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I remember when they did that to Attends... was devistated. However, found abena xplus, and love those even better. I just hope hey don't plan on changing those any time soon (no pun intended)

Awwwwwwwwww, thanks runaway for thinking of me! I do like it!

Mickey Mouse..... or... Morris the Moose.... or.......

Kermit

I agree with everyone else that this is a tradgedy. I have my own opinions as to why the world is the way that is, but I will keep those to myself..... however, I will say this.... Its not so much the 2 hour window that bothers me, as much as it is the information they had even BEFORE this all happened. If someone would have done their job, and reported him, or kept him under surviallance because of his dark, disturbing writings, or the fact that he had 2 stalking reports against him prior to this whole incident, this WHOLE thing could have been AVOIDED. That is what pisses me off..... As far as the 2 window is concerned, I do understand people's anger on this, however, going to college right now, I can also understand where the school is coming from. I was thinking about that, the day all of this happened, what if it happened on my campus, would I know? Probably not, one because I don't live on campus, and two, while traveling to school (20 minute drive), I probably would have missed the email that would have been sent about what happened. Unfortunatly, there doesn't seem, atleast on our campus, a way to inform anyone that this has happened. Maybe colleges will think more deeply about how they can communicate to classrooms, professors, and students, like an innercom system. Its sad that something so tradgic has to happen to make our world think of how they can make us safer. With our college, we have one main building where all the classrooms are held, so I don't think it would be all that difficult to get an innercom system into place...but of course, money is all an issue. I do give kudos to the dean of students, after the VA Tech incident, he did send out a mass email to all the student body to inform them that they are doing everything possible to continue to keep us safe, and that we should update our emergency contact files. It was nice to be reassured, that even though you may never see the dean in person, that he does care about his school and the safety of his students and faculty. My thoughts and prayers do go out to everyone affected by this tradgedy, I can only hope that we will learn from this.

Gerry Giraffe

Because he always explodes elephants in the chatroom.... duh

I'm so glad the forum police are out and about doing their job.... I can so sleep better at night knowing that the forums are being well watched over and guarded... or bumped.... bumpty bump bump..... And yes ladies and gentlemen that was sarcasm...and maybe a little way too much Mt Dew...lol

E..... hmmm..... I think Peter should be posting this one, but since he's not here, I'll do it in honor of him.... Exploding Elephants lol

I would think that its your diapers, not so much you.... I use to wear depends when I was first into the scene and I had problems leaking. When I switched to Attends, I didn't have that much trouble with leaking, but then Attends changed their stuffing and I looked for something new and thats when I found Abenas x plus. I have been wearing that kind of brand close to 3 years now, and have yet to leak. I know that some of the 'good' diapers are more expensive, however, you don't leak, and you don't have to change as often as the 'bad' diapers. To me its well worth the extra cost. And if you are worried about diapers coming in the mail, you really shouldn't, they ship in unmarked boxes. When I lived in NC, I lived in an apartment complex, and the big boxes went to the office.... I never had a problem... so no worries!

O............ Othello

Gin.... or.....hmmmm

Whats that saying?? You get what you pay for?? Maybe if you tried some better diapers you would find out that you leak less. I have yet to leak in my diapers and I have wet more than 4 times in them and have worn them for several hours. I'm sure its easier for us girls, esp at night, but I'm sure there are a lot of boys out there that do not have a problem leaking esp with a good diaper. I wear abena x plus and still have yet to leak.... another good thing to try is stuffers, like using acutal pampers...that helps hold more. However, I do agree, that I could or do not wish to be incont nor wish to wear 24/7, no matter if I leak or didn't leak, its just my preference. And I personally don't understand why anyone would want to be incont.....

Sorry if you took my post as being sarcastic to you, but it just seemed like yours was not so innocent either in referring as if I didn't read the thread. I did read it, but like i said obviously overlooked something....and on that note.... I apologize and conclude this post

Well apparently I made a mistake and over looked an important part of this thread... God forbid anyone does that

I know what warn % you are speaking of, but I have noticed that some profiles do not have them listed, is there some way of hiding them from other members to view?

