Dougie

Welcome to DD. You are with friends here.

I'm not religious. I am spiritual. I know there is something after this life, but I'm not sure what. I do know our spirits exist after we die. There is too much evidence to not believe there is not something after this life.

Good job helping keeping DD alive.

I do. I wouldn't get out of the bathroom if I didn't.

The ammonia smell will get very strong and bacteria will start adding to that smell. It will be very nasty and noticeable before you reach 36 hours. Also, you may not get the barrier jelly in all of the right places that the urine will find. You will get a rash anyway.

When you use the rep system to neg or plus someone just because of that persons political views you are using it to spread hate. It also goes to prove that the system is pretty much useless.

She was crossing to Canada FROM the USA. If she was crossing from Canada she would be going to court in Canada, bot New York state. If the country keeps going the way it currently is it will soon be as bad, if not worse, than living in the current USSR.

Granted: Stupidity is cured by ignorance. I wish I could fly.

Maybe she sold her house and wanted out of the "soon-to-be" U.S.S.A.

I have to keep a regular supply or it will get very messy wherever I go. I trying to find a good cloth option that is not bulky that doesn't leak easily. That way I can reduce the money I spend on diapers.

I keep a washable pad on my bed on top of my bottom sheet. That helps is I wet while sleeping on my side and I leak. It keep the sheets dry. I have a couple to use. If they are both in the wash I wear a pair of Gabby's bed wetter pants over my night diapers. I hate leaks and the Gabby's alone aren't enough by themselves most night. I know that I wet more than one time per night no matter mow much I drink before bed time.

Don't worry too much about tipping them. They are paid to provide that service if needed. Tip them if you think they went above and beyond. Just my $0.02.

Not everyone has a desire to have a hole cut into their side just have a bag of mostly digested crap hanging on them. There is also the irritation, infections and bags to empty so they don't burst. I would suspect doctors are pushing the colostomy bags more than people asking for them. Doctors make money off of colostomy surgery and maintenance of the colostomy site. They don't make any money from diapers.

There's always the military. Sorry to hear about your situation. Good luck.

Welcome. Post any questions you might have. Many here will respond to you pretty quickly.

Welcome. Never been to Hawaii. I'm former Army. There are a few of us here.

one of the biggest downsides to pull-ups is that you have to take off your pants to change them. A tape on diaper can be changed without stripping from the waist down, and is much easier to do in a standard bathroom stalls if you do it standing up.

Granted. Bambino went to a "single tape" system. Now you have a choice of the left or the right, but not both. I wish my kidney stone would hurry up and pass.

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Wow! Great donation Julie! I guess I need to make a bit more room in my current budget to help more.

First thing I would suggest is quit posting things about your relationship on the internet. Discretion goes miles toward trust between partners. Any sexual or emotional should stay private. Take time to build a relationship with her, without the diapers. Eventually you can bring the diapers back into your life, don't involve her at this point. In time she will bring up the subject of diapers. Let her bring it up. Don't push it on her.

Ultra Active Plus has velcro tabs to hold really well.

DailyDi - When you have the best you will be a target to others. When you offer the best for free, anyone who operates a "pay" site will hate you for it. These are facts that will not change no matter how much you want it to. Repaid1 - I hope things improve for you. You may want to talk to the VA again. The earlier you get help the quicker it will be to get back on track.

Better leak gathers in Attends, and more absorbent core to hold more.

I have done that more times than I care to count.