Inconito

@Serah Could be great to know what has worked for you and your starting point. Are you exclusively sharing on tumblr only? Cheers Sent from my iPhone using Tapatalk

Hi Serah. Thank you for you for your interest When I say I wet every hour more or less, it's not that I'm actively holding back, it's just with these intervals I get up from my desk and either go get something to drink or just stand up. This is where I tend to wet myself. Other times, I get these strong urges which feels really uncomfortable, sitting by my desk and I begin to wet myself without much thought to it. Using the phrase from the 12 month program, I'm either strictly in the "feeling & doing" zone. But becoming more and more into the "doing" zone. However, unconsciously I think I'm still clenching somewhat, because of the strong urges I get, when sitting at my desk or when driving. Recently I began purposely to poop my diaper usually I'm pretty regular, so it only happens in the morning, and it's no big deal, I need to shower anyway. Pooping in public, might be introduced eventually, but not now. Overall I think I have made progress in my diaper training / incontinence training. But I also think I have a long way to go still. But I started out with very strong bladder control and capacity, and that is now only a distant memory....even though I think I still have some control left.....which needs to go.

Well honestly, progress has been very slow. I do tend to believe my overall bladder capacity has gone significantly down. I never flood .y diaper anymore. Frequency has gone up significantly, on a good day I wet at least once every hour, sometimes more, other times less. Urges to pee, come out of the blue, and it's a very uncomfortable feeling I get from feeling anything in my bladder so I almost instantly release. But even with these sudden urges volume is low, like 100-150ml. I guess. Stream is slow despite these strong urges, not that I try to suppress them or slow down. I don't need to. Surprise wettings are becoming more frequent also. Here I mean I don't feel anything in my bladder, but anyway I begin to wet myself, it happens automatically. Dribbling happens frequent now both before and after wetting. Can I hold myself from wetting myself, I honestly don't know....but definitely not something I would do, anyway. Bedwetting, here I only had woken up a few times in a wet diaper. Where I know for a fact that my diaper was dry when I went to bed, so I count these genuine sleepwettings. I do from time to time wake up and just wet my diaper before drifting off to sleep, again

I'm having the same experience after more than 5 years being back in diapers 24/7, never holding back now means my bladder gets really uncomfortable when my bladder occasionly is holding back. Surprise wettings are becoming more frequent as well. But I'm loving the increasingly dependence on being diapered at all times. Yes, it requires planning, but it's well worth it for me.

I also like my poop to be on the firm side, I don't mind having to push a bit.. the bigger poop the better. Those who really gives me a nice telltale diaper bulge in the back and where it caress my butt while walking around.

When i feel the need. Im pretty regular so usually only fill my diaper in the morning which have become the new norm. Then if I haven't had my morning coffee, I get one or two mugs, coffee usually acts like a laxative so sometimes I have to lift slightly off my couch to make more room, and then another load forces it's way out into the seat of my diaper. Which at this point is now both heavy and very full. Complete my coffee and hit the shower. I like a big load in my diaper and feeling the sticky warm smushy load

Could have been my story. I'm at the exact same plateau, and have been there for a really long time. Only a few true sleep wettings. Messing in my diaper in the morning before hitting the shower. Wetting has increased in frequency, and with less output. Though I still have some control still, even after more than 5 years in diapers and training 24/7.

I only masturbate in my diaper simply by rubbing outside on my diaper. It usually takes less than a couple of minutes to orgasm, and then I just carry on with what ever I was doing before. A warm and wet diaper is the best feeling ever. Diapers are convenient even for masturbation as there's no need to cleanup. Only when I need to change hours later because by then I'm soaked.

It has become very natural to me, pooping in my diaper. I do it every morning. Feeling the urge building up, relax, sometimes a slight push. And within seconds I fill my diaper. It feels good and natural to me to fill my diaper. Though I don't do it when out and about

I tend to believe as we get older, becoming incontinent will happen naturally.....only faster for us, since we are actively pursuing it.

bought two metal cages. Should arrive sometime next week. Read elsewhere about a tip on how to make sure the chastity doesn't move / allow an erection to build up. The method should be as simple as tying the ring behind your balls around your waist and between your legs. Like a woman's thong. Anyway what you describe as loss of sensation due to being chastised sounds appealing.....I'll report back when I have received my cages.

Not much going on......bedwetting, hmm. I really don't know if I progressed or not, I tend to believe "not", unfortunately. I think part of the reason is nightly erections making it impossible to pee, and just to add more to it. these erections makes me unconsciously exercising my sphincter muscles. So right now, I'm strongly considering getting a chastity device. I do have some experience with these, and what I can remember the most, is the pain I experienced back then in my scrotum area from the constant rubbing of the ring. Reading about the holy trainer device makes it look like a good device which does a good job, yet still being comfortable to wear long term. Or well in the beginning, only at night. Some advocate that diapers should be enough to not being able to be pleasured. To that I can only say, I have masturbated in my diaper for more than a year now, by just rubbing the outside of the diaper, regardless of how thick my diaper is, I have been pleasured. Hence why I'm looking for a chastity device.... What I can say, even though I get release from making "stickies" in my diaper, I never lost interest nor even contemplated not wearing a diaper. Not wearing and using diapers are off limits. Mentally, I'm both dependent and addicted. I just need the psychical dependence, then I'm happy.

