littlebabymelly

George, Firstly; I think that you are very brave to consider doing this and asking for opinions on this subject. I think you knew that it would spark controversy, and that is what you need, you need the good the bad and unfortunatly the downright ugly. This will enable you to make a balanced and mature decision. In response to your post; like many others on here it sparks quite raw emotions, personally. A friend of mine has been incontinent for most of his life, last year he had an operation on his bladder, to help him to regain some control. This worked but he since has developed a tumour that is now threatening his life. On a daily basis I see how incontinence affects his whole life, but I do not see the half of it and I know that he struggles far more than anyone really can conceivably give him credit for. I think the reasons that it does spark raw emotion in so many people is because of what you intend to do to your body, I see my friends daily struggle and would not wish that on anyone, ever. I'm sure that others also see this or experience it themselves and thus they reply with passin and vigour, even if thats not really going to help. I can understand this passion, as I can understand why a person perhaps, over time, wearing diapers 24/7, but to do this willingly to your own body, seems somehow bizarre, on the other hand to some piercings are damaging and bizarre, yet that is socially somewhat acceptable, plus you can remove them and in a lot of cases they heal over. Like choosing to wear 24/7, you can regain control with practice in most cases, and so a person can choose to live 24/7 or not. Then as some have mentioned the BDSM community, some choose to live as a slave 24/7, some get involved with harmful play which can case medical issues to arise, however some dont and enjoy it here and there, again its personal choice. To some its wierd, looney or irrational, to others its the norm and how they want to be. Yet we have to understand, that to some this action is upsetting and will provoke interesting debate. Something to consider are the reasons why it is not available in this country. You can talk to a doctor annonymously if you wish, ask to see your GP off the record, discuss why the GMC do not allow this. Is it illegal and if so then why - laws are there to protect people, we may not always agree with them but they do act as a guide. If doctors wont perform the surgery then why not? There has to be reasons behind this, some may help you gain more perspective on this subject. It could be because of the risks and complications, if so you need to visit the hospital before you hand over any money and look at the difference between a NHS hosptial and the one you are going to - look at the theatres etc, ask for qualifications....forearmed is forwarned. In this country you could go to a councellor - like with patients undergoing gender re-assignment surgery - and ensure that this is what you want and the only option available to you. Surgery always carries risks, you could be having open heart surgery or having your tonsils removed, its always dangerous. You should also get yourself a medical before you go, ensure that you are in peak condition before you have this done. Long term, well, I would not want to be in your shoes, Im glad I have choice, if I lost that then life would change dramatically, I would cope, but Im glad that I do not have to deal with that, I understand that some people want and like it, but its not for me. I wish you luck, I hope you do come to a balanced decision and I hope this thread has helped other people considering this, to really look at the range of argumnets for and against this course action. I just wish that you would exhaust all other options before you opt to have this proceedure and see it as the only available option cos you have tried everything else. If you have till later in the year start wearing diapers 24/7, get used to it and see what happens, it could save you a lot of money and health risks. I dont know if u do this but if not then why not? Anyway; good luck and peace out, tis your life and your money, lifes too long to not follow your dreams.

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I live in a large town It is in the north of england It has lots of shops It has lots of people It is nice

Thanks for your replies, ver interesting, i wanted to get some firs hand opinion cos a lot of what is written is very much baby orientated I dont really get to read from the M/D's point of view. Thanks for being open with your replies and how u see it, loved the stuff from people who do both! melly xx

Hi, I was just wondering what all you daddys and mummy like about caring for an adult baby, what makes you want to do this? I could never imagine wanting to do it, and i suppose its the same thing for you when it comes to wearing a diaper, i dunno, but thats the point, I dont know and I was wondering if you wouldn't mind telling me/everyone else thats ever wondered? Many thanks melly

never had a blankie, always been teddies for me, with a ribbon round the neck, I still have my first teddy, panda who is really in poor health, had him since i was a baby. His stuffing is going and he sits on my windowsill now. I now have my other bear, teddy, and he goes everywhere, i got him when i was about 7 as panda started to getting poorly. hes a bit sturdier but has losst a leg and his nose......but he wont disintegrate. Teddy sleps with me everynight, I get very upset if he is disturbed or talked about as if he cant hear things.

dont like the jars but i do love mashed potato mixed with beans and cheese, now thats lovely!!

I suck my left thumb - my right is dominant. Ive never had probs with teeth and my thumbs ok, its a bit different that dont bother me, stoppin sucking would n i doubt anything cud stop me.

ive been a DL since my early teens, as ive got older ive started to get interested in AB. I would like to find a mummy or daddy and hopefully, moreso some friends who understand what I like and what im into.

im from yorkshire

helo all, thanks for the lovely welcome

im from yorkshire and would like to meet other ab/dl's however my long term goal is to find a mummy or a daddy (preferably both) xxx

Im a thumb sucker from birth and I still have a teddy from wen i was little which goes up to my face wen im thumb sucking tho i do not need it - I dont thumb suck in public but i do wen im in bed all the time. Its so relaxing and i just cant stop it.

for me it is both a comfort and a turn on........i like to be dominated and thats a turn on and a comfort and baby play is the same for me.

hi, im babymelly, im a 30yr old baby girl from the UK look forward to speaking to you all and contributing to the forum xxxx