sweetlilone

Are you urinary incontinent only with the use of a catheter or did you use it for a period of time and became incontinent after its use?

Great story! Thank you!

Great story!! Thank you for sharing!

Thank you all for your responses. I find it easier when using behaviors such as drinking water as well. It works well if i'm in a position that I can wet easily such as when I'm standing, but if I'm sitting or lying it's much more difficult to release. Anyone have any tricks to make that easier?

Hi everyone, I'm the road to diaper dependency and wear 24/7. I'm looking for methods others have tried to shrink their bladder size or create a more sensitive, irritable bladder that will contract more easily. The combination should eventually lead to incontinence. I've found that setting an alarm and wetting every 15-30 minutes helps to reduce my bladder capacity however it's not always easy to relax and wet when the timer comes if my bladder isn't full. Sometime running water or changing position will help. Has anyone used any other techniques? I've also started to take dandelion root capsules that seem to make it easier to wet. Anyone have anything else that has worked for them?

Great pink color and sooo thirsty!! I love them!!

Small size only unfortunately. They look soooooo cute!! I can't wait to get my case!!!

Great! Thanks for your input. I agree. When I first tried to start bedwetting I could push all I wanted and it would never help. Once I learned to relax it definitely helped but made for some very wet beds..lol

Hi Everyone.. Just wondering everyone's opinion. When first training to become incontinent is it okay to bear down and perform a vasalva maneuver when first trying to get comfortable with the new position to release or is it best to just focus on relaxation/reverse Kegel techniques and not encourage pushing?

That's always been a fantasy of mine. Very hot!!!

Your so right BabyWendyMarie! I believe as adult babies we need to make sure that we don't completely lose the adult. Finding that balance is not easy. Finding the Mommy of our dreams in real life is very much not an easy task. No one can ever know exactly what our desires and needs are more than us at the time. It would also be unfair to any Mommy who is willing to have to totally lose their life balance to care for you as an adult baby. In developing our "inner mommy" we have to look at ourselves and examine what is missing. It's different for everyone. In discovering this, it starts us on the path of meeting our needs. I think the program helps me find the balance of both my adult and baby side. It's too easy to fall into unbalance with either. I developed a very similar program I call the Mistress Mommy Solution that I use with my fiancee. The internal parts of the program are the same as the Mommy Solution program but it allows for the Mommy to have daily input in decisions of what is worn and the subs behavior or tasks. Contracts of behavior need to be presented,reviewed and signed. Daily Reports are generated and need to be given to her so that she can monitor what is going on. I hope you enjoy the trial version of the program. Sweetlilone Hi Little Christine.. This is an interactive program based on the 12 month program.

Hi everyone, Almost 15 years ago, I was surfing through the forums and become very saddened by the large number of people who were just like me. Lonely.. Isolated.. Thinking no one could every truly know and accept the sissy, yet alone sissy baby inside of me. As time and life evolved I came across the Virtual Master program. I loved it. It brought me back to my high school days of BASIC programming and the fun I used to have spending hours trying to create exactly what I wanted and how I wanted it. I came up with the idea of creating a virtual Mommy. Someone who knows me and encourages me to be the best person I can be. Accepting ALL of me and helping me to find a full, well balanced life. With the help of the program and a very wonderful, amazing women I have been able to find that balance. As with everyone, I am forever in search of who I am and how I can be the best person that I can be, but life is a journey and far too short for way too many. I decided to make a trial version of the mommy solution program that I created so that others might be able to use it to experience what it might be like to have a Mommy greet you in the morning and give you instructions on how you might find a better, more rounded life. Of course, like any other mommy, if your not a good listener you will be punished. If your interested in trying it simply download the encrypted script I've included. In order to use it you will have to download the Virtual master program. It's completely free just like my script. Download the latest version of the Virtual Master program from here: http://virmst.eu/wp/download/ I've been working with this program for 15 years now and have never had a problem with a virus or malware. Place the script in the same folder as the Virtual Master program. Click on the Virtual Master icon and chose the Mommy Solution trail 3.0 to start the program. Enjoy! I hope someone might it of value. Mommy Solution trial 3.0.vmi

Great resources Eiido!! Thank you!!