Im in a wet and messy Betterdry. Heading to the showers soon.

To be honest. I have lost some control, but not to a level where I wanted to be I.e. no control at all. I get very strong urges coming out of the blue. Where I'll wet myself yet as I said even though the urges I get are pretty strong, output volume is low.

I like plastic backed the most. But during summer, clothbacked are better for my skin.

I too wear and use diaper 24/7 with my wife's knowledge and acceptance. So yes, I'm strapped in a diaper 24/7 every where, and I love it, the comfort and freedom. Sometimes I can't help but smile a little to myself, when I'm out with my wife, either at shopping centers or out walking, then my wife complaints about her need of a toilet because she needs to pee badly, or because she has to get up at night. She has a slight OAB. And here I am, wearing a diaper around the clock and using it 24/7. Sometimes I makes hints about how nice it is not to worry about needing toilets, or having to deal with nasty toilets. Because of my diaper.

I have been working on this specific goal for 5 years and counting. So YES I want to become 100% diaper dependent!

just now, while sitting and reading the forums. felt pressure building, and just relaxed and it came out. Though had to lift my butt to make room. So nice just to sit and let nature take it's way. While at the same time feeling the warmth and softness from the load I have in my diaper, besides the already wet diaper feeling.

Hi Mark. I can relate to all of what you said. I have myself been back in diapers now 24/7/365, for more than 5 years. Some days I wet all the time, with high frequency and less and less volume, but never below what I guesstimate to be approx 70-100ml. At each wetting. Even with volumes so low, I get strong urges, very seldom do I wet without realizing before I feel my diaper getting warmer. while other days only very little, do I wet, especially during summer. If I don't have a diaper on, for instance coming out of the shower I don't wet or leak, sometimes even despite I can sense an urge building up. So I can relate to your frustrations, of feeling either you have hit a plateu or barrier which you cannot come around, because your mind is still refusing to accept your conscious mindset about giving up all control. I have it the exact same way. I'm mentally dependent on being in diapers 24/7, I'm mentally dependent on being dependent on diapers and wetting uncontrollably. I even started to poop in my diaper as a way to not exercising any control what so ever. Luckily I'm semi regular when it comes to pooping. Though even here sometimes I have to push a bit, while other times I just lift my butt to create room for what is coming. I never planned to go for double incontinence, but if that's what I takes, I'll submit to it. Note, I never poop in public,

Admittedly, I like the feeling of just filling my diaper, first feeling the pressure build up, next the knowledge that I can freely let nature take over, I'm securely diapered, then relaxing and hearing and feeling of it sliding out and filling the seat of my diaper, the warm and bulky feeling against my butt. How my diaper becomes heavy and sagging.

Short answer, YES I do! I have been back in diapers for 5 years now and counting. Yes, it get's burdensome sometimes, yes there are times where being in a diaper can be challenging. But in my mind, I have accepted that I need to be in diapered 24/7/365. I'm mentally diaper dependent and have been my entire life. I'm still working on being psychically diaper dependent as well. In fact I tend to believe that I already am to some extent. Sometimes I just feel my diaper get's warm from me wetting myself, with no interference from me, didn't feel anything until suddenly my bladder just empty everything out. Other times a strong urge hits and seconds after I'm wetting myself. And yes, I love wetting myself and being able to do that without any concerns.

Just now. Felt an urge building up, and as have been the norm for several weeks, relaxed and a slight push. And once again I filled my diaper.

ABU simples always leak on me very fast. I guess my body shape just doesn't fit with ABU's design. As @diaperboilerman says, Betterdry are one of the best and most absorbant diapers out there, though you have to trade discreetness when wearing Betterdrys, as they swell insanely in the front.

best of luck. I decided back in 2013 that I would be in diapers full time - no cheating, no holding back, never looked back nor regretted that decision. Love the freedom from wearing diapers because I don't have to worry when an urge comes, which is very seldom now after so many years in diapers.

early this morning. felt an urge to poop, did not do anything to hold back, and it it started to slide out, but stopped, so I pushed a little bit, and boy did I fill my diaper. drifted back to sleep, this time with a fairly large load in my diaper. later this morning got up, a mug of coffee, and did another poopy in my diaper, and that resulted in a very obvious bulge in the back of my trainers. Wife didn't comment, but it was very obvious given how my butt looked when I looked in the mirror, that I was in a very full diaper, and it wasn't only wet.