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Always always, can't remember a time I didn't go at least a few months without fantasizing about being incontinent. I remember having a few accidents when I was younger that resulted in some serious punishments and later all out trauma when it came to using the actual bathroom, which ended up with me achieving a steal bladder that I still struggle with and urinary retention. Didnt do accidents on purpose as a kid unless I was 1000% certian I could clean up after with no one noticing. It wasnt until a few years ago now though that despite still noy being in the absolulty best and sound situation to unpotty train, i was tired of living in fear, I didnt want to go one more day of my life without at least trying to be my authentic self. My imaginery friend when I was really young was incontinent and constantly in diapers to lol, which now that I think about it, was probably the biggest sign of them all. Or I remember when I'd find a book with a scene of someone having an accident, usually in very little detail, but I'd read it over and over again. Was the youngest sibling so anything diaper/accident related camr from books, tv, and my imagination.

So recently I've read something that has me slightly concerned, supposedly the act of masturbation can strengthen ones pelvic floor, which had me thinking, could that undo progress in someone that is unpotty-training? Is abstinence neccesary? Has anyone seen back sliding in progress because of this or vice versa?

Commenting because I love this story! I read it a while back but then couldn't find it again for the longest time! Defiently saving it so I don't loose it again, fantastic work!

Ideally I'd like to go cloth full time to cut down on costs once I have my own washer and dryer. But as it stands I usually only spwmd 60 a month to stay 24/7, a case of prevail airs from Carewell. Minus the bi yearly splerge on a pack or two of more fun diapers.

1. Severe total incontinence 2. Constant Leaky faucet 3. No awarness of having to pee 4. Heavy bedwetter, frequent pee dreams 5. Perminent 6. Severe total bowel incontinence 7. Yes

I'm sorry to hear that this has been your experience @Spudnick, though might I suggest telling your doctor this in this wording if you haven't already? (Perhaps not the part about stapling his genitals but the rest!) I hate how often we see this with this desire, personal viewpoints aside, its a matter of autonomy, I think that if the patient truly feels that it can improve their way of life and isn't deadly, and is of a sound mind, then they should be able to make such a decision for themselves. All that said, I am sloghtly glad to hear of another individual that wishes to untrain/be incontinet due to retention issues. I myself have struggled with it ever since I can remember. My shy bladder would rather bleed then let loose in a siuation it doesn't agree with. From one currently fattally continent indivifual to another, I wish you the best of luck!

I've noticed that when I go for periods (usually anywhrte between half an hour to several hours) of keepong my sphincters and pelvic floor successfully relaxed, dribbling or rather urinating in very small voids, often my bladder will start to ache. It's not painful though a bit odd, are others experiencing this? I once read that when you've relaxed enough your bladder might spasm on occasion on it's own, whether you have anything to let out of it or not, is this what that is? Wasn't sure where to post this but I do vekieve it relates to my untraining activities!

@Enthusi that's such great progress! Im so happy for you! Might I ask how you handled telling your health care prpviders about your incontinence? Did you tell them it was intentional or or simply that you were experiencing it and diapers were your preferred way of dealing with it? Also do you use any specific files for your meditiation or stent hypnosis? Been untrianing for a few years mtself and i gotta admit, feeling a little discouraged by progress levels. Also would it be alright to message you to chat more? If not no worries!

Hello! Been a little bit but I've been steadily working on my continence. A newer development has been that of looking for a hyonotist to help me achieve my incontinence goals, of which I beleive I've found one! The biggest stop currently though is that they require a letter of recomendation from a medical professional in order for them to perform hypnosis for untriggered incontinence. I've had a therapist for several yeard and we've gotten to the point where my mental health is in a good ppave to where I onky have appointments as needed. You might be asking why I don't just ask her to write my letter, in which case I would, if I had not already found out early on in ir sessiojs that she is adamantly against ABDL, as well as Furries and other things. That's why I am coming here for an odd request... Does anyone happen to know of or is an abdl freindly amd certified therapist that would be willing to meet to disscuss a letter of recomendation for hypnosis? I'm looking for someone who has rrasomabke process. Ideally under $90 a session. I contacted Dr. Rhonda, a vertified abdl therpaist online, and one of the only ones I could find that advertizes herself as much, but her rates are far out of my price range! I know this is a shot in the dark but I thought it was worth a try! Thanks for reading!

It sounds like your diet is the culprit, seeing as its more protein rich and highprotein levels are associated with increased testosterone I'd say your best bet is to go back to a lower protein diet (though still low calorie if your concerned with weoght) for two weeks or so and see how things are then.

1000% Not just am I getting my dream, but another person would be able to get what they wanted and needed. And I think that's really great. I think for alot of folks that want to be incontinent thus otpion would make them feel bettter as well, less gulity, not that we're doing anything wrong neccesarily, but it's always nice when a situation is beneficial for all involved!

