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White, it is what they had when I was a toddler in diapers, and nothing says "diaper" more than a plain white diaper to the older folks. Younger ones in their 20's may think more of their Pampers or Huggies with prints like Mickey Mouse or other toddlerish prints, at least on the landing zones. I get what I can when they have diapers at Goodwill. Typically they are cloth backed but can also be plastic backed, lower end diapers like Prevail, McKesson, low end Attends and others. Even though they are low end store type diapers, they are good for 3 hours and for $3 a pack of 20 I can't complain. Some are white, light blue, tan or even light green in color. Color coded by size. When I buy premium diapers like Betterdry, Abena, Trest or others, they are usually white. I know Mega Max and other Northshore diapers come in colors and I do like the tie dye colors and the black Mega Max color,, but I prefer white. That said, I do like the Rearz Lil Rebels with the skull and crossbones and I also got the Halloween diaper wrap because I like Halloween and the colors were so cool as is the design.

Liquor for medicinal purposes, I suppose?

Cloth backed Attends. I flooded it after putting it on. Be in it for about an hour or so only.

Put on a diaper and shit in it!

Had my gall bladder out almost 30 years ago. Nothing to it. I stayed overnight and went home the next day. Felt so much better! Gall stones, or in my case, sludge feels like a kidney stone. Pain is bad, make that excruciating! Once gall bladder was removed, never had that pain again except when I had the occasional kidney stone.

Like when I get a caller that says, "I was "there" yesterday.... Where the hell is "there"?

Unusual for me today. I got out one of my contoured cloth diapers and pinned it on. Took a few tries to get it pinned on just tight enough. Then I got out a pair of cloth covered super crinkly plastic pants with a Harry Potter design I got well over 20 years ago and slipped them over my cloth diaper. I mean these pants are loud! I live in the Midwest and I think they could be heard in New York! I have to do some laundry today so in a few hours I'll change from this cloth diaper into a disposable diaper while I toss this in the wash with my casual dress pants and polo shirts.

Cloth backed diaper, I think it's a Prevail.

Looks dumb!

That sums it up the best!

Sometimes many years later you just have to buy that favorite item you had as a kid. I've done it several times and thank God for places like EBAY and people who took great care of their things all their lives who now want to part with them. Life is too short, especially the older we get not to splurge now and then on something that brings back fond memories of our childhood.

Is that referring to your gun or your diaper?

Glad you asked! Even though I dropped a pretty big load in the toilet when I got up this morning, I have the feeling that more poo is inside me wanting to eventually come out. I chose a plastic backed Molicare with a booster pad and really coated my bottom, scrotum and between my legs with Vaseline knowing how well it helps when cleaning up skin from a diaper full of poop. After securely taping on my diaper, I pulled up a thick large pair of yellow KINS plastic pants for extra protection. I am not one who likes really thick bulky diapers that make you waddle, but I did decide to put on my Rearz Lil Rebels thick training pants over my plastic pants. Very thick and bulky but soft and cushions my butt very well when sitting. To top everything off I have on a snap crotch onesie. Usually even with the plastic pants and onesie there is enough slack that my diaper sags when wet, but with the added thickness and bulk of the training pants, it has taken up the slack and my diaper is firmly held in place where I taped it on. That extra thickness may make for a lot more interesting feeling when I fill my diaper in a little while.

Places where you can duck behind the curtains if someone walks by?

For years the vintage Attends have been high priced on EBAY. Some are up to $100 for a single diaper. The thing people often screw up when listing something on EBAY is the price they start the bidding at. They look at similar items and then list their own really high, saying, "Others on EBAY are selling for this price". NO! They are listed at that price, but they aren't selling! Listed price and price sold for are way different! I do admit there are probably enough people out there who would be willing to pay upwards of $100 for a few vintage Attends from the early 1990's, but why? As good as my memories of those vintage Attends are, if I paid $100 for a diaper I'd never use it! Why pay that much to pack it away on a shelf somewhere just to look at it every year or so when cleaning the closet?

