Actually what would be good is if the ABDL community did wat the LG community does. Find a place like Rainbow Mountain Resorts that caters to this kind of thing and have a "camp" where you cn do pretty much as you like, I only know about Rainbow Mountain which is in PA it might be a good idea for us to put together a list of VETTED places that allow for this kind of thing. I will put the links in my LG playroom on my siggie so that it is acceesible
A bigh question is are they diaper-friendly, at least as far as wetting goes, and that means cloth diapers, to. It is not likely that you will find a scat-friendly place. Another question is the best time of year to meet. Location? Facilities? support for activities and activity planning: a "camp" is different from a "con": Then arranging ride-sharing and all of that
http://www.rainbowmountain.com/