It looks like the typical "how to tell my partner" thread deals with the converse situation, how to ask her politely to baby you. Well I've been mulling for 3 or 4 years now how to ask her to wear diapers to satisfy me. I don't have strong daddy/ageplay feelings, I just find the diapers themselves extremely erotic (along with desperation in general...)
I'm pretty sure she knows I have some interest in her potty time, she indulges me by talking about it in great detail, even though I don't think I've ever told her explicitly it's something I enjoy (it's probably obvious from what sometimes occurs afterwards )
The tack I think I've settled on eventually taking is to move slowly towards expressing an outright desire to see her wet herself. I've made some progress in this direction -- tickling her when she has to pee, pretending to hold the door shut, etc. But even then it's a *big* leap to asking her to wear diapers, even if the intermediate step is itself a great pleasure.
So I'm just curious what the consensus is out there. I have all the time in the world -- we're 8 years together, settled down and into our careers -- and I'd rather let it take another 2 years or never occur at all than risk blowing up in my face and losing respect from my partner. So, with the option of long term planning, how would you ease your partner into the idea?
The major source of worry in the issue is that she is professional type, very assertive, organized, somewhat dominant. The idea of infantllism could play either way -- as something she would find that relieves her of the stress of her world, or the exact opposite, something she finds uninteresting or repulsive. Myself, I'm not the type of person who enjoys this uncertainty, which is why I've played it cautious for so many years.