BabyBat

I must agree with you, the best way to find someone is to be yourself. Most guys I know are all scared and do 'What ifs' all day, but if you are just yourself and she doesn't like you then it wouldn't have worked out anyway. Not that I would recommend going diapered on your first date but don't be someone else. If you make jokes at everything then do that, if you are protective then do that. 87.3% of all statistics are made up on the spot...

I am not confident on any statistics. I think it seems that way is because whenever any ABDL girls come out of the woodwork then the community jumps all over them: can i see pics, want to cyber, Are you wearing right now, are you wet right now, do you mess too, and may fav: ASL. It makes all guys in the community look bad and doesn't really make any girls want to jump up and down and attract attention to herself.

Interesting. I wonder if we have anything like that here across the pond. I would think so but with all the hype we have had over the same sex marriage issue as of late it does make me question.

OK I will start throwing somethings together.

For the sexual side of things I have heard this theory: the sex organs are external so they get more sexual stimulation from a diaper. You are wearing a diaper when your neuropathways are being formed so it is the first sexual experience for some.

Welcome to the forum Toa! You will enjoy yourself here.

Apparently a product of public school. No Child Left Behind = Every Child Left Behind

I am liking the new design more and more. Perhaps a how-to article for people that are uncomfortable / new to the forums? I might get started on that if I have the time. What do others think?

God damn that was funny. I do have a seriours question though: what is a Gender Recognition Certificate? Is it an offical document from the state that recognizes your gender change? Do you have to have surgery to get one? Do all states have to issue them? I am not trans gendered but intolerance (esp within the community) just aggravates me to no end. I believe alot of intolerance is caused from ignorance so I like to educate myself That being said I love your cheerleader pic protection, i think it is super cute

HAHAHAHAHA!!!!! I almost peed, and that isn't good because I am at work and not diapered!

I am too afraid of the risks of cathing myself. To complicate matters my mother in law is a nurse and we have a very open relationship (no she doesn't know about my ABDL side, it isn't THAT open). But if I were to have issues then it would be hard to hide them / explain them away. Sad.... The wife is going to vegas for a week in a couple of months and that would be GREAT to do while she is gone. Oh well, I will still have fun

I think what alot of people (those who say You don't want to be wetting any time you hear a bell...) are forgetting that the subconscious mind will ALWAYS do what it thinks is the best for you. Now sometimes what it thinks is the best thing can get a little tweaked which is why you can get into some bad emotional situations, but that is another topic. Point being: if you condition yourself to be incontinent in your diapers then you will not wet yourself out of them (given no outside influences (medical, drugs, etc)) unless maybe you really get off on embarrassment but even then that is what you wanted. These are the basic principles behind hypnosis/subconscious conditioning: 1) You must truly want the behavior to change, ie: if you really enjoy your cigarettes and you really don't want to stop smoking then no amount of hypnosis will help you. Or if you are on the fence about being incontinent in your diapers but 'just want to try it' then it will also not work. 2) It must not be anything that goes against your core beliefs. The classic, Naked Gun, example: no one could ever hypnotize you to kill someone that you normally would not kill. So if you are in the stage of ABDL where you still have guilt then it probably isn't going to work anyway. For alot of people, in diapers or not, just letting go in public might fall into this category and you would have mixed results.

I did not know this. I need to find some formulas for converting proof and such, however I have some months to plan as I will have to wait until the wife goes out of town

It is a known problem with the board software update. I believe that DailyDi is working on it.

Ack. Rock Springs, I am sorry . My sister in-law used to live there. The meth problem is really bad there now.

Extroverted (E) 50% Introverted (I) 50% Intuitive (N) 52.08% Sensing (S) 47.92% Thinking (T) 55.26% Feeling (F) 44.74% Judging (J) 52.5% Perceiving (P) 47.5% Your type is: ENTJ ENTJ - "Field Marshall". The basic driving force and need is to lead. Tend to seek a position of responsibility and enjoys being an executive. 1.8% of total population.

I am going to see Marilyn Manson in August. I don't think I will be wearing though

After 9/11 I am not sure you are going to have success in finding a company that offers post forwarding to international addresses. Sorry, fear has caused many changes across the pond my friend.

As for the interests being big that everyone is complaining about: There is now an about me section in your profile where most of that would go. In my mind the interest should be a short sweet list of things/topics you are deeply interested in. Thoughts?

Hehe... when I was a teenager I saved my money for diapers

I guess I am worried because it isn't just like a TV show or pepsi, but you bring up an excellent point. If I know that would never harm a child then why should *I* worry about it?

Do you have an [online] source for this? I would be interested in doing more research. I am confused (and I am NOT arguing and have only had basic high school health education + what I read online) but if it is in the blood then aren't the kidneys going to filter it out? If it isn't in the blood then you are not drunk? I found a sight that said you could use a whole beer or half diluted wine and thought that was a little much to start out with.

Now that you put it that way I feel sad I was excited to be the first. I am sure that there are others here, but you need to understand how small our communities are and how conservative it is here. If I were to wear in public and someone spotted my diaper then I am sure it would be *the* topic the spotter talked about that night at their house. And I live in the second biggest city (or first depending if you include the AFB in Cheyenne).

They manage your upgrades for you? Ouch how much are you paying them for that pleasure?

They look homemade, any idea what diaper they used as a base?