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When I was a toddler in the 70's I can remember being told that wetting and messing in my pants was a babyish thing to do. No big boy would want to mess in his pants, and we all wanted to be bigger and older when you were 4 years old. I lived in an era when putting your toddler back into diapers was the sign of ultimate failure. You simply weren't a good parent if you had a child that had accidents in the daytime. I remember walking home from primary school with a friend of mine who was constantly having accidents. I was 7 or 8 at the time and I felt truly sorry for my chum as he had to endure endless ridicule at the hands of merciless 8 year olds. Kids can be cruel. He had messed in his pants and was petrified at the prospect of going home and showing his father. His Dad was an alcoholic and Mom wasn't much better. He never told me, but I knew he got a beating whenever he wet or messed his pants. It was truly a piss-poor situation. I see him today and he is a shell of a man. No prospects in life and no hope. Had he been nurtured when growing up he might have turned out alot different. Had he been told that some kids take alot longer to develop physically than others. His parents had options. I know my friend would have resisted wearing a diaper again if his parents took that road, but if it could have spared him the constant teasing he had to bear at the hands of those 8 year olds, he might have been different today. No child should have to endure that kind of torture for the sake of learning how to control his or her bladder. Today parents have more options. In the 70's there weren't all these fancy pull-ups that fit children well into their teen years. Sure we had disposable diapers, but once your child outgrew them that was it unless you wanted to use cloth. If someone needs to, they can wear disposable diapers for their entire life from birth to death. However with this ability comes a new form of neglect. A child no longer needs to recieve the care and attention that he or she once needed when wearing diapers. I know from personal experience that I can wet a diaper and not feel uncomfortable for quite some time. Children are spending longer periods of time in dirty diapers because their parents simply do not have the time or the will to change them. Children are getting weaned off of diapers at older and older ages due to all this extra capability of today's modern diaper. Is this a bad thing? If your child truly had an issue with potty training, then there is no problem at all. Maybe society is more forgiving today than it was 30 years ago. All I can say is that if I had a choice between wearing wet pants or a wet diaper back then, I would have chosen the diaper. Would I have been a better person today because I wore a diaper? Maybe.

It always amazes me lately to see the huge population of the AB/DL community in the world today. People from all walks of life and all kinds of backgrounds are into this lifestyle. It must be shocking to the incontinent sufferer who first searches the 'Net for adult diapers and finds links to the AB/DL sites we all frequent . I went into a new medical supply store for the first time yesterday to buy some Attends. I got to the counter with my 2 bags and the lady behind it asks me if I will be billing this seperate to some other party. I say that they are for me and I will be buying them now. She goes on to say that she has used Attends before and they are a great product. I tell her that I have been using them for quite some time and I know how good they perform. She goes on to say that she needed them for a couple of months after the birth of her daughter. I thought about it afterward as I was driving home, two young people discussing the merits of adult diapers in normal everyday conversation. How cool is that. Needless to say, I will be buying my diapers from there for a while.

I think it would be a lot of fun in the right context. I'm not into humiliation or anything like that but if it was within a DL atmosphere where alot of people were around and having a good time, then that would be great.

Why don't you order them through the mail if you are too nervous to buy diapers. You could also order them online if you need to as well. There are quite a few online companies that will ship diapers in discreet packaging so nobody can tell what the contents are. HTH

I told a couple of 'friends' that I wore diapers. We aren't friends any more. Go figure. I have another friend that found out I wore a diaper when she saw them peeking out from under my trousers. She is a major gossip so I figured that it would be all over town in no time. To my suprise she hasn't told anyone. Other than that, I am sure my sister-in-law knows because I left a used one in the bedroom garbage by mistake when we stayed there one night. She hasn't said anything directly, but she is a nurse and has dealt quite a bit with elderly incontinent patients so she knows what an adult diaper looks like. Thats about it I think.

Hi folks. I just had a really vivid diaper dream. I dreamt that everywhere I went, women knew that I wore diapers. In the store, library, restaraunt, women would come up to me and ask me if I needed a diaper change. My wife was in the dream as well and she would always tell them that she had just put me in a fresh diaper and didn't need a change. I wasn't wearing any special clothing or anything to denote that I was a diaper wearer, but women just knew that I wore. Strange eh? I also remember feeling really embarassed about the whole thing. A dream I had a few months ago involved my buddies wife. She knows that I wear diapers but in this dream she was wearing diapers. I can remember talking to her in the kitchen of their house about regualr daily things when there was this awful smell. I asked her about it and she said it was no problem, she had just filled her pants. I was all nonchalant and asked her if she would like to be changed. She agreed and we waddled off to her bedroom where she had a changing area set up. I can remember that she was both wet and messy. We continued to have meaningless conversation while I cleaned her up, powdered her, and put her in a fresh diaper. I also remember the diaper she wore was an adult sized Huggies, but they were the old, thick kind with crinkly cover. Afterwards, we both went on like it never happened. How about you? Do you dream about diaper wearing?

