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Clothdiaperman

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  1. I wear gauze diapers and heavy duty plastic pants at night. What gauze diaper is the best for softness, absorbency, and goes well with heavy duty plastic pants from Leakmaster? Pre fold or purity flay diapers? Why? What is the difference between the two? There is a cost difference why? I have cerebral palsy and wear cloth diapers and plastic pants at night for bed wetting and comfort.
  2. I wear gauze diapers and heavy duty plastic pants at night. What gauze diaper is the best for softness, absorbency, and goes well with heavy duty plastic pants from Leakmaster? Pre fold or purity flay diapers? Why? What is the difference between the two?
  3. I have gone to counseling and told counselors that I love wear cloth diapers and plastic pants. I found that there are some good counselors but they are rare. Many will not discuss a diaper fetish with you because the habit is something they do not identify with or they are trying to take advantage of a client who is a diaper lover by charging an insane amount of money for a 50 minute session. I also would say make sure you sign inform and consent and confidentiality paper work before saying anything in session. This keeps you therapist from repeating anything you say unless you are a treat to yourself or others. I find that there are some therapist that are lacks with you confidentiality. I had one approach me to sell me their latest book on being a diaper lover that would be an autographed copy. 1 I do not want an autographed book laying around. I am not out with my habit and the therapist knew this. The therapist is not suppose to make contact with you outside a session unless their making an appointment with you directly. A lot of therapist encourage sites like this without considering what may windup online. There are many that want multiple session without considering your online privacy and insurance. I would just take these factors into account when looking for a therapist. I found a great therapist now but I am having to wait for counseling because of privacy and insurance issues I have gotton to the point I wantto wear cloth doubled diapers and plastic pants 24/7 and this causes an issue with family because I am not out with my being a cloth diaper lover.
  4. I am a diaper lover and find myself wanting to be in a double cloth diaper and plastic pants 24/7. I do not go in them. I wear for comfort and pleasure and it feels fantastic. I quit cold turkey and hate it. I am going to wear again when I get my own space. I have gone from once or twice a week of this habit to wanting it all the time. Thank you for responding to my post.
  5. Having a cloth diaper fetish or being a cloth diaper lover has left me with questions. I have looked for literary reviews or studies on the subject that are credible. I also found it extremely difficult to find a therapist that would counsel an individual with the issue of having a diaper fetish or a term that is used to describe this problem, being a diaper lover. Most therapy sessions for the issue, are from my observations from trying to get help for myself, are two hundred dollars a session or more. Some of the therapists I have encountered have professional issues as counselors. Many therapists do not even want to deal with the subject of a diaper fetish. I have had a diaper fetish from childhood as a disabled child. I have had an object attachment or desire to wear cloth diapers since adulthood. I ignored the desire into adulthood but question; where the psychological I desire wear to wear cloth diapers came from diapers came from. They were a comfort to me during a challenging time in my childhood but, as an adult why do I have the desire to wear them now? I do not want anything to do with behaving like a child nor would I do anything inappropriate around or with a child. There is also the question; I have of having a diaper fetish, is the fetish or habit dangerous mentally or physically? Am I doing myself harm by now having a diaper fetish or being a so called diaper lover, and would this same issue do me harm if ,I continue to try to ignore it after quitting the habit? Counselors or anyone with experience with this subject please leave a comment. Cloth Diaper Man
  6. I did tell two therapists about my desire to wear cloth diapers and plastic pants. after I made sure they were licensed, I had a confidentiality agreement with them, and I talked with them a couple appointments before bringing up I am a diaper lover. I told theripist about my habit because I have had the desires to wear cloth diapers since childhood. I was disabled in childhood and being in cloth diapers was and still is a pleasurable comfort to me now. Theripist, I saw were very understanding. They said that I was not doing anything wrong as long as I did not bother others with my being a diaper lover. I am not ADBL but love the way the cloth of the diapers feels. I wear at home in private. The therapist helped me with questions and fears I had. I could ask about and explore my desires and fears and it helps.