Body: 1. Are you taken? Yep Yep... engaged 2. Are you happy? I would say probably 98% of the time.... i hate being depressed and sad 3. Name one good quality about the person you are with. sensitive...in a good way 4. Name one thing s/he likes about you. my diapers... umm... ok.... my personality... so he sas 5. If you can go anywhere right now, where would that be? To Pennsylvania, Kentucky, and North Carolina, to see my family that I haven't seen since Christmas...and my dad whom I haven't seen in 2 1/2 years 6. Favorite come on line? a/s/l 7. Worst person you have ever dated? No one was that bad 8. First love? Bobby Nickels.... 9. Ever had your heart broken? Of course! 10. Ever broken someones heart? Yes 11. What attracts you to someone? Their personality and sense of humor 12. Hottest celebrity? so out grew that in HS lol 13. How can you tell if someone likes you? I guess if they continously stalk you lol 14. What do you do when you like someone? Depends on who it is, but probably give them gifts 15. Do you like to be romantic? At times 16. Do you like to be romanced? Sometimes 17. What do you need most in a realtionship? Love and Understanding 18. Favorite love song? love songs.... blah 19. Are you usually the one to make the first move? heck no... im too shy 20. Wine or beer? Neither, I don't drink... I'm allergic 21. Whats your favorite type of kiss? lol... ummm... a wet one?? dry ones make your lips stick together lol 22. Favorite position? are we talking about sports?? or ummmm..... well thats kind of personal 23. Are you hard to please? yes and no... depends on what it is 24. Best moment ever? When my then bf proposed to me on Christmas Day 25. Worst moment ever? when my grandmother died 26. Your a sucker for.....? blue eyes 27. You hate....? whiners 28. You wish....? I was teaching now 29. Give out one secrect... but my secrets from the vanilla world... would not be surprising here...so dont know 30. What are your hopes for the future? get married, move, graduate from school, get a job.... be happy for the rest of my life 31. Worst fear? my mom dying 32. Name one thing that people dont know about you? I use a paci.. some people know about the diapers 33. Who do u want to see take this? Some of my friends on DD

So today in the chatroom someone, who is obviously a member of the community and most likely a DL since they made a comment about us Abs, decided that they were going to say some things about us ABs. This person, who I will remain nameless, wanted to know why ABs need to act like they have special needs and developmental disabilities. I myself, being an AB, find this rather rude and offensive, and I personally do not think that I have special needs etc. or even act this way during roleplaying..... So I guess what I want to know is what are your thoughts on this? Do you find this to be offensive as an AB or do you agree with what was said?

I'm glad I wasn't the only one that was confused on Baby Rosie's post. lol

I go out diapered alot in my abena xplus and if anyone has noticed no one has ever said anything. The most babish clothing I go out in is usually a jumper with a tigger patch on it, and my yellow tshirt with a block patch on it, but usually have a coat on, so you can't see any of the patches, but daddy and I both know its there so thats good enough for us! Besides, I'm a girl, I would probably get away with it! lol

Cats or Dogs? Wow this one is hard... i would have to say Either... I love my cat, but I love my two Siberian Huskies Bike or Car? Car, I can get there faster not to mention too many bicyclists get hit here in Portland City or Countryside? Countyside, I want my privacy to be able to wear diapers outside in just a tshirt! Spring, Summer, Autumn or Winter? Autumn, I just love it! The smells and the color of the leaves! Cookies or Candies? Cookies....yummy Butter or Margarine? Either cause I use both TV or CD? Either, but probably would pick TV more Shower or Bath? Shower....atleast twice a day..... the baby side perfers baths, but doctor says no Disposable or Cloth? Disposable baby here! Chatrooms or Forums? Either, but I like the chatrooms more.... got to love the drama lol

I really can't help you there Gary, just the thought of formula makes me want to throw up. Its from all the years of making bottles when I worked at the daycare, I think the smell turned me off then to the point where there is no way in hell I'll drink formula today lol Congrats on finding a mommy

