Recently my wife found out about my interests.
I was careless with a wet slip but because I'd already warned her that I had this 'terrible' desire she did nt freak like I thought she would.
Since we had a chat, I have shown her my online posts on another board about how I longed to tell her (And the replies I received)and also showed her much of this board.
She's not ready to 'join in' but has asked me "Did you want me to get involved?" which is hopefully a good sign.
What she does nt understand is that I never wanted to change any of my kids diapers when they were babies.
I'll leave it for a couple of weeks and then broach the subject again.
As for anyone else, no, it's a secret I keep from everyone. Although it's easy for me as I still control my bodily function so only wear when I want to, not when I have to.