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It's a good question, but one I don't have an answer for. Sometimes I accidentally squeeze and the rest of the urine comes out. Sometimes I just leave it, if I can help it. So I guess, ultimately, it's bad to exercise control (even just a little bit). Leave your sphincter relaxed and let it ride.

No acquaintance of mine has ever noticed. Mostly because acquaintances of mine are never in a position to know or care.

Megamax is shite compared to the Rears Inspire+ Mega.

Welcome to Daily Diapers! The general consensus, to me, seems to be that one has to actively train to become a bedwetter. I've been wearing diapers to bed for years and only after untraining for almost 2 years am I starting to see results of sleep wetting. One of the best ways to prevent yourself from slipping into the path of sleep wetting would be to get up out of bed before you pee your diaper. Whether you go to the bathroom and sit on the toilet to pee your diaper or you stand up out of bed so you can pee standing up. This, I think, will be a good way to prevent sleep wetting.

- Severe / Total incontinence. - Squirts, small bladder releases. - No awareness of having to pee. Total amnesia. - Heavy wetting with infrequent pee dreams. - Permanent. - Mild/ occasional bowel incontinence. - Yes.

The rare instance where I have (and remember) a diaper dream usually involves me wearing an overflowing/leaking disposable around my family and I'm usually desperate to go somewhere to change, but in the process of doing so I'll always get interrupted or I'll be found out that I wear diapers, etc. I usually wake up needing to pee after unsuccessfully changing for whatever random dream-reason.

To my knowledge, Rearz sports the Mega Inspire+ diaper. They claim an 11,000 ml ISO capacity. I got the urge to try them and so far I'm very happy. They don't leak for a LONG time, I've been able to sleep wet without leaking, and not to mention they make you waddle after a while. Forget Megamax, too expensive for the cruising range it gives you. Mega Inspire+ is probably the best disposable adult diaper I've ever worn.

@Loveable_guy @StinkyBlueHyena I received my plugs from AliExpress about a week ago, but just as they came I took a 4-day vacation with my family so I didn't get to see my spoils until last Friday. I just remembered that I said I'd post pics of the metal frame plug but I'll just show what I got in total and do a little review on them. First off we have the anal dilator trainer plug. I got the black Medium and the black Large. I can fit the medium plug easily enough but my muscles are too weak to keep it in (I've been anal training for years at this point...). The large plug is a bit more difficult to get in but if I'm loosened up enough I can slip it in. The tension this size provides me helps to keep the dilator plug in for a short amount of time, but if my get a cramp and my bowels retract, it gets pushed out. Sitting on the large dilator for about 15 minutes made my anus sore enough to want to take it out for a bit. Here are some pics. Oh also, if you see any water spots or anything on these (and the rest of the plugs I show) plugs, they haven't been thoroughly cleaned yet from use and a lot of lubricant is still on them. medium plug large plug size comparison They were packaged well and the material itself is a sort of fuzzy-soft silicone. They looked to be in great condition. Next up is this wire frame tunnel plug. I ordered the Medium size. It's 3 inches in diameter at its widest and very rigid. I don't usually train with plugs that give zero resistance. Once properly loosened up I was able to get it in. I can't say this plug is at all comfortable. Instead of a solid continuous surface to hold open your anus it's a bunch of pressure points holding it open. These pressure points are highlighted whereas a normal plug of the same size would be a lot more comfortable. Due to the shape of this plug, a cramp is able to prevent me from keeping this plug in. It is a stainless steel plug that has no apparent burrs or sharp edges. It appears to be carefully welded, sanded, and buffed to ensure safety. I was able to put this plug in and take it out without injury (tho, there's a technique to it you'll have to figure out on your own). Side note: this is the tunnel plug that got me into trying different plugs on AliExpress. Here is a pic. This item arrived in good condition as well. The last wireframe plug then brought me to this weirdly shaped wireframe plug. I ordered the Medium size. It has an insertable width of almost 3 inches and is difficult to get in without proper technique. Like the plug before, it's extremely rigid and is not comfortable to wear (it may be comfortable in the future if I can get used to it). I can only keep it in for about 15 minutes before I have to take it out. The nice thing about the shape of this plug is if you have loose bowels and have a tendency to not be able to keep your anal toys in your anus because your muscles are too weak, then this plug is for you. It's so easy to relax your muscles and just let this plug hang in your rectum. The unique shape of this plug does a good job at preventing you from accidentally slipping it out. In fact, I can cough heavily and the plug stays in. Like the previous wireframe plug, this one is also stainless steel and has no burrs or unsafe corners. I was able to safely put it in and take it out without injury. Here's a few pics. Then I saw that the previous wireframe plug had the same design in silicone. I ended up getting the Small plug. Interestingly enough, this plug shipped the fasted (just a few days) so I got to try it out first. It's awkward at first because the silicone is flexible so you need to use good technique to get it in fully. Of all the plugs I've shown so far, this one is by far the most comfortable. Last night I put the plug in (hoping for a morning mess) and kept it in until about 3:30 pm this afternoon as my anus was getting pretty sore. Like the wireframe plug of this same design, the silicone plug also shaped in a way to prevent the plug from slipping out. Usually when I sleep with a plug in, it's out of my bum and in my diaper by morning. Not with this plug. It stayed in all night. Here's a pic. I'm definitely going to upgrade to the Large plug at some point. Last but not least, a mammoth of a tunnel plug, the "Anal Expander" tunnel plug. I ordered the whopping Black XL size sporting a maximum diameter of 3.27 inches. The silicone on this one is pretty tacky (easy for plastic to stick to it) so lots of lube is recommended. Only after loosening up pretty well have I been able to get this monster in my bum. It's so big and heavy that I can't even keep it in my anus for a second. I'm either sitting on it fully or its in the seat of my diaper while I stand up. A harness of some kind is highly recommended. Here's a pic. I also got extra locks and keys, this interestingly designed chastity cage (which is too small for me, unfortunately. I am going to have to figure out a way to modify it to make it work), two timer locks (max 99 hours 59 minutes), and this chastity cage (Minus) which kinda actually sucks. I hope my reviews and pictures were helpful for the initial inquiry and interesting as to the rest. Let me know if anyone has questions.

