TammyG

I have a pretty neat hifi with a direct drive turntable, separate phono preamp, integrated amp for line level inputs such as my cd player and a Yamaha cassette deck with remote control. I used to do a lot of tape editing on reels of tape but my hands aren't up to that anymore and much the same when it came to buying and soldering kits.

Usually in connexion with dealing with people who aren't autistic to whom often there's so many "hidden" rules and "real" meanings in how you talk and act that it's worse than trying to play a part in performance! It just eats up all my energy at times.

Dono in. If it matters that there's a place you can talk about this life it's got to be worth paying the bill.

Always a great enjoyable outfit to wear and lose yourself in just working on your pom poms.

I suspect some of this is really language based to do something that might be embarrassing may be sufficient that it could be used but unless the was the possibility they may be seen especially by those who know them it doesn't move into feeling more humiliating and it need not be sexual (you can make a fetish from pretty much anything). Perhaps it's it better to put aside that and look at what is going on. The Sissy has indicated some things they have a longing or craving for to the person who is acting in a dominant way but "I couldn't possibly do that because I'd feel ashamed, embarrassed" and what they are basically doing is is talking them,cajoling perhaps into do just that. It's a kind of a game played to get Sissy into being who they said they felt they were wanting - it's not forced - and many of us enjoy it but I would agree there are somethings that don't fit in a Adult Kid setting and certainly when I feel like playing I certainly aren't looking for anything that someone with same play ages in real life would either because I just want to play with that person being more of Parental type, strict Mummy possibly but just that. The Big stuff can have it's own time and space.

Gender isn't clothes nor is about your body shape it's more about how you feel you are on the inside and there's a big array of terms and their definitions for those who are looking for something more exact. Personally I don't think anyone of us can find something so personal it ticks every box right down to a tee so really you look at a broad umbrella that has most of you and rely more on conversation to fill in how it it is exactly with you plus in the end we own that term we choose for us. From that we can chose whatever we feel most comfortable in be it underwear or outerwear part from how we put together any one look.

Not everyone may be so fortunate to spend all day or even a "significant" portion of the day as themselves ordinarily so being able to spend several days one after the other is a most wonderful thing even if when out we need to show a bit of discreteness when out with all the *everybodies" sharing open space. Thanks for writing about it.

The short answer is no because we are not made by garments, it's more what we feel on the on the inside about ourselves, our roles in society and how we relate even to others. It is very likely in many of our societies that wearing skirted attire might indicate to many some feminine traits or interests and diaper wearing need not be about health needs but more the enjoyment of wearing them and even being more "infant" and in general terms however much we've moved across the decades people still aren't totally onboard with any or all of those things. What makes me a sissy is more my submissive side and presence of many recognized tropes in that world that I do accept are there but let's not forget we get to chose which and to what extent we work with any of them and there can be some that you may find just don't such as for me, a fair chunk of "humilation" stuff even if by LG standards they would rightly say I showed effeminancy rather than the kind of feminine they're all about. I don't see anything is to be gained by being less than honest about that and instead just coming out and saying it. We are individuals whatever labels might best apply to us.

Some might compartmentalize the more adult side in a similar someone who doesn't have the adult fetishes may separate out their everyday sexual side from any periods where they are letting their LB/LG sides out. Because you *may* have an adult side doesn't mean you cannot enjoy that time being that "child", free from adult responsibilities without all the FemDom stuff going on around you respecting your own little sides needs. Having one doesn't invalidate the other. There is a difference between reenacting or replaying roles and a time in your life and the idea you may be mentally at least in the space of a child of that age 24/7 which some people are. That said I'd never call myself LG, it just a matter of being honest because ultimately I have no desire to be a grown up female in other words a woman with everything that those who travel along do and rightly claim.

All the time and love soft silks and a little lace - not into lashing of personally - as I just feel great in them apart from being super comfortable with cute socks.

A lot depends on the kind of event you are having which is very much dependant on the organizers. If we are talking of a little get together either "co-ed" or LG then really there's little difference when it comes to things like playing games like pass the parcel, arts & crafts, and dolly playtime with "LG's" Sissy Gurls" like me or those who may be bigger girls who are happy doing younger things. We may have some differing interests but a well run event will put great store on ensuring nothing is going on that would take anybody out of the little mindset and space so nothing adult kink would be happening in open view and anything that may go on in private is kept quiet and behind shut doors and curtains so no one need know (and do they need to?) When we play we need to consider each other and perhaps having LG 's around may help in leading more "girl-like" play? Obviously I'd never expect anyone LG to go to a more kink minded event and to be fair I'm not so sure that would by my choice either.