  7. I am a straight handicapped man that uses cloth diapers and plastic pants for a sexual release at night. I tam careful to keep my diapers, plastic pants, pins, and power put up. I am not out with my wearing cloth diapers at night. I have had times when I have left pins or plastic pants out. This was discovered once by a loving family member. My clear heavy plastic pants were on my desser after taking them off. The family member asked why I had them and was I ok. I told her I wear at night for sexual a release and she was understanding. This unpleasant, embarracimg, moment happened. I came out brietly akept it short and simple. I keep my being a cloth diaper lover quite.Sometimes having to come out happens just keep keep your reasons for wearing brief and simple. This is embarrassing but diapers have helpped me stay away from an STD, given me comfort for my axiety, and given me soft, warm pleasure. I keep my being in cloth diapers and plastic pants quite, I do not bother anyone and love waring cloth doapers and plastic pants every night now,
  8. There are times when coming out about being a diaper lover can not be avoided. I wear cloth diapers and clear plastic pants at night, I have accidentally left my plastic pants out on my dresser after taking them off, I had a close family member discover them and ask why I had them I am do not have a unary problem. I told them they help as a sexual release and left it at that.
  9. I wound not tell anyone unless they were a wife or girlfriend or care taker. Keep details simple. example I wear for anxiety or other relief end of discussion.
  10. I told my therapist about my being a diaper lover. I felt I needed to. I did not understand my desire to wear cloth diapers and plastic pants. I signed a confidentiality agreement with my therapist. The therapist can not discuss what I told them unless, I am a threat to myself or others. I was worried about my mental health. I was told there was my love of wearing cloth diapers and plastic pants. I love wearing cloth diapers and plastic pants because they are soft, warm, comforting, and pleasurable. This does not involve anyone else. The therapist said as long as my being a diaper lover does not hurt anyone accept it, enjoy it, and embrace it . I wear at night and around the house privately. Being a diaper lover can cause shame, embracement, and other issues. I came out with my therapist because it was and still is an issue. I found therapist that I was comfortable with and told them about my being a cloth diaper lover in plastic pants in private, and it has helped greatly. Just make sure that your therapist is licensed in the state where you live and you sign a confidentiality and inform and consent contract before ever starting sessions with any therapist
  11. l have cerebral palsy and have become a cloth diaper lover. I have nothing against therapy. It has helped with questions I have on the issue. I want people to beware of somethings that have caught my attention. There are a few good therapist that help with this issue. I also find there are many that will to to take advantage of those of us that are diaper lovers. I find that a great deal of therapist will not deal with you unless you are willing to spend $200.00 or more on a 50 minute session. There is also the issue of ethics . The therapist that you sign a confidentiality agreement with is not suppose to make contact with you as a client unless, they are setting up an appointment related to your therapy sessions. I would also question why any therapist that was ethical and good a what they do would encourage their clients to participate in diaper lover sites. The for this is the site take what people post about their question as a diaper lover on the internet for anyone to read. This puts your questions and fears of being a diaper lover out in the open possibly exposing your identity. One last point is make sure that your counselor is licensed in the state they practice in. Some are not licensed where they are practicing. There is also the difference between a coach and a real therapist. The coach may not be licensed or have have training to be a therapist.
  12. I do not go in my diapers. Thank you for your input. I will wear in private. I crackle sometimes when I walk.
  13. I have loved being in cloth diapers and plastic pants since childhood. I was disabled as a child and cloth diapers in plastic pants are a warm, soft, pleasure that I wear bed and in private. I love wearing nothing but a double cloth diapers, plastic panties and a T-shirt, when I have the privacy. I know that there is a good chance that will one day be discover by family. I will keep the discussion simple. I wear because the are a sexual release and comfort. Have any of you been caught in diapers? What was your answer when asked why you wear? I also have thought a lot about waring cloth diapers under my clothes. I have had mornings when, I did not want to take the cloth diapers and plastic pants off because I was comfortable and it felt wonderful. I can not wear around family because they would give me grieve over the fact, I was wearing cloth diapers as under clothing so, I keep my habit quit for now. I will cloth diapers and plastic pants under my clothes soon when, I move into my own place. Have any of you had trouble from anyone when wearing in public? What did you say when asked why you had cloth diapers on under your clothes? I am trying to figure out how to ease into wearing full time. How did this start for you? I am l trying to embrace my being a diaper lover.
  14. Wearing diapers and plastic pants feels fantastic to me. I have loved the feel of the warm, soft, cloth, in plastic pants since childhood. I wear them to bed and in private. I love wearing cloth diapers, plastic pants, and a T shirt around the house with nothing else. They help with anxiety and make me feel fantastic when I wear them. I wear and enjoy being in diapers more than I ever have. I am careful about when I wear diaper. I do not wear around family or people that would give me grieve. I do not bother anyone this way. I am fearful of wearing in public and do not. I am not doing anything wrong. This makes me feel better. I just watch where and who I wear cloth diapers and plastic pants around .