If it's not too graphic, why not describe your changing and clean up process as you mention in your posts you can do it quickly and efficiently. I'm sure a lot of us would appreciate your tips.

I have to second what ppdude said. Years ago I read all kinds of things about how Confidry 24/7 were the greatest and most absorbent diapers and always wanted to try them. A few years later when I went to order some, members here told me Betterdry were actually a much better diaper so I got those instead. I was still curious about the Dry 24/7 so next time I ordered diapers I got some. I was not impressed with the fit or comfort compared to Betterdry (which is now my go-to for premium diapers). Over time even Betterdry doesn't seem to have quite the capacity they did 4 or 5 years ago, but still a superior diaper.

I only wear 24/7 if I take a solo vacation every two years, and I drive, no train or plane. Makes it much easier to pack a suitcase and duffel bag with diapers, plastic pants, onesies and disposable bed pads. No need worrying about checking luggage at an airport or having baggage inspected or even going through TSA checkpoints diapered. I pack the back of my SUV with my duffel and suitcase of diapers the night before, also anything diaper related such as empty plastic grocery bags for bagging my used diapers. I always pack more than I think I will need. Better to have and not need than to need and not have. The next morning I put my cooler with pop and my GPS in the car and load up anything else. Last thing I do before leaving is put on my premium diaper of choice, Betterdry or this last year, Trest, then good plastic pants and a regular t-shirt onesie. Shorts go over it all, and I like short legged shorts, maybe 4-1/2 to 5 inch legs at the most. To me, shorts are not shorts if they go down to your knees. This combo may seem a bit bulky but with denim shorts, the fabric is thick enough to help with the bulkiness, and the short legs also flair out somewhat and help (as long as I sit so no one can see up the leg openings). I do not mess when on a trip, just wet my diapers and it's always a good idea to stop and walk every 2 hours to relieve pressure on your sciatic nerves. With good premium high absorbency diapers I can make several stops and even see some sites along the way to my destination without having to always worry about needing to change my diaper. This last trip I started with a Trest diaper at 8am and I didn't change it until 3pm. It could have gone longer but it was getting really heavy and sagging a bit, even with the plastic pants, onesie and shorts to help keep it in place. Here is a tip. On a trip I plan out an itinerary weeks in advance, knowing where I will stop and what I plan on seeing well before I get to my hotel. I knew my diaper wouldn't last until I got to my hotel around 8 or 9pm and would most likely need changed, so I bought a small shoulder bag that holds 2 premium diapers and a small package of wipes. Backpacks are a lot bigger and bulkier and many places will ask you to take it off and leave it at the front of their business. A small shoulder bag does not draw as much attention, same as a lady with a purse. Even if someone wants to look in it, I say it's medical needs and I can show them. After all, they are strangers out of town or out of state and they don't know me, I don't know them and will probably never see them again. When planning my trip, I know what stop I'm going to make when it's around the time I figure I'll need to change diapers, and that helps with my planning. In this case on my trip it was a small car museum that was housed in an old showroom from the 1930's with half of it in the service department. As luck would have it, the service side had an old men's room with an outer door lock just perfect for diaper changing. I asked the person taking admission if I could get my bag and change "my brief" in the restroom explaining incontinence, and he said it was no problem. Again, I don't know him, he won't give it a second thought when I leave. Being responsible, I double bagged my diaper in plastic grocery bags and deposited it in the trash bin. Being able to check out places when you get there, getting the "lay of the land" so to speak helps you decide if there is a restroom where you can change diapers in privacy. Had this not seemed a good place, there are always gas stations with restrooms, many with outer door locks. Otherwise, changing in a handicap stall or even in a fast food restaurant can be done knowing whoever may come in while you are changing may be aware of what you are