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It's been nearly 10 Years since the "Diaper Girl" episode of My Strange Addiction came out and I look back on the whole process and the shows effects on my life, the community and how ABDL's and alternate lifestyles are perceived in the media. PewDiePie recently did a video on the episode (so many diaper/bathroom jokes, not so many jokes about ABDLs) so I thought I'd make a thorough retelling of my thoughts and experiences on MSA Thanks for all the positive thoughts over the years and StayDiapered friends

I had a dream last night about this comment because I forgot to reply to it and it was very kind of nice, I think my brain was telling me to reply ASAP, when the world shows kindness it's important to show it back thanks a bunch and I will keep trying to be positive and inclusive, thank you for the kind words about staying calm some of those MSA interviews last hours they really try their best to make you look silly or try to get you to slip up. Happy thoughts and be well ❤️ And StayDiapered I just woke up in a MegaMax, one of those snuggly soggy mornings where you're just happy that diapers exist and that you allow yourself to wear them Also thanks @Hades ❤️

Hey there I really appreciate the kind words, I first started my blog in 2008 and back then, this comment section would have been full of anti-transgender stuff, trolling, insults, all that. Now it's a polite question and a friendly comment. Kill em with kindness I say, I know who I am and what I'm about so any insults are embarrassing for the insulter, not for me. I have long ago mentally muted unconstructive critisim... and they say living well is the best revenge and i'm living quite well Thanks again, I made the promise a long time ago that I'm not going anywhere, so i'll keep making content and hoping folks can find some joy or relatability in it And you know if they really wanted to hurt my feelings they'd make fun of my editing skills, I'm still a little sensitive about that ?

The episode was going to be done regardless of my participation, I've been a commercial actor since I was a kid and have done reality TV from the production side before. I know how TV works and I knew that I would be able to control the situation better than probably anybody involved, I'd be able to resist their sensationalism and keeping my head straight during the multiple super long interviews. Also being somewhat well-known in the community already I could handle the negative feedback, I wasn't going to lose my job or anything though I must say I did make some sacrifices by going on that show, but the good outweighs the bad I think. Basically I tried to make the best out of a bad situation and was willing to put myself up-for-it because I'm unfuckwithable and knew I'd be the best person for the job, I knew this show was going to be huge ( if I recall this was the highest rated cable show at the time) and that we're going to be talking about it still 10 years on, and I wanted to do my best to make the community proud. Some people disagree ofc, some people think I should have never done it, some people have prejudices that make them angry that I "represented the community", but all things said and done it was a minor success and a manageable failure. And I have turned down and/or disrupted shows that I felt were terrible or small enough to be derailed, such as doing anything in the tabloids. But Id been in touch with the TLC producers for over a year and i knew an ABDL episode of My Strange Addiction was inevitable.

New video from CinnamonToastKen and PewDiePie talking about the My Strange Addiction episode I was featured in ~ https://youtu.be/fT_Np_b6YAc Seems mostly harmless with lots of bants and jokes mostly about wearing diapers in general. Worst part was maybe him calling me a degenerate, but to be honest I got a giggle or two at their pretty easy low bow humour. I also went onto Kens livestream and he was nice, it's always interesting to see how people react when the object of their mockery is standing in front of them. All in all mostly harmless, and thankfully it wasn't posted to his main channel. Later this week I'm going to be coming out with a 10-year retrospective on MSA that'll be answering most of the questions you may have, but if there's anything in particular you want to know I'd be interested in hearing. Thanks for the kind words and support over the years

Just posted a video all about these!!! If you want a live look, check out my video