Hey folks! I've seen some people talking about their experiences with https://alittlehypnosis.com/ and wantes to make a thread speicifically to talk more about it For those that don't know Alittlehypnosis (from my understanding) is a small privately owned company and owner of Abdl specific hypnosis files. They have a few that you can buy pre-made (I bought the Bedwetting protocall one for $25), and all suggest you listen for 14 days in a row before you'll see any affects. And if not the website reoxmends you schedule a one on one appointment with the hypnostists to personalize and further your progress. I'm still within the 14 day window of listening to the file I bought but am interested in getting a one on one session to achieve complete incotinence, but am wondering what other people's experiemve with them has been and if they're reallt worth the money. If you have experience with them: what was your contienence before starting with them? How many sessions have you had? And where is your contienve now afterwords? Have a lovely day!

Perhaps you could use the argument that diapers are your preferred method of handling incontinence because it's one of the least invasive options? You know the side effects and outcome with diapers. But medicene or surgeries effects can vary from person to person.

Hi! I have a few recomendations if you like! Wohmeriston (few files available on Warp My Mind) has some good non-regresssing undoing bladder control files. Urinating Boldy is the first I can think of off the tope of my head. He also has some other files like "A Proper Child" and "Baby Bladder Therapy" that despite their names arent memtally regressive, but rather just use the idea of returning your bladder to the syaye of continence it was at whem you were a baby as its way of cultivating incontinence. And from what I've seen the diaper specific files for sale on LittleHypnosis dont cover little spave/rehression either. Though I've only purchased and tried the Bedwetting Protocall one for now. Hope this helps!

I'm seeing a few folks having good experiences with LittleHypnosis and specifically Jayson- I'm wondering though, what was your starting continence before the sessions? How many have you had and how often? And where are you at with you untraining now? @BrownBobbyand @tspotters If you don't mind sharing! Might help some of us get an idea of whether or not its worth it for us to give a try ourselves!

I notice that alot of the posts on this thread appear to be stents made for people with er- stereotypical male associated genitalia. But I was wondering if anyone has any tips on here for best long term stents for those with stereotypical female associated genitalia? I've attempted caths ams stents in the post, but have never succeded, I believe because female asspciated genitalia tends to be harder to catheterize as well as myself possessing an abnormally narrow urethra ontop of that.

@DubiousI'm curious, are you referring to a specific stent or to just stents in general?

So its as the topics title suggests, in 10 days ill be reaching the one year mark of having been diaper training, or rather unpotty training. Ive been using my diapers for all peeing (toilet for #2's, though i try to never hold it, go as soon as i feel something and let it come out naturally, i dont do it in my diapers as i dont want to bother family with the smell) and its been great! I pee much mofe frequently then i used to, i habe the urge to go alot more, i pee aroynd 15 times a day, always at least 10, versus my pree training where i peed 2 times a day 3 max. But i still have some concerns. If i just let my bladder be and dont think about it, ill end up holding no matter what. And ive yet to have a ny true accidents that i can recall. Bedwetting or otherwise. I do have sone post vojd dribble sometimes, but thats about it. I really wish i was farther, especially what with being nearly a year in now. Anyone have any suggestions of how to help things along further? Hypnosis doesnt seem to work on me, been trying that throughout this whole year. And im really just so very tired of being continent still. Anyone have experience with it takeing a long time? P.s: catheters or stents are not for me, had soem for surgeries in the past, and those hurt more then the actual surgical sight did

Hello! Been a while! But I'm 7 months into my unpotty training and have made significant progress! I came our to my fsmily in the sense that I've told them Im experiencing incotinence and have chosen to wear protection to manage it. The problem is, they keep pusjing me to go to a urologist and get mad at me when I say im fine (i live with my parents though I buy and habdle all my own supplies and am over 18, still at home due to college). Should I perhaps go see a urolpgist and tell them the truth so that they can give me a note to get my family to back off? Ive alrrady talked to my therapist and she supports me being padded, but that just doesnt seem like enough for my parents.

So this summer I'm considering working at my local factory in order to get money to helo pay for my schooling. But the current worry from friends and family alike is that i wont be able to dispose of padding properly in a factory working environemnt, does anyone have any advice or experience on this? Any is appreciated!

Bit of money struggles with my little one, but want to stay padded 24/7, he's quote the super soaker, any recomendations for most absorbent reausable cloth diapers?

At 6 months now of my untraining journey! But this last 2 weeks or so there's been a problem, I think ive developed urinary retention, i can pee a little but not everything comes out, i'm honestly confused as what tk do moving forward since its the opposite of what I want. Should I just go with it? Try holding until i physically cant anymore and loose control that way? Im really confused

@Enthusi I see, thank you for your response! I was also curious if anyone has heard of acheiveing incontinebce through overflow? By holding in their pee into their body forces them to release, and repeating this until there body moves to just taking care of urinating on its own or their bladder atrophy's becayse of overuse. I haven't heard jf this method tried much but am curious for how many it has worked and how long it took.

@Enthusi @BabySpiderBoy I see, do you know if the breathing in and then breathijg out for a long time (technique people with shy bladders use) would inhibit training or count as un-natural? I want to be sure I'm not accidentally harming my progress. Thank you for your responses!

I'm still trying to get better at peeing in different positions, like sitting down and straight laying on my back for long periods of time, as apart of my untraining. What I'm trying to figure out though, is if i should stay in that position until I pee (until my bladder gets to full and my body has no choice but to let go) or if i should move to a position I can pee in to maintain a small bladder size?