wannawet

Would be interesting, maybe add juice, such as cranberry, etc. To the mix. Too much coffee/ caffiene jitters, to much water can be a big issue as well. Like that you put limits on intake, and gave time to drink. Also, where is this fair at???

I had plastic pants on, since this was the first time actually using them, but no, they did not leak at all. I would be comfotably wearing withou the plastic diaper cover. They have a waterproof layer built in, and Eryn told me she had only had a couple of complaints of leakage, mostly from sizing issues. IF I order more, the only thing I will do is have her make them about an inch higher at the waist, and tighten up the waistband. They stayed up fine, was wearing a good fitting onsie though, not sure if they would slip down without the support as they got full... wore the first pair 9 hours, active outside, multiple wettings...

Understand.

I found a package of belt style diapers in the wrecking yard I worked at, sometimes went on tows and could be away from facilities,but around police, for hours, and my bladder was not happ about it, so I started wearing the belted ones in my briefs. From there tried Walmart and drugstore leakers, before I found Molicare's at a local medical supply store.

It was hard to admit, but I know need protection, today has just made it more obvious. I am really loving these training pants though, still in the first pair, and even though they are wet from front to an inch up my butt cheeks, they have not leaked. Have wetted 5 or 6 times, no holding back, and they just keep taking it. They are swelling a little, enough to notice. Erynkidsworld on Etsy. She mainly does actual kids training pants, but will do adult ones people special order.

US Air Force '81 to '07

And, apparently, I'm not a 'big boy' yet, I already had an accident....

Love those ABU's, they were my favorite when I drove OTR trucks... kept several packs stored in the underbunk.

Several months ago I had 3 pairs of training pants custom made from a vendor on Etsy, very thick, very absorbent, and such awesome fabric colors, but haven't been able to actually wear them for more than a few minutes until this weekend. Have been in the first pair for 1/2 hour now, and LOVE them. Will be wearing for the next 24 hours... then back to my normal men's pads again..

Air Force, 81 to 07, dealing with getting older, leaking, etc, but have always been fascinated with diapers, wore for 6 months when driving semi, love the feeling of comfort and security, but wife is not open to me wearing for fun when men's guard will handle where I am leak wise.

Wish you were closer to the south sound...

Looking for others in Tacoma area who would like to meet, do things, talk, etc.. can be vanilla to sharing, car shows, zoo, hiking, etc...

thank you Brian, my comment wasn't pointed at you in particular. Yes, wife and I will have to find a mutually acceptable point, that will shift if and when my body does.... If I was single, or even in a serious but not married situation things would be different, much different, but I am married, for better or worse...

I'm not here to have others tell me how my relationship with my wife is, are there issues? Yes, but every relationship has things we give and take to make the whole thing work. I have added info on this thread not to vilify her, but to explain my current situation. I will not be leaving her over this, will not counter with my own ultimatum, etc. I know her reasons for her reaction, and where they are rooted in her past, and we are both working on past trauma issues. The fact I would intentionally try to become incontinent, to HAVE to be diapered, was too much. I will continue to let her know how things are going, and am making an appointment to see my PCM to discuss the current changes in bladder leakage, etc. I appreciate the concern for what seems to be abusive, but I am actually glad that she has opened up enough since we have been together to speak her mind, set limits and make rules.... If things, bladder wise, continue to degrade we will figure them out.... if the doctors figure something out, great, but if I move to quality pullups, or eventually end up diapered we will figure it out, as long as I actually NEED them, not just want....

8 years ago, I 'gave myself to her', renew of vows, but giving her the dominant role in the relationship. Yes, dom/sub.... She is not overly strict, but definitely has hard limits, this is one... A common phrase here 'there is no going back, only forward to the next reality'. Her reality is that diapers are a deal breaker. Our relationship is well above average, things work very well, and life is good.

Yep.... she found out I was trying to become urinary incontinent, on purpose, was honestly having leakage issues, but took it upon myself to compound them. I know I went about the whole thing all wrong, and don't want a repeat. That is my dilema... Having legit leakage issues, urge issues, and deep in my mind really want to be in diapers, but fighting to keep the control I have to maintain the relationship....

To try to clarify, when I woke up needing to pee, after dreaming I had, I really just wanted to not have to get up. Have been sleeping poorly, and if I get up around that time the dog gets up and wants to go out, so I end up outside until he pees, by then I'm too awake to get back to sleep, since I get up at 5:30 anyway... wetting was not really an option, but wishing I could then just go back to sleep, that sounded so good....

raises hand and blushes... Spanaway

As I said in my newbie post, I am a DL, minor AB, adn I want to be in diapers 24/7, but my Wife is very vanilla and understandably freaked out when I trying to make myself incontinent a couple of years ago. I know it was a selfish thing to do, and that she wouldn't like it, but didn't expect it when She gave me an ultimatum "Diapers or our relationship, oh, and pictures/posts on FB so all your friends know..." ... I was able to get things back to just minor leakage, drips, minor pee when sneeze or cough, adn frequent going due to my 'untraining' . It took a lot of effort to get my bladder control back to that point... I was night wetting, free peeing during the day, etc... about 60% of the way to total incontinance. Since then I have reinjured my lower back, and my 'control' has slipped, even though I am hoonestly trying not to just let go. I use mens pads 24/7, and normally change 3-4 times a day to keep the smell at bay. She doesn't really want to hear about it, but when I have changes in my patterns I let her know so it's not a surprise... This morning I woke up around 4:30, REALLY had to pee, and had actually been dreaming that I was. I laid there actually contemplating just letting go, knowing that the pad would not save the bed. I thought about getting up and putting on a pair of the Contfitex absorbent shorts I recently bought, since they have more absorbent area to the back than just a pad, but ended up getting up and using the toilet, then back to bed where I could feel myself dribbling each time I moved. I curled up with my 28" stuffed Wolf plushie and finally drifted off to sleep, wishing I was better protected.. I told Wife the short version of this morning, she said "I'm sorry"... I'm seriously thinking about ordering some quality pull-ups for night time, something that would maybe get me through the night without having to get up 2-3 times... (Tena Max, or something similar, please let me know if you have any better options), and just hoping things don't go way south with the wife. As much as I WANT to be diapered, I and REALLY trying not to, but am letting nature take it's course ... At 57, almost 58, things start leaking ...

Started with the cheap store brands in 2016, found out how bad some really were (and feel sorry for people who need protection that buy them), found out about ABU and used theirs and Molicare, would like to try ABU's new Simples..

I have a wolf pack of stuffies, around a dozen,but my got to to sleep with is a 28" wolf named Luna... she either sleeps on my chest or is cuddled up beside me... and yes, I sleep better with her....

Diaper lover, little bit AB, kinda furry, trying to find my way and my place in it all. My screen name kinda says it, Wanna wet..., but am married, and she doesn't understand why I feel so comfortable in diapers, and it's hard for me to try to explain when I really don't know why either, I just like how they make me feel. Honestly, have some bladder leakage issues, use men's pads 24/7, with occasional overflows, but really want to just be diapered... Waves hesitantly...