  15. I do not go in them. I love the way the warm soft cloth feels around my private areas. This is a sexual release that makes me feel fantastic.
  16. I wear diapers in private but I am giving serious thought to wear cloth diapers and plastic pants 24/7. I have always loved the soft warn cloth of diapers and plastic panties. I have cerebral palsy and diapers are now and always have been a soft, warm, pleasurer and a comfort. I want to wear my diaper like normal under clothing. I do not do this around family because they know that I am not inconstant and would give me grieve for wearing in public or anytime else. I am getting my own place soon and want to wear 24/7 but would feel at odds if someone asked why, I was in diapers. I would tell a white lie. Anyone have insight to this?
  17. There are times when I can wear a double cloth diaper and plastic panties around the house. I wear them at night and do not want to take them off because this feels fantastic. I wear a pair of sweat pants over my diapers and plastic pants when I know I have to answer the door or go to the mail box. Otherwise I wear nothing but diapers, plastic panties, and a T shirt and do not answer the door. Are there any other pants beside sweat pants that I can slip on and of around my diapers easily?
  18. I live with family. I feel this would cause a problem with me wearing under my clothes. I am not out with being a diaper lover. I do not feel that my family would be accepting of the diaper lover concept. I know that they would give me grieve for wearing in public. I wear cloth diapers and plastic pants because I love having the warm, soft cloth of the diapers around my penis at all times. I also get anxiety and I feel like I have to urinate because of the anxiety. I will be in cloth diapers full time when I get my own place.
  19. I was cloth diapered as a disabled child. This was embarrassing, but also at the same time, became something that was comforting to me. I had been diagnosed with cerebral palsy. The cloth diapering became something that made me feel good when, I did not understand why I was operated on and scared. I develop the desire to wear cloth diapers and plastic pants in adulthood. I kept this desire quite. I was getting older and thought there was something wrong with the thoughts of me wanting to wear cloth diapers and plastic pants. I gave into the desires to wear cloth diapers and plastic pants. I started wearing cloth diapers and plastic pants at night and around the house in private. I went to therapy and learned that being a diaper lover happens. There was nothing wrong as long as, I did not bother others with the habit. i am learning to embrace and enjoy my being a cloth diaper lover. The habit still relieves anxiety that I have, it gives me a safe way to get sexual gratification, and makes me feel wonderful. I wear my favorite clothing now more than I ever did quietly. I want to wear diapers under my clothes, but I am coming to terms with there are those, who would give me grieve for wearing under my clothes. I have had mornings when, I have decided to wear diapers during the day because they felt good when i woke up and did not want to take them off. I do not wear around family. This would cause grieve and hard ship on my relationships for now. I use discretion with how, when, and where I wear my favorite articles of clothing. I hope this helps some of you who struggle with being a diaper lover.
  20. I have cerebral palsy and have loved being in cloth diapers and plastic pants since childhood. I wear cloth diapers and plastic pants at night and in private around the house. I love the way the warm, soft cloth feels on my private areas I also love pleasure in cloth diapers and plastic pants when it happens. I had diapers on in my neighborhood for the first time under sweat pants and no one noticed. I am getting comfortable with wearing in public slowly. There are still problems with this. I have family member that are not going to be open to the fact I am a cloth diaper lover. I would not wear diapers around family or people that would challenge the idea. I want to wear 24/7 but have to wait till I do not live with family. I do not want my habit to hinder my relationships.
  21. I wear cloth diapers around the house and at night in private. I have never told anyone. I will discuss my habit on the need to know only policy only.
  22. I wish I had your courage. I love wearing cloth diapers and plastic pants. I want to wear them in public but I am nervous about wearing outside my home. How do you handle family and people, that would give you grieve for wearing diapers in public? How did you come out honestly with the fact you wear diapers with these same people?
  23. I love wearing cloth diapers and plastic pants. I wear for no other reasons than comfort and sexual gratification. I find cloth diapers to be a safe way to have a pleasurable experience with out the risk of an STD. I love wearing cloth diapers a round the house. Sometimes I wear because the cloth of the diaper is warm and feels wonderful when, heated in plastic pants I have had days where I planned on wearing nothing but cloth diapers, plastic pants, and a T-shirt all day. I do loose the urge to wear my favorite clothing after pleasure. I am disabled and this makes me feel better.
  24. I wear a double cloth diaper around the house in private and at night. I have been wearing Leak Master heavy plastic pants. They fit around a double cloth diaper wonderfully, but I wanted to see if there are other brands of heavy plastic pants that hold up better. Are there any?
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