Making your own hypnosis program using a video editing program may allow you to customize to your needs.

I've found the one's from baby-pants to be some of the best. You can also edit the file with free audio editing apps to remove the induction and end portions leaving the suggestive segment. Playing the suggestive portion over and over again on loop in the background will act as a subliminal tape and further reinforce. I further agree, it's not a magic pill, but it definitely reinforces the behaviors your working towards.

Hi.. Do internal deodorizers, like Nullo, really work? If so, which are the best to use and how often do you take them? I would really like to get into 24/7 diapers. I occasionally break down and use the potty for messing, but a major hurdle is the smell.

I was the youngest in the family so diapers were never available. I used to hunt in trash receptacles for used diapers and would put them on, or if I saw a used on laying on the ground would have a compulsion to put it on to see if it would fit. I would make my own diaper with the plastic meat wrap and paper towels. When alone I would go into a convenience store and if there was a hole in a diaper package would feel and smell the diapers. Still an amazing smell. This was all pretty much prepuberty.

Hi.. I'm currently 2 1/2 months into 24/7 diapers and the 12 month program. What have others who are doing the program experienced in regards to erections and orgasm. Does it put us back from weakening the pelvic floor muscles?

Hi Everyone, I've always been very shy and introverted. It used to be that I couldn't pee with someone else present. It certainly has an effect on my ability to find that relaxed draining feeling where i can wet in any position. Does anyone have any advice on how to achieve and maintain this ? I've been 24/7 for 2 months now. It is getting easier, but I think personality is a big factor in rate of achieving your goal too. If your an extrovert and don't really care I would think it would be much easier. That being said I have notice that my personality has changed to some degree during this journey. It's allowing me to be less shy and more open about who I am and what I want. Definitely changes to mind, body and spirit.

What an excellent story. Thank you for sharing and please continue...

Being diapered by a loving, caring partner is the most amazing feeling ever. My mommy makes sure I"m securely diapered every night. Nothing beats looking into her beautiful eyes as she diapers me.

I just wanted to give everyone an update. This past weekend was definitely a turning point for me. I'm soo excited!! Unfortunately there was a death in the family that meant an over 2 hour trip, time with family and then a drive home with others that didn't know about my diapers in the car. I asked my mommy if she thought I should wear a diaper or a pullup. She said "Don't you think a diaper would be best" I was in heaven! I quickly replied yes even though my nerves started to act up. The next question was ok now what do I wear. I ended up wearing a NS supreme with a large booster, fixing pants (thanks for the recommendation) and a onesie. I was lucky my tailor must have know I would be in diapers because there was lots of room for the extra bulk!! ? No noise that I could hear and certainly manageable bulk. I was definitely nervous but constantly telling myself that it is better to constantly wet than to flood to avoid leaks. I tried to own it and act like nothing had changed. I meet with family and friends I hadn't seen for quite some time and it all worked out great!!! ? No leaks!! It was a bit more bulky by the end and I felt a bit of a waddle when walking but I LOVED IT!! The people that I hid my diapers from for years were there and here I was thickly diapered like I always wished for. Mommy drove on the way home because I was sooo tired. The kids stayed with others so we were alone. She asked if I needed to change my "baby diaper" because she didn't want me to leak in my suit. I was about 3/4 wet surprisingly and changed in the back seat as she drove. I wish she would have stopped and changed me. I should have asked her. Maybe next time.... Thank diaper lasted about 8 hours. I tried to watch my fluid intake. The biggest problem I had was trying to wet and keep the drop feeling when in public and especially with others I know. I find myself holding very often. Sunday was my family reunion. EVERYONE was there... yikes. I wore the same after waiting to the last minute to change. It was soooo great to wear in front of everyone. Shorts.. a Long shirt and no one said a thing!!! ? Again... I had to focus on not holding and relaxing. That is definitely something I have to work on. I was very careful about my fluids and 12 hours later the diaper still was only 3/4 full. It lasted the entire day!!!!! ?