doing but most likely will give you a grin and that's it. You won't ever see that man again, and should he say anything, I'd give him a, "What? You have issues with people who have a disability?" That should shut anyone up. Again I plan my trip so I have an idea when I will need to change diapers and I'm usually not more than 5 to 10 miles from my hotel. When I know I am about to need to change, I will take a run back to my hotel room and change diapers hoping room service is not cleaning my room. Knowing how long my tours are going to run and if I have to be there at a specific time allows me to decide if I should change first to be safe or if I can last through the tour. There are some threads here where people on trips think they need to tell the hotel staff they are bedwetters and wear diapers. I say WRONG! They just do it because I think part of them gets their jollies by telling people they wear diapers. When staying at a hotel, everyone should treat their property as their own! Yeah, I've seen photos of people's soaked and stained sheets and mattresses here because they like sleeping in pee stained smelly beds. If that is there thing at home, so be it. It has no place at someone else's home or hotel. Instead of requesting a plastic sheet from the hotel, you make sure before you leave home that the combination of protection you wear to bed will not leak and get their bedding wet, not even a drop. If your diaper at home leaks, get better diapers, add a booster, plastic pants and if still not 100% sure, sleep on a large disposable bed pad. I did all this before my trip, had no issues with leaking at all but still wore plastic pants and slept on a disposable bed pad to be safe. Not one leak and that same disposable bed pad lasted me the whole trip as it remained dry the whole time. For what people pay overall on a vacation trip, spending a few bucks for a package of disposable bed pads is not going to hurt. Another hotel tip has to do with disposing of used diapers. I only wet and I might be able to take my diapers out each day and dispose of them at public trash bins, but I was averaging 4 diapers daily. Tossing one out here and there is OK, but 4 bagged up diapers is a bit much. I bring along 50 to 100 plastic grocery bags and when changing diapers in the hotel room, I double bag the wet diapers and place them in the trash can. They are double bagged, you really can't see through the plastic at what is inside, although housekeeping probably has an idea what's in them. If bagged up securely in double bags in a sanitary manner and tied tight, there shouldn't be an issue. Just don't remove your diaper, roll it up and toss it in the trash without bagging it up securely. I'm sure housekeeping has tossed out thousands of used baby diapers and probably many adult diapers as well and are used to it. Just do it properly and respect housekeeping. When going to a major attraction like an amusement park or Disney World, realize most of them have restrooms for special needs people including family rest rooms, handicap restrooms and places where a person can do what they need in privet. Some have rental lockers where you can put your supplies until you need them. When I was at Hershey Park for the day, I had my shoulder bag and really didn't want to carry it through the park but I found paying $20+ for renting a locker was too steep a price. It was better anyway that I carried it with me as there were family restrooms all through the park and I didn't have to walk all the way from one end to the other just to get my diapers out of a rental locker when I needed to change. Anyway, if any questions about special restrooms at such places, you can contact them via their website well before your trip and ask questions about family restrooms, handicap restrooms and even that you have incontinence and if there are places where you can change in privet. Their customer service will be glad to answer any of your questions and point out all the area's throughout their park where they have handicap and family restrooms. A road trip via automobile in diapers 24/7 is not a difficult thing as long as you plan ahead, set your itinerary and think out what you will be doing and where you can change when needed, especially if you are not near your hotel. A small shoulder bag and some more discreet restrooms at attractions, gas stations and even other places may at times be a bit uncomfortable or lightly embarrassing, but always remember, people who may know what you are doing are going to be strangers who you will never see again. Why be bothered by that?