I did a review recently, this is what I said at the time: Great tapes, really neat Hook and Loop (aka Velcro) tape system on a plastic backed diaper. I thought this was inventive but it’s apparently quite common among ABDL Diapers such as the BunnyHops and Tykables. Soft plastic that has slight ripping issues around the fairly Low-Rise waistband, but the ripping I’ve experienced (and is seen in the video) doesn’t really change the efficacy of the diaper. As for the sagging/separation issues, I think it could be more of an issue on the Large/X-Large, because I have used the heck out of these and have never felt even close to full/leaking. They do sag, they do separate, but there’s enough padding in these to still be well absorbent. If you know those Plasticy Attends Briefs you know how bad separation can be, but these are still well-made enough that it doesn’t make them unusable. So while they do have this issue, it doesn’t ruin them for me. L/XL wearers may feel differently. I don’t have experience using these for messing but any diaper this big and plastic covered should be fine. That’s not really my area of expertise, I really only mess when Enemas are involved and that’s quite rare these days. MindlesslyDiapered on YT tends to cover that topic more. Khuck on YT has a review that focuses on the larger size and technical aspects and RealWorldIncontinence on YT has a deep dive video with various absorbency tests. Kenzo also has a very AB focused one too! Support your favorite ABDL creators and be sure to like and subscribe! The X-Large is order by phone only due to some issue with the plastic apparently. I’m not in contact/affiliation with XPMedical at all, but have never had issues with them or heard anything negative, feel free to share your experience. About $1.70 to $2.00 a diaper, comparable to other Premium brands. OVERALL I think they’re a really, really good diaper. I only knock off a star because of the separation issues but that hasn’t been a negative for me, I loooove the droopy saggy feeling of them. I wish there was a small but this is a very new In-House diaper, so they may make other lines in the future. More stuff soon

I also have a review! You can find product pics and more on StayDiapered.com ❤️ In short they're cute butt don't fit large sizes rip easily and have a weird 3 chamber absorbency core. I dont like em'.

She's been to conventions, is a really sweet person and is quite authentic. She's positive and supportive to other ABDLs and has a really active social media presence. She doesn't try to drag folks down or judge them, something we as a community should aspire to. If you don't like her, fine, but don't gatekeep. You're not the one who decides who's into this and who's not, and I've always found "THERES NO GIRLS IN ABDL" is a sign of insecurity. I have met many women who love this as much as any man, you may try not to make themfeel welcome but I think we should support ALL members of the ABDL community, not just ones that past your purity test. So while folks are here taking jabs, she's out making content, actually doing something. Flip the script, make something yourself and show it to the world, maybe you'll get some perspective on how it feels to be judged. Edit: apparently the person I replied to was banned a while back

I posted a video review of the Megamax!

In this video I talk about a bunch of different kinds of various discontinued Pull-Ups and Underjams! The last diaper (the white with stars) I have no idea what brand (maybe Kidgets?). Hope you like it! Thanks for watching!

It's spring here and the duckies are starting out on their ducky adventures About a month ago a Duckie Daddy was hanging out in my yard. Then I noticed a Mama ducky had nested in a nearby bush. I’ve been watching her every day and two nights ago I heard little baby cheepers coming from the bush. I kept an eye out all day the next day until I saw that she had moved… I was sad, thinking I had missed her and the ducklings debut, but she had only moved a few feet away, and was looking awfully chubby. I realize that she had her babies under her thinking that there couldn’t be more than five or six. All of a sudden she stood up and 12 or 13 little duckers peeped out from under her. They started to make their way out, likely looking for a little pond somewhere and maybe the Ducky Daddy too. They waddled around for a bit, crossed the street (with help from me and the neighborhood) and waddled about. Mama gave the ducklings a quick tour of the neighborhood then went off for ponds unknown. Would love to hear about other folks and their wildlife adventures! Bonus points for Baby Bunnies!

thanks so much, I have a video coming up about Size 7 diapers and other fun stuff too, like the Storytime I posted today! https://youtu.be/X9Dj8RSzrgI

I talk all about the history of the cutest pull-ups around! Hope you like the video

New video to share some thoughts, basic etiquette and tips on how to have your best experience at ABDL Cons! Would love to hear other tips and experiences!