Relationships fail numerous of times whether they are AB related or not. With any relationship each person must give a 100% and give many compromises, which many people forget. Not only that but most people fall into the trap that Love is a feeling, it should be bubbly and they should feel it ALL the time, that is so not the case. There are going to be many days you don't feel like loving the person you are with and that bubbly feeling is NOT there all the time, esp when your partner has done something to make you mad. And usually when the feelings have gone away, most people believe the LOVE has gone away, and thus they go about saying, I'm not in love with you anymore. Love is a give and take, its definitely a compromise, its forgiving, its doing anything and everything for that person whether or not you want to (ie, going to the opera etc...blah opera)... Love is a commitment, but when it comes to an AB relationship we tend to forget that this is a big compromise and a give and take. I feel that most AB relationships fail because they do not base their relationship on anything but the the AB/daddy or mommy side of things. Realistically, you can not be a baby 24/7, That is not giving 100%, and that definitely is not a compromise, and definitely beyond being selfish (you have to think, what am i giving to my partner if im a baby 24/7) , not to mention you must be running away from something, and what really gets me are those who say they are 24/7, but yet they still do adult things ... ok sorry getting off subject here..... anyways, as I was saying, any relationship must be based on adult life, regardless of what you want, you still are an adult and you still have adult responsibilities. What do you do in a relationship when you aren't roleplaying?? If you can't connect on an adult relationship then the AB relationship will not last. ABs (and yes I am one) are so quick and so worried about finding a 'mommy' and 'daddy' that they forget when that 'mommy' and that 'daddy' is no longer roleplaying there are adult things that need to be done, like cleaning house, paying bills, working, cooking, grocery shopping, and just doing adult activities..... ok rambling.... I guess what I'm trying to say is this.... an adult relationship must be established first, and the daddy/baby or mommy/baby relationship should be seen as a bonus. If you can't relate outside of the roleplaying aspect then your relationship is not going to work because like I said, in reality, you can't roleplay 24/7.... I personally would be bored with it, and it wouldn't be all that special... I love my adult life and I know that the AB is part of me, and does not control me, unfortuantely for some it does, and thats not healthy. Also, the AB side of the relationship should be met as well, because we all know, including myself, if that AB side is not met, sadness, depression can set in. You need some kind of release as well My story.... I met my daddy online over 3 years ago in the abdl yahoo room... We actually were friends for three months before even moving into the daddy/baby relationship. We established a friendship even before the talk of anything more came about. We talked online and on the phone for 6 months before visiting each other. After about three visits, another 6 months of talking I moved to be with him (I was in NC and he was in OR). We have been living together for 2 1/2 years, and will be married in October 2007. We have a wonderful adult relationship, our daddy/baby relationship needs a little work, which we are working on, and it is hard esp with adult life getting in the way, and those unexpected vistors like friends and families, or situations that come up unexpectedly, but we are definitely working on it, but I still love him, no matter what.....

Ahhhhh, the life of an AB living off her daddy.... can it get any better than that!?!!?!? Well, I taught preschool for 4 years in Pennsylvania, and then 3 years in North Carolina. I currently have an Associates degree in Early Childhood Education. Now living in Oregon with my daddy, I'm going back to school full time to earn my bachelors degree in Early Childhood and Elementary Education. I will graduate, hopefully with honors, in December 2007. I am looking forward to teaching again, hopefully at a 4th grade level. After about a year of teaching, I will go for my Master's degree. I am seriously thinking about teaching at a college level in the future. Until then.... I live the life that many ABs wish they did.... off of daddy

I would have to agree with jenniebear on this as far as not wanting to be accepted by the media or the world. I don't think having the world accept my lifestyle will make me any more happy than I already am. I feel what goes on in your house, in your bedroom, between your partner or just by yourself is your business and no one elses. I think that is why i enjoy the abdl websites because I am able to share these things with people who actually understand where I am coming from. I don't see a point or even understand why I need to share this with other people who are not going to understand it in the first place. I have many vanilla friends whom I have shared it with, some accepted it, some never spoke to me again, but hey, don't need friends that can't support me in my decision. I think we are just setting ourselves up for disappointment and hurt, even more than you already experience in this scene, by trying to get the media and the like to accept something that they, like I said, will never understand. I also agree with jenniebear of the fact that maybe its not so much getting society to accept it as much as it is the people around you. Maybe your thinking is, if society accepts it then maybe the people that I love around me will, unfortunatly thats not going to be the case, everyone of us is judgemental of the next person even if we try not to be. However, I do feel that if our lifestyle does come out to those who love you and they do not accept it then that is their problem not yours. I feel that if my family ever found out they would still love me, they might not accept the lifestyle as the whole, but they would still accept me as their daughter....and if I have their acceptance do I really need to have society's? After all, I'm not society's daughter. I think with any thing else in our lives, to each their own. Everyone sees things differently, what one person might think is crazy to do in their lives might be perfect for the next person. I am open minded about this scene, there are so many different aspects that go with it, and I'm still trying to understand where people are coming from. Personally, I don't understand the diaper slave aspect of it. This still boggles my mind, but I am trying to learn more about it from those whom are into it, and I think they know who they are. If I'm into the diaeprs, but don't undertand the whole diaper slave thing, then how do you expect people on the outside to accept it or even to understand something that they themsleves are not into? Do you personally understand everything that you are not into? Ok, I think I have rambled on long enough, and maybe some people won't agree with what I have to say, but its whats on my heart and my mind. I personally, don't need society to accept who I am, nor do I really care if the abdl scene gets acknowledgement in society, im not into it to be accepted by those who are ignorant in the first place. I am happy with who I am and what I am into, and I am happy to share it with my significant other, who knows and accepts it and understands it because he too is into the scene. If you want the media to accept it, and thats your wish in life, then have that wish, but don't assume everyone feels the same way as you do.