Trust me, most people have enough of their own problems to worry about without worrying about yours. Besides, you can always get some really discreet ones to wear. I went to a new (at least to me) medical supply store there and the actually really hot girl working there gave me a sample of some Tenas for free, not sure exactly which kind they are, but they are super discreet. Nice and thick, I wear them underneath just boxers at home and nobody knows the difference. Granted, ive been in and out of diapers my whole life so my parents dont really care, but my friends dont even notice I have one on.