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Sounds akin to the 'Jerry Springer' epps we had here a few years back. Really, I don't know what these people expect to accomplish. Could you imagine having someone you love drag you onto a national TV show shown nation wide and told that they like to wear diapers. I mean, what kind of reaction could they possibly be expecting. That is exactly what happened on that 'Springer' episode. The guy's girlfriend was going on and on about how sick and twisted he was. Publicity like that I could do without.

PeeHD, Heh..I just got it I'll go back in my hole now...

This is a tough topic that has been broached here many times. Truth is, there is no simple answer. It depends on each individual involved, how open and receptive to new things and how mature they are. My best advice is to be honest. Lying to her will only make it difficult later on down the road. Also remember that a relationship is give and take.

Give 'er a go. Experimentation is fun when you are an AB/DL

Sometimes medical supply stores will provide you with free samples. It usually means a phone call though. Try some of the local stores in your area.

I am innocent in the whole affair

This isn't toilet training...its really parent training. They talk about being in tune with their childs needs but it really just comes down to recognizing the signs that your baby needs to use the toilet. I have to wonder if they use diapers at night. What method do they use to control bedwetting? Do they get up every hour to hold junior over the bowl or what? I mean, it all sounds well and good IF you have the time to manage your childs toilet habits. Most mothers I know are run off their feet just trying to meet the other needs of their children. Would it have changed me? Not sure. I was put in diapers for bedwetting which has continued to this day. So I would have to say no, it wouldn't have changed the fact that I need a diaper to remain dry at night. Would it have changed the desire to wear them constantly? Who knows.

Well, have fun and be sure to tell us all about it!

With Ebay anything goes really. You never know who is looking for that widget or grommet you have in your keeping until you list it.

It would definetly be interesting to see so many AB/DL's in one place. Not to mention seeing what everyone else was into as well. I tend to think that anyone with a fetish or desire tend to be interesting people to talk with.

Yes, I know it seems trivial. Some people are sensetive to 'labeling' and can have extreme reactions to being called a simple, polite name. Thing is, you will never know when or where it will strike. My mother doesn't like being called ma'am and she is 55 years young. Its all in how you feel, I guess.

Yep, add me to that list too. Not a constant "every night" thing but on again off again. It gets really bad if I drink any amount of alcohol, even cough syrup.

How 'bout "Hey asshole, yer next!" sorry, I coudn't resist.

I hit my usual drug store for more Attends last weekend. Sauntered on up to the counter with 2 bags of large. The twenty something cashier behind the counter doesn't bat an eye. Rings my purchase in and gives me a 'have a nice day sir' to boot. When did I become a 'sir'? Man, I'm gettin old.

Yea I saw the movie. Its too bad that it didn't do better at the Box office. I was looking forward to having a trilogy.

Any 'Firefly' fans out there??? "You're my kind of stupid" Mal Reynolds. "I can kill you with my brain!" River Tam There are so many good ones from that show. Its too bad they went and cancelled it.

Wow, that map is starting to look crowded.WTG folks

Ah, the bane of the male diaper wearer. Lying on one's back or stomach and wetting a diaper. Unfortunately diapers really weren't designed to accomodate us guys in this manner. Maximum containment is achieved when we are standing. IMHO Kendall diapers are not worth buying. They may be cheap but you do get what you pay for. I stick with Attends or Abena diapers. The Attends fit me fine and the Abena X-Plus is the thickest, most absorbent diaper I have ever worn. I too suffer from the occasional nighttime incident and the X-Plus is the only diaper that has never leaked on me (so far). I suggest you invest in a couple pair of terry lined plastic pants. As the name states, these pants have cotton inside and plastic outside. It makes the cheapest diapers perform admirably. Whatever isn't contained by the diaper initally, will be contained by the plastic pants. It beats waking up in a wet bed. If I am staying at someone else's house I wear a X-Plus with my terry lined pants. Haven't had a leak yet!

14 for me. I don't consider myself an AB though...

I have some of these diapers. They are the Kendall 'Wings Supreme' brand. They're OK if you are looking for a daytime diaper without the need for absorbancy, but they are no good for nighttime or heavy wetters. Tena diapers are far superior.

I have a Diaper Genie and a diaper pail. The Genie does fill up quite quickly but it is a neat invention. The opening is perfect for Attends type diapers but it is a struggle to get Abri form X-plus sized diapers into it. My diaper pail is a standard baby sized pail and it can hold quite a few adult diapers.

This will always be a touchy subject because it depends on far too many variables. One of the big factors is the maturity/emotional stability of your girlfriend. Its not easy to be objective when pure, raw emotions like love get in the way. I think that we all have been there in one form or another. You may want to find out if she is...how do I put this delicately....kinky or differently motivated when it comes to turn ons and what not. Chances are she has secrets that she is embarassed about. She may be convinced that no one would want to associate with her due to her way of thinking. There is always the possibility that she could be into S&M, bondage, or any multitude of fetishes out there. Find some common ground and then introduce your 'kink' down the road. I was lucky. My wife is quite open-minded and has accepted the fact that I enjoy wearing a diaper. Perhaps you will be fortunate as well.

I live in a small town as well and have had great results from B4NS. www.b4ns.com

" Dont take life so seriously....you can't get out of it alive" Unknown. "Another day in a finite and rapidly passing lifetime" Bill Waterson; Calivn and Hobbes