Joanne_chan

Wishing you a happy birthday.

I did have some difficulty with that not that long ago coping with the loss of one parent and the emotional turmoil of another which tend to take you well out of things.

Yes I'm still in membership having done nothing to be banned and as far as I'm aware SJ is still involved unsure exactly how the "chain of command" works as there are two other moderators. I'll probably message you as I prefer not to talk about somethings publicly but unless I'm kicked out, formal ban issued or otherwise told not get involved ever again I don't give anyone that power over me. Their problem, not mine.

Always was here not least for having in real life needs that they provided even after formal childhood so are used to seeing me dressed more LG, playing in their company and being suitable deferential sitting crosslegged on the floor when the adults require seats. Having "lost" that adult space just seems natural now, you're still respected but as little you.

Happy Easter folks!

Definately is but is intentionally hidden from web crawlers and those whose interests may not be in the interests of LG's. The registration page is here: Girltalk registration. Might just say Debbie, the Fairy Administrator is no longer with us having died late last year.

Being caned three times in four days and having to go out with very stinging behind

You do need to be careful over the amount of water you drink although when I was younger, exploring all this, I did enjoy wetting myself.

To be honest there is bad parenting and their are different approaches to dealing with behavioural issues and I do feel I should point out abuse need not be physical, it can be deprivation of love, 'mind games', removal of clothing or even the most basic food and liquids. I take the view having worked in child protection *anything* can be abused if the person has that kind of an attitude and that spanking provided it is moderate used as a last resort backed by one to one work with the child on what caused the infraction can have place within a loving relationship but just 'lashing out' never works.

Wild Poppies as I so looked forward to them flowering in the Summer when I was younger.

If you can shave a bit that's fine but the funny thing is once we start playing we don't get so hung up on things like body hair so to us, so long as you're playing nice and just letting your more girl side out dressed pretty much as a 'girl' of the kind of age range you're presenting does, most of us don't bat an eyelid at say a meet.

I see I've been referenced! It doesn't matter so much how you do being a little girl which may be informed say by the era you were brought up in (saying grew up in just doesn't feel right to me) and how much of the past you bring into the adult/little girl you feel the bigger thing is being the girl you feel. It may be more 'alice' little boo peep or more schoolish, it's that space we create to let Her out, resembling us, having suitably childlike fun well away from the tax returns and all that. Retiring for period where apart from the above, you are able to feel carefree can include say things like being overseen by a person who is assuming a more parental role, keeping you safe as you just let your little side out, for some it may include some "Come along and put your party dress on now" stuff which might appeal if you'd rather let someone else make some choices

Followed by as one eats the fish fingers

I heard there's a probablity of a dolly for Christmas here....

You may have a rough idea of where your imagination might be but the best thing is to play be it face to face or on sites more about virtual play where you 'build' things and share imaginary adventures as you'll soon discover where you play interest lie.

There's no connection at all to diapers and playing or not so I really think it needs going and on the other stuff, we're always been on the same page. If you were to say anything at all, it would be "No longer a toddler and wanna play"

Fish fingers and fries followed by Jelly with Icecream

For me it's really more around feeling my emotional age self which is that of a 12ish school girl so for I don't picture anything sexual in that space I'm in which prolly is easier being asexual I guess because it's kind like opening a door and coming out for hours at a time with your emotions without any "But I'm an adult" self censoring going on so I just need to clutching my doll or stuffie jumping up and down then I just do. I spend an increasing amount of time regressed, not least with being unwell and as bad as that is, the regression helps an awful lot.

I trust your monitor has been fixed, now.

Very much OTK with me and I don't half know it afterward!

I've read heaps on it and agree very much with it as our Inner Child plays a very important part in how we function or maybe not so well in our lives and an unhappy inner child can really mess up your adult side which most of us have dealings with.

I am spanked as a little, it's a long story but the basics of it were I was finding my behaviour and attitudes which had never been good, getting more out of control which was getting in the way of what I wanted and causing lots of problems for people who I'm close to and little else was working. The only thing that had worked in the past although it had been infrequent was spanking or the threat thereof so after getting to know someone, spanking reentered my life together with one on one guidance around behaviour and attitudes as well coping with stressful situations. I felt as painful as I knew this might be it was worth trying. This is working out very well for me as my attitude has improved significantly and my behaviour while still needing some correction is better.

Are we due a another Hug Your Dolly day?

Rachel Emily, my fellow with cp person, I sure understand where you're coming from with home-helps although I do think they need to made aware in their training the whole littles spectrum (AB, DL, Lg etc) is very common in our disability group and our expression of it is a part of us that needs respecting within the care ethics. I'd think something that crosses school/secretarial wear or the more cute prints in dresses might work without completely blowing their minds. My care comes from my folks that brings it's own issues but thankfully they can live with schoolwear which is easier to dress me in . Hugs.