JacktheShat

I have been seeing a younger guy for a little while. He has been surprisingly willing to try stuff, but although I have joked about putting him in a diaper he has not responded. I really want him to wear and fill a diaper so i can change him. Maybe even have sex while he is stinky. He is only 18 and he isn't alway that clean anyway. Crusty I think the word is! That really turns me on and i would love to do it with him really stinky. But I don't want to scare him off. He is the best thing that has happened to me in years. It isn't just the sex, he is a really loving guy. I think that he would really enjoy wearing a diaper and messing in them. The fact that at 18 he still doesn't wipe properly suggests that he wasn't toilet trained properly. I would love to do that for him. But how do I introduce the idea without freaking him out?

I am referring to anal sex here, but didn't want to put that in the title. I am DL by necessity and choice. I suffer bowel incontinence due to IBS, but also chose to wear diapers at other times as I like wearing them. I am two weeks past a really bad flare up and yesterday decided i would prep for some hopeful weekend fun with the b/f by playing with my dildo. I was tight but i had fun. This morning though I had a bad accident. Fortunately I wore pull-ups last night just in case, but I had just stood up from the bed when I lost control. I now have the feeling like a flare up is upon me again. Could the dildo play have caused this? I will be devastated if that is out of bounds now. Has anyone had any experience similar?

I am faecal incontinent but not urinary. mainly due to an inherited weakness and illness as a child. It is also linked to IBS. When that flares up I lose control. I am actively embracing my FI and enjoy messing my diaper. But is has not ye led to UI although I deliberately urinate in my diaper. My morning routine is to urinate before I get up then walk around deign chores until i poop. Then after a while of enjoying the feeling I head to the bathroom to clean up. As for the mess, it is no big deal. I tip the diaper contents into the toilet before rolling that up, wipe the main mess from my behind then step into the shower. Maybe it is because I am gay and into anal, but I like to finger my messy hole as I clean it. Double the pleasure! Okay not for everyone, but poop is nothing to be disgusted by.

I think it is about fantasy not sexuality, not that sexuality is binary anyway. I know straight guys I share some kinks with who would have gay sex with me in the right gear. I have always been more into kink and fantasy that guy's bodies. I like being spanked for example and some of my want fantasies involve female teacher types. I don't think changes my sexuality though

I think what you are describing is what I call an anal orgasm. I used to indulge in a lot of anal sex. I tended to climax really early on while being penetrated by a guy, but if he went on long enough I would cum again but with an orgasm in my anus not my cock. They were some of the best orgasms I have ever had and left me exhausted, And yes, anal sex solo or getting ploughed does inevitably loosen you up. One of the reasons I got not diapers was that i would lose control temporarily after an heavy anal session. A friend, who is into fisting, had a stash of pads and diapers which intrigued me, so i tried it. One Saturday morning, after my bf at the time had given me a good pounding, I discreetly pulled on some pull-ups for our trip to the supermarket. As we walked around I shat myself. Just a little bt it was thrilling

I am not sure whether you are referring to coming out as gay or DL. When i finally came out to my mother as gay (late twenties) i think she was relived in a way. She kind of knew, but she also knew something of my many kinks. I think she would have found it harder had I come out as DL or kinky. But I dont know why I would do that anyway. it is stuff I do alone or with trusted friends. being gay is something I cannot keep private (as much a i tried to in my teens and early twenties). I have friends who have come out to parents as gay in a wide variety of circumstances and with a range of outcomes, none anywhere as bad as any of us imagined. And none as bad as living in the closet.

Well that is a difficult question for me to answer. I started having sexual fantasies about my friends when I was about 10 or 11 but in many ways they were incidental to my various kinks. For most of my teens I was more sexually interested in things and role play scenarios associated with them than people. I have lots of kinks: diapers, spanking, rubber boots, workwear, uniforms. Until I was 19 i absorbed myself with the things and wasn't too bothered about anyone else being involved. I was lucky that i was able to build a small collection of kinky stuff. Obviously some of my fantasies involved others by default, but often in a blurry kind of way. Like getting spanked a teacher figure without it being anyone in particular. Or i would see a guy in wellies (rubber boots) and would have wild fantasies about getting to try his boots on, but it was his boots not him I was interested in. Same with diapers. I liked the idea of someone changing me, but it was all about me and my messy diaper. I first had sex with someone when I was 19 and for a couple of years after, but I was very randy. But I was never very good at it and only really enjoyed it (beyond the physical sensation) if one of my kinks was involved. Over the years i have struggled with sex and generally prefer to masturbate alone with my gear. However I went through phases in my twenties and thirties where i was a very active gay man, but almost alway involving my various kins and my need to be submissive. I will not be particular, but there is a certain sex act that some gay men are into that plays to my strengths and need to be submissive, so I got by. Hope that helps.

Does anyone else enjoy playing with their poo filled diaper? I did it for the first time a week ago and now cannot stop doing it. I liked to walk around in my poo filled diaper for a while before sitting on the bathroom floor and mushing my poo all over me insider. I a, really turned on bu this and rub myself to a climax with my own poo. So am i just a weirdo or do other people like doing this?

I like to stay in my messed diaper for a while, but I would be careful about sitting in it for too long. You could easily get a UTI or something similar if it gets into the wrong places. You could also get nasty rashes that can get very sore and if you have any broken skin then an infection is a risk. For me an hour is the max and then walking around (I like the feel of the load hanging between my legs) and not sitting/lying in it

I like to play with my messy diaper, mushing the poop and pushing it around. I enjoy messing my diaper and wandering around with it all messy and stinky. is that scat? No I don't think so. But I have started to enjoy masturbating in my messed diaper, rubbing myself to a climax with the poop inside my diaper. That may be edging more towards scat, but I don't think I could do it would it being contained in the diaper. I am not afraid of my own poop and don't mind cleaning myself up (does it help to be gay and into anal? Maybe.) I have a good friend who is properly into poop play. He smears it over his body to masturbate. He has even offered to lick my butt after I have messed myself! That is SCAT i think the difference is wether it is the diaper that is key for you or the poop. I couldn't play with poop other than my own and inside my diaper

Every morning for a week now. I have gotten into the habit of keeping my diaper on in the mornings until I do a poop. I then like to keep it on for an hour or to while I do stuff. I also like to walk around the garden with my messy diaper under my gown, it feels really good

I have cone to be DL through necessity and now wear diapers far more often that I need to. I enjoy it and find diapers comforting. I like to mess my diapers. I find it exciting in a naughty kind of way. I like to walk around in a messed diaper, go out into the garden etc, They also enhance my pleasure when masturbating. Of late I have been playing with my messy diapers by way of experimenting, I don't know I will do it a lot, but I have had sone great orgasms while mushy my poop inside my diaper.