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I just learned about these a couple days ago, so I called up KCK and ended up talking to one of the owners of the company. He was very nice, and very informative, and offered to send me a couple samples--something they don't typically do (so please don't call up asking). http://kckmedical.com/abri-flexandregspecial-mediumlarge-fits34to58-absorbs1700ml-bag.aspx The main thing I wanted to know was why these cost so much, and if they addressed the problems found in most pull-ups. It seems that they don't have any better coverage than the standard Abri-Flex pull-ups, but he told me that they have much, much more elastic and are designed to stay up even when wet, even when the wearer is active. The difference, it seems, is in the pant, not the pad. Interesting. Perhaps the most interesting thing I learned is that these are not actually made by Abena, but by a Japanese company. Regardless, I'll be curious to try them and I'll post an update here. -RMS

After my wife left for school this morning at 6 (they do NOT pay teachers enough!) I decided I wanted some baby time in bed. I gave myself a 2 ounce enema bulb of my favourite glycerine mix, pulled up my diaper, pulled up my cute plastic panties, slipped into a warm nightie, and snuggled up in the bed under a bunch of blankets. As I usually do, I held everything in for about 5 minutes to let the glycerine do its work (not an easy job!), and then relaxed. In about 3 minutes my entire focus was centered on my bottom. A few minutes more, and I slowly filled my diaper. I let the poop out on its own...no forcing. For the next couple of minutes, I'd feel some more come out, and then a flood of pee announced the end of that session. I was warm; I was empty; I was a all cozy in my bed. I drifted off to sleep until a bit after seven and cleaned up. Even now, 3 hours later, I'm still relaxed.

So, have we been going at this all wrong. Maybe we should realize that its not that we want to wear diapers, its that toilet use is an addicition. I think we need a twelve step program, "Toilet Users Anonymous". "Hi, my name is Bob, I'm a toilet user ... its been three days since I last used a toilet ..." ---------------------------------- Found this post from Baby Huey on BBIF....... Happiness Is Wearing Cotton Diapers

I've posted pages of help for stuff like this before so normally I stay away because I am "burnt out" but I'll give you my advice. I am going to be very honest with you and I'm going to make it quick. #1. He lied, that is all on him, it was wrong; However, relationships can only exist on a foundation of honesty, otherwise it will crumble. While yes he lied, he also told you the truth. You really should appreciate this because, especially in Today's materialistic driven society, husbands and/or wives will cheat and do whatever they want and not give a damn about their significant other. He told you because obviously he felt bad enough about it that he didn't want this to set precedent in an early budding marriage which leads to number 2. #2. You are his wife, he loves you, if he did not care about you he would not have told you. This community is EXTREMELY private and if you've read threads on the DD forums, you know we look down on people blatently going out of their way to flaunt this lifestyle infront of people. When we tell someone, that means right away that we care deeply (even if not in a romantic sense) for that person and we want them to have greater stake in our lives. It is not something we trivialize, it is not something we want people to know about, it is not something we frankly wish to share with others. So the fact that he came out about it to you not once, but TWICE after he KNEW he was lying and wanted to make things right with you. He put his neck in the guillotine knowing your hand is on the rope. That being said. #3. All men and women look or have looked at some form of porn depending on your definition. This is a fact of life. You know Victorias Secret commercials? That is a form of very light soft porn. Now I know you are questioning where I am coming from in my perception so I will explain. I am a conservative with very libertarian leanings as far as government goes, I am Catholic, my family is a very military family and I too will probably join up at some point in the next couple of years. In 2008 on these forums, I threw a great share of venom around at people, who frankly, I am amazed some of them participate in threads with me anymore. I think we might have some views from along the same processes eh? #4. The Lifestyle Root. I only sometimes call it a fetish anymore because after doing a lot of searching and deep thought I have discovered a few things about what it is that we do. The cause it different for all of us, some of us were abused as children, some of us had a storybook type comfortable childhood, some (including me) think there are some possible genetic links at play. The root cause is different for everyone but one thing is for certain, the desires are so deeply rooted in our being, to 'tear' it out of us, for many, would quite literally change our personalities. Unlike many of the other "fetishes" we don't just like to do it, it is part of who we are. I like to compare it (for myself) to the Showtime show character Dexter and his "dark passenger." I can delay it, I can keep it tame for a while, but after awhile it is something I have to do. It is the same for many of us. We all wear for different reasons, from coping mechanism for a medical issue, to people like me who have to for some unbeknownst reason. #5. Perception. As a community we all suffer from the overly negative perception continually flamed by people losing a bet, certifiably insane and sick people, and assholes who get off on the attention. 98% of us are decent, hard working, responsible, good-willed adults. Of course there are and will always be people who lose themselves and it consumes them no matter what it is; however, because of the negatively laden perception of what it is we do, we all get catagorized with the people you see Chris Hanson confronting. #6. Is he sexually attracted to diapers more than you. I know this question has crossed your mind and I can absolutely tell you with 100% certainty the answer is No. From what you have explained in what you have typed combined with just basic long thought, observation, and 1st hand experience, you are the #1. When you have kids, they will be his #1. I assure you this part of him, is just that, part of him, he can only gain so much from it, it is NOTHING compared to you. Diapers are absolutely no substitute for companionship and basic human touch. You satisfy him. In the future when you're older you guys might need to bring in some spice but right now just having you is more than enough. You really have other things in life to use brain space on instead of thinking about this question which is out of the question. #7. Children. I assure you that this community is one of the most anti-pedo communities you will find out there. This Lifestyle has absolutely nothing to do with kids in any way shape or form. When you two have kids I can guarentee you he will do everything possible to make sure he can just about go to his grave without them being the wiser. I'm going to end it here because I'm tired and bed is calling. I know I have probably forgotten some key issue that you would like input on, just let me know and I will be more than happy to inform you to the best of my knowledge. Happy Trails, DL88

