Hey, I know where your at. Sometimes the world gets so out of control thru no fault of your own and there is nothing you can do to stop it. I suggest duck and cover. See if you can let this wave wash over you and you just pop up on the back side.
I was just thinking of getting out my sandals that I wore in the loony bin a couple years back when I ran across your post. (I think I broke a little toe last week and shoes hurt.) I had a number of family issues that were not my fault and I couldn't do any thing to mitigate but they stressed me anyway. I spent 8 days in the hospital, but in my own defence, only two of them were voluntary. They had matresses that were made with plastic covers. Cool! I always thought (hoped), disposable diapers would be part of the psyc ward experience but no. Those Drs. have a fetish for dignity and no understanding of the fantasies of a DL.
Seriously, DBB, Hang in there. It may take a while but all this crap should pass.
Anondl