Glad I'm not the only one...

Lately I've been on the hunt for my new daily diaper now that ConfiDry 24/7 is no longer being produced, so my diaper phases have been changing due to this. In general, I try to wear a thinner diaper for when I know I have the potential to mess, otherwise I've been wearing very thick disposables to last me all day.

Same! I agree, it's not a lot of fun. What relaxant would you recommend? I've never researched it. Re: caffeine, ya got me. I am not sure I need a toilet to do meditative breathing in terms of peeing. When I feel pressure, what I usually do is try to relax and breathe out about 70% and hold it, and that usually gets things into gear. If I'm unsuccessful at that, I usually need to lay down on my back or stand up and let gravity do some work. In my younger years I'd get bladder flutters and it was easier to just go. Maybe a prostate problem? Hmm... I did just turn 40, lol. Right now my wife and I are experimenting on stent designs used to serve two purposes: to keep the bladder relaxed at all times, and of course, simulated incontinence. That's the future tho.

Part of my issue is that 9 times out of 10 I won't feel my bladder fill up until I get this dull discomfort in my bladder. Then a lot of the time I can't relax enough to "go". Sometimes it's only when my bladder pushes hard do I start to pee. Either that or it takes minutes of zen-like mental fortitude to pee on command, so I normally pee by flooding. I've not yet acquired frequent small voids and leaking. The dull bladder pain just gets on my nerves.

The only life hack I have for going 24/7 and sticking with it is to just keep putting on another diaper after you change. Make it routine. Don't play tricks on your mind and think you can take a break for a day or two. You either want to do it for one reason or another or you'll find a way not to. Just gotta commit. The rest comes over time as you manage your lifestyle with incontinence.

The best way I know of is to not easily trust people on the internet. Everyone hides behind an avatar online, you can't really trust what their profiles say, etc. Also, interact with online sites a lot less -- you can only be bullied online if you put yourself in that situation (not that it's your fault--people should never bully others on- or offline), but there are risks you take when putting yourself online for others to interact with. It can be a lonely road by limiting your activity online, but can also be a safe one. YMMV.