I think you might be confused about the difference between immoral and illegal. There are people that walk around in diapers for a thrill. For the most part they are laughed at and ridiculed, but they aren't arrested unless they break some other law. Examples are in the news every now and then. Diapered perverts that intentionally expose their fetish to children for example. They aren't arrested for wearing diapers or even exposing their diapers. They are arrested because they ask kids to participate. Then there are the people that trick caregivers into changing their diapers, which is fraud - not indecency. Fact is, there have been several local celebrity diaper wearers around the country in the past. They follow the laws, but still walk around with their diapers on full display. Most are actually folk heroes of a sort. Basically, this all boils down to some people have their own morality issues on the subject. But, your morality is not everyone's morality. In my opinion, creating a disturbance because someone has a moral aversion to what you're doing is no disturbance at all.

I do cringe at the sight of a list of 'best beers' populated almost solely by mass-produced swill lagers. I am prepared to guarantee you that there are some local microbreweries over in Kansas that, at the very least, could serve as a jumping off point into broadening your beer-imbibing horizons. Anyway, because three is a good number, here are a few beers that I really enjoy. Brewery Ommegang - Three Philosophers Dark Belgian ale blended with cherry lambic. Rich and malty with a lovely sweetness, it is simply a fantastic and complex beer, and easily one of my favorites. Dogfish Head - 90 Minute IPA I enjoy IPAs in general, and this one may be my favorite among them. The hop bitterness is wonderfully balanced with a toasty character, and the aroma is superb. Unibroue - La Fin Du Monde Fruity and refreshing, it has a high ABV but is nonetheless very crisp and drinkable.

That post sounded a HELL of a lot like WnM. We're going to be slightly hostile to anyone who tells over the top messing stories or has a similar posting style combined with an obsession over messing because of the repercussions of his trolling. A lot of people are still rather irritated by him and his leavings, I for one, remember the day he was banned down to the minute and still get pissed when I encounter one of his posts. Don't exaggerate that way, and we won't react this way. We don't want to hear about your beating it multiple times in a diaper with three separate messes in it, that's fucking disgusting.

No it is in their house. ATI says that church is best done in the home. There is nothing wrong with Quiverfull, any Fundamentalist Movement (ATI, Vision Forum, etc,) or any nonbelievers beliefs. There are many people that would INDEED dub your love for ABDL as crazy! Be careful with that word.

I'm glad that mostly people have been courtious and helpful to you and your questions. This community reflects life it'self in that most people that come in here are nice decent ordinary people, but like everywhere else you occasionally get rude or people with an axe to grind. I'm glad that you think we have helped and almost proud of the honest and mostly helpful answers you got. Best of luck to you and your husband for the future- JBZ.

Babies can run around butt-naked/ diapered but ADULTS CAN'T-- why? That's because it's the LAW... and if you disagree and do it anyway, you'll either have to pay fines or end up in jail. There's no double standard with this... babies are BABIES and adults are ADULTS. Just because an adult wears a diaper, they aren't entitled to a CHILD'S right! "You are OK with women in short skirts and high heels, men in leather, people with funky bright purple hair, etc?" Actually in certain public areas, thats NOT okay. IMO this nation is way too wrapped up in being offended. This offends me, that offends me, I don't want/need to see that. Well, if you don't like it then please turn your head the other way. If you don't like it [Our nation's rules], then you don't have to live here. My fiancee wears kilts to work and out in public regularly (gasp!), and he is even diapered underneath (oh the horror!). Are you going to tell him that he is wrong for doing something that he likes to do? No because he's obeying the law and not openly displaying it. What is the point of life if everything interesting or exciting has to be done behind closed doors for fear of stepping on someone's toes? I feel sorry for you that you feel that way about living because life is a very beautiful thing. There are plenty of interesting & exciting things that we have the privillege and freedom to do. If you have this many qualms about America's ways, there are MANY MANY countries that will put you in jail if you don't dress the way they want-- especially if you're a woman! Judging by your post, it seems that you would have a much harder time in other countries that inflict those laws. >>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>Noted Bias in Your Statements<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<< Sorry, I am pointing this out in an attempt to eliminate some confusion I have with your conflicting statements. You say, "Who is to say whose definition of stupid is right?" and the same goes for who is to say your definition of what's "exciting and interesting" is right... Again, I feel sorry for you and I really hope you can find plenty of exciting and interesting things to do that are legal in this country.