In my ultimate fantasy I call up an old G/F of mine and ask if she could come over to my house to 'change a diaper' She is always babysitting and what-not and wouldn't realize just who's diaper I want her to change. Anyway, she would come over and let herself in the house. I would be upstairs, wet and messy, and I'd call her to come up. She would come into my room, see me laying there all diapered and smelly. Then she would go into 'babysitting' mode and change me. She would then mention that she's been having 'pee problems' for quite some time and would like to try wearing a diaper. I would oblige, of course, and put her in one. We would then perform oral sex on one another until we were both happy. For weeks afterwards, she would call me up and tell me she needed changing. I would take care of her needs as she takes care of mine.

Alot of these stories sound similar. Mine is as well. I saw a package of diaper's in my friend's closet one day and I asked who they were for. She told me that she wore them when she and her family went camping. I don't know why, but I grabbed one and took it home. I hid it under my bed and when I was all alone I would take it out and put it on for a while. As I got older, I modified baby diapers by taping them together to make one big diaper to wear. I discovered adult diapers one day when I was thumbing through the Sears catalog. I saved up my allowance for a few weeks and managed to buy my first bag of Attends at the age of 16.

I'm a guy. 32 in northern BC.

Hi Floatyboy: Rubber pants do indeed stretch to cover up bulky diapers. I own a few pairs of good ones that I purchased off ebay. There are alot of different brands and styles out there. I have found that mine have a real 'rubber' smell to them that I don't like too much. It comes with the territory if you want to use rubber pants instead of pvc.

Wow Toddlerguy. I can relate sort of. When I drink alot of soda and eat spicy foods I tend to get a very sour stomach. Terrible heartburn and burps that smell and taste horrible. The next day I have terrible diarreha which is hard to control. I've been to the doctor and he is trying to get me on a low-carb diet. Not the Atkin's diet mind you, but a lower carbohydrate regime to try and control the bowel incontinence that shows up after eating these rich foods.

Well, I have never been in hospital for any reason. However I have been experiencing urge incontinence from time to time. I have to wonder if it is related to my constant diaper wearing. I mean, it seems like I am more able to hold it if I am not wearing. If I have a diaper on and have to pee..I have to pee RIGHT NOW. Lately, I have had the same results when not in diapers. I have to run like mad to make the toilet.

I don't need a mommy. What I need is a girl that enjoys putting her man in diapers. I would enjoy looking after a girl who needed her diaper changed from time to time though.

I've worn them so much to bed, it now feels unnatural NOT to wear a diaper to bed. Mind you, it is starting to feel unnatural being out of diapers during the day too.

Sarevor: You must mean Mila Kunis from 'That 70's show' eh? Yea, she's a real hottie too! There are too many hotties to single out a precious few. I wish all cuties and hotties wore diapers.

Tena makes a great product. One better is Abena Abri-Form X-Plus. These diapers are the thickest I have ever used. They hold massive amounts of wettings and they hold up well to long term use. The only complaints that I have against the X-Plus is that it only has a rear waistband and 2 tapes per side. If it had 3 tapes a side and a front and rear waistband, it would be miles above all other diapers IMHO.

Natalie Portman for sure. Liv Tyler. Angelina Jolie. Any good looking female celebrity.

I am wearing an Attends. I have just gotten in a case of Abri-Form X-plus. These diapers are the thickest adult diaper I have ever seen.

I think what you want might be a bit out of reach. Dirty diapers will be stinky no matter what. I don't think you can expect people to be receptive to the smell because it is quite revolting to most others. I tend to change my dirty diapers while standing in the shower. I take off my dirty one, hose myself off, and then hop onto the floor for a nice clean diaper. It keeps the mess to a minimum.

I have to admit that I like the fact that I can wet wherever I want. I dislike the consequences of wearing a wet diaper too long though. Diaper rash has got to be one of the most unpleasant feelings there is. I also like the feel of a diaper between my legs as well as the great crinkly sound they make. Wearing a diaper also makes me feel safe.

My earliest diaper memory was when I was 4. I was at a friends house and I noticed that she had some Pampers in her closet. I asked her who they were for and she told me that she needed to wear them when she and her family went camping. I can remember being excited about that. Soon after, I stole a diaper from another friends place and hid it under my bed at home. I took it out from time to time to wear and play around in.