thediapereddevil

It kinda flares out a bit at the wrist, but can be adjusted by the attachable/lockable straps

Hey there! So I am not good at reaching out to people, but I realise I need to be a bit more proactive in trying to find similar minded folk. Apologies for rambling in advance and I am 100% aware this is a long shot. Long story short: I have an absolutely debilitating kink obsession with forced regression and forced feminization scenarios. At heart I’m not an adult baby, or even a sissy (though it’s an identity i’ve come to accept)…my biggest fantasy was always being turned into them though without having any say in the matter (seriously my kink library could basically be interpreted as just horror stories). Obviously, this is very hard to emulate safely, but the solution in my mind is: 1. To try and meet people who are into more dom/sub or master/slave relationships and want to explore a cnc agreement. 2. Alternatively, finding someone who wants someone to fuck with ? . I’ve come to realise it’s really hard to find anyone who is into assuming control like that, especially when (as mentioned) I suck at approaching people*. My awful hope of waiting for them to come to me does not seem to have paid off. Clearly I’d be a bit silly denying I like diapers, or dressing up at this stage. I have the photos and I bought the paraphernalia…but simply put I want someone else to be in control. I’ve gone through a few attempts doing this with online doms and its been fun, but I was kinda hoping to be able to take it a bit more seriously with the potential prospect of actually meeting my tormentor irl. So as the header says - anyone here interested in consensual non consent? Feel free to dm me. Again very conscious this is a bit of a long shot. *for two reasons historically 1. I don’t like bothering people or being needy. 2. If I have to ask to be turned into a diaper using sissy I feel too in control/like it defeats the purpose ??

Not bullied, but I got jumped by an absolute dick who was three years older than me in secondary school (about 12). When I was 18 I heard he was put in jail for GBH following a bar fight. Made me smile, but felt bad for the victim. Gives you some serious Lord of the Flies'ish moments of contemplation about when a person starts going wrong, or how inevitable it is.

In the UK there are definitely a lot of people who have accepted the "if its consensual, legal, private and doesn't seriously harm someone then it's ok" view, but that doesn't stop people judging kinks. My experience talking with people (without letting them know my own inclinations): Adult Babies and littles get hate because of the association with roleplaying minors and the implications when sexual activity is included as part of it. It's too close to dangerous territory for most people. The judgement is lessened depending on the age of roleplay/depth of roleplay - i.e. someone who play acts as a brat from time to time is broadly accepted (I know a lot of vanilla women like to do it), but someone who goes all in on dress up and pretending to mentally regress will be viewed negatively. Caregivers/mommy/daddy/etc. escape judgement a lot of the time because not many people understand the dynamic/think about it. However, for those who are aware of the dynamic they often target their negative judgement towards them. Again this is because they are identified as the instigators for a type of role play that is widely considered taboo. Diaper Lovers are typically grouped in with the above, but for those who know there is a difference they see DL's as being heavily perverse. Oddly more so than those who are into watersports, but maybe not as much as people into scat. Typically people are more accepting of this, but treat it like a really dark fetish. ^This is coming from talks with fairly liberal people, some into kink, some vanilla. People seem to be more understanding when it's described as a humiliation kink, less so for any other reason. In my experience, there are way more unsavoury/predatory individuals in the abdl community than other kink communities i've been a part of (you need to be vigilant), fortunately most people aren't aware of the make up of the communities - the judgement comes from speculation and media representation. Even as someone who is now super aware of abdl stuff and massively into various kinks I have to confess: A primal fear triggers in me every time people try to do ab rp with me. I know it's normally innocent enough, but I just can't wrap my head around it...so expecting vanilla folk to look at it sympathetically is something I don't think will happen any time soon. In terms of the wider acceptance i'd say abdl's are miles behind other kinks.

