True, ABDL guys to girls ratio is a little sloped. Alot of guys have approached to hangout in diapers and such. I dont mind doing coffee, maybe swapping materials like diapers and such. To actually diaper up with another guy would be hard, becuase it is such a sexual thing for me.(Diapers). I would not want to associate diapers with guys. It is a very lonely road out there in this area.