I posted this on Reddit, but I thought i'd share it here as well... I fully support MindlesslyDiapered in this. I do have some thoughts in addition to that support. Dailymail and other british rags have been asking me since My Strange Addiction and I never went ahead with any interviews etc, mainly due to their penchant to bash transpeople. I know that they'd focus on that and weaponize it against the community, not just mention it in passing or not at all like other outlets. These offers included a free trip to London and what would have inevitably ended in an ambush interview with notorious troll Piers Morgan. I know how these outlet skew stories about any diverse behaviour, especially in regards to sex work, kink, LGBT, alternative lifestyles etc. They play off of the "normal" person seeing someone like myself and laughing, getting disgusted, getting angry, and through this we remain divided, they sell papers, maintain the status quo. I like the term SQWs, Status Quo Warriors. With that said, the thing I see people miss most in these conversations, is that when producers are contacting people to make these shows or write these articles they start with the most visible people, like Kitten, Binkie, myself, Mindless etc, but they're not going to stop there. MSA would have been made regardless of my participation, and I felt I was the best person to fit into that role, because I knew how not to embarass myself. MD knows how to not embarass herself either, which is why i've always been happy to see her rise to prominence. So to confront OP's title (the title on Reddit was "Can We All Make A Pact To Not Go On Media?") no matter how much you may huff and cross your arms, these shows are going to get made, be happy it's one of us and not some terrible person or worse, an actor they hire to be one of us. Now should we take on every article? No. Would I ever fuck with anything as conservative as DailyMail or the dozens of podcasts/YT/Radio programs that have tried to have me on and make me look like an asshole? No. Was that recent video Gummi, Koneko and I did with Anthony Padilla super chill and positive? Yeah! DailyMail gave MD a fairer shake then they'd ever give me, and now that this article is out, maybe they'll cool it for a while on the AB stuff and no harm will be done, except the often forgotten slings and arrows MD will have to face from the complete cretins in the comments of the article. I think it's fine to talk about this stuff as a community, just maybe don't come at her or anyone too hard. It's all harder than you may think, and there's always some complicated stuff going on that you may haven't thought of yet. Maybe as a community we shouldn't drag our own people like this, it's easy to sit back and criticize, but some empathy goes a long way here. I must say though, this thread is a lot more positive than when MSA came out. Some people in the community hated that and were very aggressive and cruel, especially about me being trans, but here 10 years on it's looked back on as a relatively positive representation. Basically, media is gonna put a spotlight on us like they do the furries and every other unique "lifestyle" group out there, just hope the right people are out there. And always, i've made a point to do interviews NOT as a representative of a community, but merely an individual in that community, and I think that distinction goes a long way. And as always, if you're contacted by the media and are looking for guidance, you can contact me on StayDiapered.com ~

There are Size 7 of the Pampers Swaddlers on Amazon right now. They look amazin, and the fact that they have size 7 swaddlers is mind-blowing to me.

Yeah, I can't express enough how much Boofing is a bad idea. I've never done it, but your liver exists for a reason and you might as well put some in an IV or something... horrible idea all around.

New video! Enemas 101 - Diaper University Just a little talk about the basics of enemas and how they fit in with diapers and other certain ABDL interests!! You can find a post with some additional notes and thoughts here. Thanks for watching, happy to hear any other enema tips or tricks!

I don't know what you're referencing here... you also said "Plastic panties are called "rubber panties" by most persons " which sounds like a language barrier issue, as most English speaking people don't call them Rubber Panties. Plastic Pants/Plastic Panties is much, much more common. you also said "Vinyl and PVC are the same", and they are not, they are similar, but in application for plastic panties the materials are different, buying a Vinyl pair vs a PVC pair will yield different products made from different materials. Just needed to clarify in case someone read your post and took it as fact.

These are 2 new videos discussing the basics of Plastic Pants and Adult Cloth Diapers! I'll be posting a Adult Cloth Diapers 102 video next Tuesday to show off my collection and give some further details. Thanks for watching, would love to hear feedback (yes, I know they're a bit too bright/overexposed). Hope you like them! Plastic Pants 101 Adult Cloth Diapers 101

Cheers, thanks for the positive comments ❤️

My advice is always this... The more you build something up, the more of a "big deal" you make something to another person, the more significant the reaction will be. To explain what the heck that means, think about the difference between sitting down your roommate or partner, dramatic music, and telling them "I have something I've been holding onto for a long time, a big secret, that I just have to tell you, it's been tearing me apart etc etc", you're going to make that other person uncomfortable no matter how close you are. That approach shows doubt in yourself (which you may have and which may be quite valid) and a lack of confidence, leads the other party to wonder if it's something they should even really know, if it's a secret better kept secret, or something that will be a burden (hate that word) or adversely effect their interactions with you. Basically, be open and honest from the start, but over-reveal, don't make whatever issue seem like it's a negative, go in with confidence about who you are and what's important to you. Sharing as opposed to telling or "coming clean". Snugglebear is on point.

Hi! Riley here with a article from the Buffalo Spectrum, I was contacted by one of their writers to do an article. It's a college paper, so some of the information is off and I frankly don't know where some of it came from, but it's fairly positive and the author was friendly and kind. Here's the link to the web version, with a photo of the spread below. I also just got quoted in Glamour Magazine, but about something unrelated to ABDL. Fun stuff!