, and it was just a few improvements away from being the perfect diaper on the market. When I heard that PaperPak products took over the name Attends, I patiently awaited a new an improved diaper that would protect me any time of the day or night. When a person with incontinence or/and a disability has an excellent product they can rely upon, it helps increase the comfort, independence, and ultimately the confidence of that individual. Quality incontinence products also make the job of caregivers of people who need a personal care attendant, home health aid, as well as caregivers who work in nursing homes and hospitals easier and cleaner for everyone involved. Unfortunately, instead of seeing improvements to Attends 10 Briefs, the quality has declined to a disturbing degree. I noticed the following: 1. Reduced length. 2. Reduced wing area and wing length. 3. Decrease in elastics quality, particularly the waistband. 4. Reduced padding in wing area. 5. Thinner overall padding. 6. Thinner plastic covering. Since this is an Attends 10 large size maximum absorbency product, I would expect it to have the greatest leak protection in the Attends line, but this is no longer the case. One quality that Attends had in the past was that they fit very well in key areas and on many body types. Attends had a high waist fit, which has several benefits. For one, a high waist fit helps keep the diaper from slipping down when turning in bed. People that have paralysis have to slide over in bed since they can’t use their legs. The friction of sliding over in a bed causes a poor fitting diaper to shift, which creates a looser fit. This causes leaks. Additionally, for anyone who has involuntary leg movements or is an active sleeper, the high waist fit helps keep the diaper snug and in place. People who have a larger midsection benefit from a high fit waistband as well, because it allows the wearer to pull the waistband above the thickest part of their midsection. This keeps a tighter fit in the leg gathers. The current lower waist design causes the diaper to eventually move below the belly, which creates a looseness all around. Again, this leads to leaks overnight and embarrassing odor to escape in public during the day. Also an important benefit of the high waist in the front and back in the previous Attends 10 was hat it simply gave more area for liquid to be absorbed to during heavy overnight voids! Unfortunately though, the reduced length of the latest Attends has eliminated all these qualities. The original Attends also had longer wings on both the front and back panel. This made putting the diaper on a much easier task because the wings were long enough to fit further around a persons belly. Longer wings make it so a person with limited dexterity in their hands, perhaps due to arthritis or disability, will have an easier time putting on their own diaper with a good fit. Additionally, longer wings create a greater overlap that helps prevent leaks on the sides. The shorter wings in the latest Attends make it much more difficult to get a snug fit, and less overlap has created more leaks, especially when laying on ones side. The combination of the shorter length/lower waist fit has also reduced the distance between the tapes along the back panel. Since the tapes are now closer, there is less adjustability in fit. As mentioned before, these factors often leave the wearer with a diaper that ends up falling well below their belly button, creating the gaps that cause leaks, and as mentioned before, odor escapes, which is embarrassing for the wearer. Another good quality of the larger sized Attends of the past was its better quality waistband and leg gathers. The quality of the elastic is what allows the diaper to remain very snug in numerous body positions. This allows a person to be active, yet remain confident that the diaper won’t come loose. Reduction in recent Attends elasticity, particularly on the waistband, has made this diaper one that easily becomes loose and sags downward. Again, gaps. Obviously preventing leaks is the purpose of any diaper. Restoring the things mentioned so far would help bring back the quality that Attends was known for. However, some additional improvements would make this diaper the best on the market. Today it seems as though many manufacturers try to minimize the thickness of the padding. While a thin diaper might be desirable for someone who needs lighter protection in a more discrete brief, a maximum absorbency diaper should be designed to prevent leaks over being discrete. Yes, increases in technology may allow thinner padding that absorbs what thick padding did in the past, but too thin a diaper causes a problem, particularly for overnight wearers. Today’s thinner Attends often creates gaps between the padding and genitals. This is even more apparent when lying in bed after turning over a few times throughout the night. Any time there is a gap between the padding and skin, urine will flow freely across the skin and not be absorbed until it hits padding. However, all too often it travels to an area like a leg gather or towards the wings, quickly causing leaks. Some people use diaper doublers, but these products do not stay in place as well as a diaper that has thickness in the proper areas to begin with, and they also become saturated quickly. Ideally, the diapers thickest area should start from a few inches behind the anus, and come forward all the way to the top of the front panel of the diaper. This will allow continuous contact of the wearer’s genitals against the padding, regardless of gender. For women, the vulva would be up against the padding, allowing fluid to directly flow onto the padding and be absorbed before it has a chance to run across the skin and leak out the sides. For men, the same would be true, but the increased padding in the top panel will ensure wicking regardless of whether the wearer is flaccid or having an involuntary erection. Some diaper manufacturers recommend the wearer’s penis be pointed downward, but this is very uncomfortable when involuntary erections occur. The ideal heavy protection/overnight brief should have a thick surface layer of deeper padding for the purpose of molding to the wearers shape and keeping contact with the wearer’s genitals, while the second layer underneath will absorb and hold the liquids away from the skin. Attends current padding creates gaps very easily. Again, leaks. In the event that a small gap does occur, the addition of leak barriers within the leg gathers would help prevent leaks as a backup to the increased padding. Prevail briefs have excellent leak barriers in regards to size, elasticity, and effectiveness. Another area leaks often occur is from the wing areas, especially when laying on ones side. Increasing the area of padding coverage in the wing areas both front and back will essentially create an absorbent barrier all the way around the wearers waist, further preventing leaks during heavy overnight voids. The padding should go all the way to the edges of the front wings, and any urine traveling to that area will be caught by the overlapping in padding within the back wings. An evenly distributed increase in the density of padding in the back panel will help prevent leaks when wearer is laying on their back. These improvements will greatly increase the effectiveness of Attends diapers, making them truly a “10