Coming in late and I think most people have covered the basics, but here's my advice: Get a small and a medium plug that have good flared base and a relatively slim, but sturdy tapered section. Use a reliable website and preferably pick well reviewed plugs. Don't start with glass or metal - use a silicone or similar plug. If you're a complete novice, then it's a bit of a learning curve to get into anything anal. For your first time try and make sure you are not inserting things with a full rectum, if you're not using an enema or similar, then at least make sure you've used the toilet in advance and have cleaned your hole out as much as you can (shower, non-irritable soap and your fingers). Lubricant is a must have. People sometimes talk about household lubricants for first timers, but seriously just buy some purpose made lube. Get used to trying to insert fingers fully, learn to control your breathing as you go through the process (don't do what a lot of people do and hold their breath/short stunted breathing) and try and relax as much as possible. Get comfortable with tensing, relaxing and even pushing with your muscles. When you feel brave enough you can try with the plug, if it starts to feel like too much you can slowly pull it out and try again, you'll find each time it will become easier and easier to accept more of it. Eventually it will go in. Most people I speak to find this sensation to be massively satisfying. Never rush anything, never push too hard, never go too deep if you're not ready. Positions can help with the insertion, some people swear by lying on their side, some people on all fours, etc. find what works best for you. If you notice small amounts of blood at any point stop, this isn't a dr's trip, it's common during first time anal, but it does mean you need to take care and should stop. If you're bleeding a lot, then that may be an indication of an underlying problem. If the pain/discomfort doesn't go away or the bleeding continues then you should contact a health provider. It's normal to feel a bit of lingering strain/pain after, again this is not an automatic dr's trip. I found taking a bath and relaxing after you're done to. You'll probably feel really full the first time you wear, don't feel like you have to keep it in for ages. For your first time you'll probably want to take it out fairly quick. It takes a while to get used to the sensation, but if you do practice anal and get used to massaging your prostate you may find yourself enjoying the feeling of it and involuntarily squeezing your butt around it. You'll probably be able to move from small to medium fairly soon, hence why you probably get both if you're serious about trying. Also, ignore fantasy stories - generally not a great idea to wear plugs for ages and ages. Take it out if it gets uncomfortable, re-lube when necessary, avoid wearing overnight. You can wear diapers over plugs at any point, unless you tape them too tightly it's unlikely you will prevent access from reaching it.

Just posting to say what an awesome job you do with your stories. I love the defiance by your protagonists and sadism of the tormentors. I really struggle to read forced babification stories where the main characters go from "wtf are you doing to me you freak" to "pwease can I hawve a change Mommy?" overnight, so your steady breakdown of the individuals will is great to read. Keep up the good work!

Aww thank you everyone for being so welcoming (and for the flattery ?). Hope to get to know you all a bit more in the near future! xx

I think the sissy side of me is purely sexual and rooted firmly in humiliation. I don't actually see it as an expression of femininity, but a coarse parody of effeminate behaviour (more removal of "manliness" than overt femininity). Naturally there is a huge risk that this is offensive to women and the trans community, but I see it more like a mockery of what we consider to be demeaning to men and how woman have historically been stereotyped. The idea being you're not a women, or even a little girl, you're going to be turned into a caricature - either some pathetic, helpless, sissy baby that is dependent on others, or some bimbofied, pink obsessed, ditzy, slut, etc. At no point do I think I want to actually act like a real woman or a little girl. I think that's why its kinda important to identify sissies as what they are as opposed to little girl/woman/etc. because otherwise its insulting to the concept of what a woman or a little girl is (just a normal human being characterised by their own individual personalities and struggles - not by clothes, colours, hairstyles, mannerisms, etc.).

Hi, i'm a DL who, for the last 10 years or so, has been very much on the fringes of the ABDL community. Kinda fell into it when using GetDare (under various aliases...yes I know it's not a great introduction to this world) and have never been able to shake the fascination. ABDL stuff is more of a kink than a 24/7 lifestyle for me, but i'm increasingly drawn to all aspects of the community and i'm always happy to make new friends. I'm getting more into producing adult ABDL content (images, writing, etc.) and diapering/dressing up when I have the freedom to do so. Here to engage with the community more, but if you're in the south of the UK don't be afraid to drop me a line! Love to meet other people into similar scenes