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DL here, and I tend to prefer white and/or blue disposables. The contrast between white and a basic colour on a diaper can be nice as well.

Welcome, from a fellow BC resident!

Wanted to follow up with a question to peeps on this thread. How do you find the ergonomics of wearing a diaper with a chastity cage? Any challenges? I often get ring pain from the cage on my scrotum if I don't regularly apply Vaseline. This solution doesn't work well with diapers in my experience. I'm currently trying baby powder, but I honestly don't really know what I'm doing 😅

For me, Incontinence desires came much later. I was first drawn to diapers and the idea of wetting them in my early teen years. It was only as an adult when I had the resources/privacy to actually start wearing them when I think my desires to be incontinent started forming.

I agree with a lot of what's been said above. Chastity and Diapers have some similarities and can potentially work together really well, lending themselves to similar headspaces. I really enjoy the helpless feeling of waking up caged, knowing I can't just hump away my horniness. Waking up caged AND in a wet diaper elevates that feeling to a whole new level for me, I can't even feel what I'm humping! You can be encouraged or forced to wear both by yourself/partner/dominant "you're not going anywhere without locking/padding up!", and they can both work for humiliation "I hope they didn't see my cage/diaper!". Both chastity and diapers can also affect you over time and rewire your brain. Wearing chastity can change where you focus getting your pleasure from, can help on the journey to an anal orgasm, and in some cases/fantasies can even temporarily shrink your willy. I'm less experienced with diapers, but I know they can also affect your bladder control depending on how you use them. So both lend themselves to a sense of progression (or regression, depending on how you look at it). As for what cage I'm wearing, I'm sporting a black Cobra Chastity Nub. I like their open and lightweight (plastic) design, though I find it a little more tricky to wet myself in such a small cage. Might try sizing up when padded.

I'm a very self-concious guy, ESPECIALLY about my interest in diapers. About a year into my relationship with my boyfriend, I really wanted to tell him about it. To be fair, we already had many kinks and interests in common, so I told him about it on a walk one night, and while he wasn't into it himself, he was very supportive and told me he was proud of me for sharing that with him. I've only dabbled with DL stuff a little since then, but he's always been supportive, encouraged me when I'm padding up, and even cuddles me in bed while I wear a diaper. He's more into watersports, so we found some common ground in the fact that he likes it when I wet myself.

I don't think my interest in bladder incontinence came until adulthood, though some seeds may have been planted in my teenage years when: (1) I started getting interested in DL and desiring the feeling of being padded, and (2) when I accidentally wet my brother's bunk, which was such a weird/funny one-time experience. I think what's drawing me incontinence now is that it's a change/loss of control that diapers can cause, and that change aspect really appeals to me.

Burnaby 29 y.o. gay guy here. New to DL, hoping to meet others and explore it!

I'm a DL (pretty new to it) in Burnaby. I'm pretty introverted, but it would be nice to chat with likeminded locals.