When I travel solo for a vacation it's about the only time I go 24/7 (no messing). Premium diapers that can go 7 hours (plastic pants for extra security) work well enough. I drive on my trips and if I have to change before reaching my hotel, I can find a place. I have a small shoulder bag that can hold 2 premium diapers and a pack of wipes and I had no problem changing diapers in a museum restroom, or a family restroom with an outer door lock at Hershey Park. My diapers are bulky, especially with plastic pants but a onesie helps, and even with short legged shorts I doubt anyone notices. Family like at a brother's condo might be different though, especially the bulk of a premium diaper as opposed to pull-ups. I carry in my car at least 50 to 100 plastic grocery bags that I can double bag my used diapers when I need to toss one out along the way when traveling. Even stopping in a town there are big trash cans in front of fast food places, grocery stores or gas stations that I can casually toss my bagged up diapers in when stopping for a few snacks or to fill up the car. Even use the restroom at a gas station if I need to make a quick change. Yes, at my hotels I bagged up my wet diapers and put them in the trash can in the room. The first day I came back to find the room had been cleaned but the double bagged diapers in the trash can under the sink had not been emptied. I was going through about 3 to 4 diapers a day, heading back to the room between seeing the sites to change when needed, plus my night diaper so before leaving the next morning, I pulled the large liner out of the trash can (currently holding the 4 diapers from the previous day plus the 4 new diapers I had gone through, all double bagged), tied it up and set in in the middle of the floor just inside the door to my room. When I came back later, the room had been cleaned and the diapers removed. It's trash, securely bagged up and even though they are adult diapers, I'm sure housekeeping has tossed out many of their guest's baby diapers and I'm sure their share of adult diapers as well. A nice tip for housekeeping is a good idea. I'm not sure how to handle it at your brother's condo. Wearing bulky diapers would probably be a lot more obvious than pull ups but they may mean fewer changes to dispose of. Is there any way you could take diapers or pull-ups discreetly to your car and then dispose of them away from the condo, like at a gas station, supermarket trash can or some public place that has public trash bins for public use? I think finding disposal locations away from his place would be doable, it's getting them discreetly out of the house to your car when you change to take them away somewhere.

I just wonder, since you are an adult baby and have been here for years, why you are messing around (no pun intended) with Goodnites instead of just wearing an adult diaper, especially for medicine induced diarrhea? It seems to me even low end store type adult diapers (I get most of mine at Goodwill) would be better for diarrhea than a Goodnite or disposable underpants, and easier to change.

I've been saying this for years. Technology is making people stupid! They rely on it for everything from having their groceries ordered and delivered, to tossing the package in a machine which then automatically cooks it for them. Only thing it doesn't do (yet) is eat it for them! Self driving cars, Alexa that does everything for them including turning off and on the lights, the furnace, locking the doors, starting their cars, playing their music and reminding them of appointments. Soon people won't even know how to open their doors, take their medications, get themselves a glass of water, answer their phone (or make a call) or even wipe their ass after going to the bathroom! Sad sad world! Is it any wonder for years aliens depicted in movies have huge heads and eyes with a withered body and withered arms and legs? That is the way we are headed with relying on stupid technology to do every simple task for us instead of doing it for ourselves! I'll laugh my butt off when a circuit goes out on their smart device and a person no longer knows how to shut off his furnace or water taps, can't unlock or open their door and is unable to even call for help. He will starve because he can't make his own meals, that is if he is not killed when his self driving car runs off a cliff because of a faulty component!

Perhaps you need to approach it from the standpoint of meditation or hypnosis. Many people have turned to hypnotic tapes to help them achieve their goal of incontinence. Maybe some type of hypnotic tape to help you get over being "pee shy" and any possible mental blocks, conscious or unconscious that prevents you from letting go in your diaper wherever and whenever. Even after 7 years in diapers, it can be hard mentally to overcome the potty training and social ideas people have that it's not acceptable to choose to wear diapers and just go in your pants instead of a potty.

Problems after surgery in Mexico to become incontinent that many people warned you about? Imagine that!

I hope when she gets old and craps her pants you remind her of the beating she gave you for messing your pants as a child when you were sick!

For some people it is a fetish. For others it may not be. For me, it is a fetish and has been all my life, and since it is a fetish in my case, I believe my use of that word in my prior response is appropriate for my situation as I was referring mostly to me. My response and use of the word fetish, I'm sure, can also apply to many others here. A thing to keep in mind is a general statement or reply on a topic is not usually specifically targeted to one person only, but a general comment that may or may not apply to some individuals but will apply to others.