Well to get off the gramatical-tangent and back to the original question, I like a dry diaper and wearing something girly with it. Bras are nice, and i love wearing short nitey or a full night gown when it chilly! I can't feel the wetness directly, but when I'm dry my diaper gives me more pleasure down there

That's cool! I used to hide my diapers from my friends cause I felt weird even though I do have a disability. But now if I leave my closet open and my friends see them, I don't care - they just don't realize how much I acutally love wearing them!

Hi everyone. I have posted under the other forums here a few times. What a great website! It inspired me to start a memoir into my memories of my sexuality. I'm not a writer, but I figured it belongs here more then the other forums. Feel free to share your feelings. Can you remember the first time something felt really good “down there?

Summers Eve Feminine Powder - oh my that stuff is soooo much smoother then anything else. It smells really pretty too!

Wow, everyone is spread out pretty far! Baby dan-dan, I was in Utah once, we went to bryce. Amazing!

I live on Long Island, New York! I'm curious where otheres live

I wear Attends 10 with 3 CVS Overnight Maxi-pads as stuffers. Very soft and comfy. I also put a bed pad underneath in case I pee a lot.

Thanks for the welcome. It's ok dldad, yea it was sad in the beginning, but my life is very good and I enjoy almost everything I want to do!

Hi everyone, I'm glad I found this board! I gues I'm more of a DL then anything, but I do like getting cozy and tucked into bed while wearing a diaper under some warm jammies. I think I got into diapers around the age of 5 when I found some old Pampers (1975'ish?). The feeling of them between my legs was just heaven. Growing up I used plastic bags between my legs to simulate a diaper. Thru my early teens I wore my moms maxi-pads to enjoy that soft padded feeling I constantly craved. Somehow though, I never realized to try adult diapers. As a young adult, I had a spinal injury which left me incontinent. On the brighter side, I could still feel everything down there At first the doctors managed my bladder with a leg bag/condom catheter. Then one day a nurse came in holding what looked like a underpad they use for catheterization so the bed doesn't get wet. But as she unfolded it my heart began to race as I realized it was a big blue diaper. Lets just say after she turned me side to side and then pulled the diaper up between my legs, I was hooked. I actually wrote a pretty detailed account of these experiences, maybe I'll post it somewhere on this site instead of babbling in my intro post. So, hello everyone! Lookin forward to reading all your experiences.