Cloth diapers can be quite comfy if you diaper yourself right. There are plenty of tutorials online for how to fold a cloth diaper. If you launder them properly they stay soft and absorbent. The downside to cloth is the extra work you need to put in to diaper yourself and to launder the soiled diapers. They are initially expensive but over time they can save you some $ down the line. And cloth is a good way to change things up when you're feeling rashy or chafed. "Kinda nervous but curious if I can actually manage this." You're incontinent, right? You've got no other choice but TO manage this. You'll find a way.

The term for the surgery you are looking for is "External Urethral Sphincterotomy". You can read more about it here. Unless you have a compelling medical reason for getting this surgery, it's going to be almost impossible to convince a licenced surgeon to perform this on you. And even then, do you really want the complications that come with it? Do more research to find out. Good luck.

I absolutely hate the feeling of needing to pee. On the flip side, the relief of peeing is also satisfying at times. Don't make the same mistake I did. After wearing 24/7 for almost 2 years now I've become so accustomed to be protected all the time that on the few occasions that I go without a diaper (either overnight or a few hours during the day at max) I have woken up peeing my bed thinking I was diapered when I actually wasn't. I got a little tipsy one night and while not diapered I randomly had to pee and just let go because, again, I was used to be protected all the time. In other words, at a certain point in the untraining process, it's not a good idea to ever go without a diaper if for no other reason than the one-off "intentional" accident that you didn't actually mean to have because your baseline is "I'm protected, so let it go" and bam, you've just accidentally "intentionally" wet your pants or bed. I've made this mistake more than once and now I just don't make the mistake of "airing out" without at least a chux pad or other protector (on my office chair, in my bed, etc.).

I'd like to stress that wearing 24/7 in itself is a mental game. Sometimes you just want to drop your diaper, dry off, and go to bed because you can't be bothered to put a new one one because it feels too inconvenient. This is a mental block you will need to get past. So try to practice NOT putting your undies back on after you feel fulfilled and just change into a new diaper. Do this consistently enough and you're basically wearing 24/7. I'd also like to stress that the "12 months" in the "12 month program" is actually a rapid timeline. It's rare that even with complete dedication that someone achieves functional diaper dependency in 12 months. Think about it more along the lines of 3 to 5 years in this case. Again, untraining is mostly a mental game. If your mind leads, your body will follow. The frustrating part about the 12 month program is when you've finally made it to your 1 year diaperversary going 24/7 and you find you're not as far along as you had imagined you would be. Forget all of that now before you untrain. Don't make the mistake of setting your expectations too high (best to not set any at all, but good luck with that) because you'll start to feel like you're not good enough to achieve what you want. It's best to take the untraining journey with the approach that you'll do what you can to untrain, and simply enjoy the 24/7 lifestyle, whether or not you make any good progress any time soon. Before untraining, the quicker you realize this process is 90% mental and 10% physical, the better off your mental health will be as you go through the untraining process.

For what it's worth, I ordered this "plug". It's still shipping.

I ordered a similar plug from AliExpress about a week ago. It's still shipping but I'll let you know the quality of the item when I get it. I'm hoping I don't have to remove any burrs or polish it up... we'll see.

You might enjoy a quicker progress than me and others here. In that case, good luck!

Glad to see you have a thread on your progress. Keep at it!

Hi @Diaper Duck, glad to see you stopping by! Good luck on starting on your progress soon. Hopefully you have a source of income other than SSI to help you buy good diapers, it can get expensive. A decent less expensive line of products that I find to work well enough are Abena M4/L4. I'll be sure to keep you all updated on my progress. So far it's pretty slow. I think I'm having more steady progress on mental changes than physical ones. A big one is to find a way to completely trust your diaper. Once you can do that, it gets a lot easier. Something I still have to work on sometimes, hehe. Hope all is well, cheers!

I've had my fair share of drunken stupors with a non-zero count of wetting the bed. I did wet myself while I was awake once but I was not wearing a diaper at the time. Not so much that I didn't have control but I've been wearing diapers for so long I had thought I was already wearing. Woops.

Also, you can change your username on the forums.