This is what makes us unique and different. We have a love of diapers and we are diversified enough to come from all walks of life, races, creeds and color/colour. Each of have our own beliefs and a chatroom is not a place to make a stand or soap box for anything other than what the chatroom is for; i.e. discussion of diapers and the lifestyle.
If someone offends you by their speech, then ignore them or leave. People will antagonize any one they feel they can get away with it. If you stand and fight, it's you that looks like the idiot to every one else.
I too would be offended by the use of any profanity and or obscenity using that to me just indicates a lack of education and couth, but that's my opinion and another reason I don't go into chatrooms any more.
If some one does not have anything good to say, Personally, I think they should keep they mouths shut and their keyboards silent, but again, that's me. Who am I, some one with an opinion, that's all, nothing more, nothing less.