Mark.. Thanks so much for opening up and giving us the wonderful updates. Have you used any form of hypnotic tapes to help with your bed or daytime wetting? I thought I saw early on that you were using a chastity cage. Maybe I'm mistaken as I've been reading through quite a few threads. If you have you'd one in the past are you still using it? It's wonderful that you and your wife have such a good relationship. It sounds very similar to me and my Mommy as well. There are boundries we need to be careful with as any relationship is a 2 way adventure. Both partners needs have to be met. It sounds like you are doing the right thing and making sure she is happy and all her needs are met. I've told my Mommy that I would be ok with her cuckolding me but she just is not the type of person to do that. We roleplay cuckolding alot and talk about her boyfriend, but that is a far as it goes. She too is my soulmate without a doubt. She amazes me with her unconditional love.

Thanks @Stroller and @DaveeBEd. I'm thinking shaving in the shower may be the answer too. Now I wish I would have put that light in there when I renovated it. lol

Hi Everyone, First off thank you all for such great forum entries. I have learned so much about the process of unpotty training since I've started to read through them. It's really helped me on my journey as well. I'm now 1 month into 24/7 diapers and am really enjoying it immensely. It's definitely a challenge and exciting in many ways. I'm seeking urinary incontinence, but some loss of bowel would be ok too as long as it's manageable. As many of you have encountered I too am finding it easier and easier to wet in many positions and small amounts during the day. I was able to become a bedwetter before starting to loss daytime control so I'm hoping that will make daytime control leave even more quickly. With the help of my Mommy, I'm using the the Mistress Mommy solution program and the hypnotic file from Babypants for losing daytime control and edited the induction and end components to allow me to put it on a constant cycle so I can use it as a subliminal file as well. It's a great file and I would recommend it to anyone seeking loss of control. I'm also focusing on trying to maintain the reverse Kegal and the relaxed drop feeling as much as possible. Trying to convince my subconscious that it's better to constantly wet because there is less chance of leaking when not flooding my diaper. I'm wetting every 15-30 minutes easily now and sometimes finding my diaper is much more wet then I expected. Surprisingly I find the most difficulty time I have is not at work, but during the weekend when home or doing other things in public. Work is much more structured and I can plan to consciously relax and void during certain activities. I know changing is also very predictable and easy at work. I'm pretty activie and weekends are much less predictable and require much more planning from a diaper capacity standpoint as well as being able to avoid holding. I've been able to go to concerts and shows that I enjoy wearing a Northshore supreme with a small booster. That will typically get me at least 6 hours before I need to change without being too obvious in the bulge area. I tried the MegaMax from northshore and loved it, but it does get bulky very fast. The problem I find is that when in public I instinctively hold and can't release nearly as easy as I can in private. Any tips would be greatly appreciated. I've found a onesie and mesh pants a great addition to reduce noise and give some confidence. I have 2 more questions for someone with more experience... 1)I keep my body hair free except for my head and must shave at least my top half and privates daily and my legs twice a week. I usually shave at the sink, but it may take up to 20 minutes sometimes. I've put my wet nighttime diaper down on the floor under me to catch drips as I want to not have to think about it and wet freely. What do others use between the shower and putting your daytime diaper on to avoid drips? 2)Has anyone else untrained while using a chastity cage? I really enjoy the cage, and although it is a little more work cleaning in the morning I would like to continue if I can. I use a plastic cage I found on amazon. I find it decreases my sensation making it easier to wet and it also improved the full use of the diaper dramatically. Skin management can certainly be an issue. I've been using Avon Silicone glove around the cage and my diaper area and it really seems to work well. Has anyone else successfully untrained while wearing a cage? If so what kind of cage and what problems or benefits did you find? Thanks everyone!!