I wouldn't say LuvsGirl is offended, more that she objects to the patent level of stupidity that some people seem to have. The key to this argument, and its come up in many times and many places within the ab/dl and bdsm scene it always seems to come down to this: How overtly sexual is it: One person's titillation, is another person's blase. We each participate to our own level. Each circumstance is unique. As for a good place to humiliate your partner - how about in a private party... friends within the BDSM scene can be oh so helpfull

Clearly, one should be allowed to go out diapered. The only question is if others will see. I tend to think that if they do, it's because you're flashing them. Not really inadvertent as you would want it. Then the question becomes is a 'recreational' diaper flashing nonetheless okay? Well, is it okay to call around asking about diapers without the intention of buying any? The clerk is there to sell diapers, right? Yes, but you're abusing that, I think, just as you are abusing somebody by making sure they see that somebody is diapered, from which it can reasonably be inferred that the diapers are being worn for fun, i.e., a kink. I think it's best kept at home, only because I believe in do unto others, etc., and I don't think you get what you're really after without 'forcing' people to notice.

compromise and compassion go a lot further than threats and anger. It is not easy to explain to someone who doesn't understand, most of us have had these feelings most of our lives, and have tried to "be normal" I think the lies were an attempt to protect you from it. Talk to him, set some basic ground rules with what you are comfortable with maybe even play with it a bit. You will never have the same feelings he does but try to be more accepting and less judgmental. I know you don't really get it but it is a part of him that isn't going to just go away. He can explain his own situation better than any of us can. He is ashamed, you don't want to compound that. Just love him good luck hope everything works out for both of you.

Hi!!! *edit* apparentlty this is a reallllly long post... so yeah........ i am fat. I do not say this in any derogatory manner. I'm fat in size, but not in mind or actions. I am very active, i love walking around town, i take public transportation which entails walking to and from bus stops. I go to the gym 3-5 times a week (depending on weekend schedules). I gave up fast food completely two years ago. I only eat 'junk food' (chips and dip type stuff) once in a while and now instead of bringing the entire bag of chips up to the bedroom i would put a small amount on a plate to bring upstairs. I have a wicked sweet tooth and very much like dessert... so I started buying the one hundred calorie packs, and i really do enjoy them. At any rate... Due to other medical contions which my doctor is in the process of discovering (6 months of blood tests, blood tests, blood tests and giving more urine samples than i can imagine, we have it narrowed down between two conditions and i'm perfoming one of the final tests tomorrow, a 24 hr urine collection sample)..well due to this mystery condition, the 35 lbs i lost in the first 6 months of my new lifestyle chances, has all been gained back and then another 25#!!! but I still go to the gym, and continue my new 'healthy eating' thing... I know I could not have made and stuck to all the choices if i had not made them with another person. My boyfriend and I joined the gym together, and gave up fast food together. since we live together and eat our meals together, and share a vehicle, we are able to motivate each other, and when neither of us wants to go to the gym, one of us has that 'guilty' feeling for not going and we both grudginly end up going, 'for the other person'.... When we joined the gym we got the personal training package and each got personal trainers suited to our unique work out style, but trainers who were trained not only in fitness but nutrition... as we worked out we would talk to them about nutritional choices... these trainers knew that cardio would help you lose weight, but doing some light weight training would help you build some muscle... and muscles burns calories just by existing... i also started going to websites for a variety of recipe ideas so i could still eat the foods i enjoyed, just made with ingredients that were healthier.... There is one website i recently joined aftering seeing a friend from 10 years ago for the first time. she was always a bit bigger, not huge, but overweight, and after her first child who is now three, she got a lot bigger. she was about a size 18. She joined sparkpeople.com and by the time she got pregnant with her second child, just a year ago, she was back down to a size 6. So in two years she went from a size 18 to a size 6, and she had her baby three months ago, and is once again back to her size six. the website is free and mainly is a social networking size to provide support for people wanting to lose weight. It also has access to an activity tracker, and really delicious recipes. Also if you have health insurance, call and see if they cover a nutritionist. I know mine does, and so i had a few sessions with them just to get some ideas for healthier meals, and to really understand what a nutrion label tells you and how to truly compare two brands of food to find the more healthy one... i didn't let fitness and 'dieting' take over my life... more i incorporated fitness into everyday... by making the gym just another part of my routine.. instead of get up, go to work, come home eat, lie in bed, it was get up, go to work, go to the gym, come home shower, eat dinner, then relax... also making a list before grocery shopping and NEVER EVER EVER shopping when hungry.... but i still look at eatin the same way, i enjoy food, the tastes, the smells the textures... and one way to enjoy food, is not by eating more, but by eating slower... taking the time to put my fork down in between each bite means i can enjoy every bite individually. I also started eating smaller meals and having 'snacks'... so i will have something light for breakfast, then at my first break at work will have some grapes or a granola bar etc...etc...etc... also i stopped eating at least two hours before bed.... actually i stopped eating in bed at all! and while i have gained my weight back because of some mysterious medical condition (because i still go to the gym and eat healthy, and my doctor has seen some of my symptoms first hand and knows there is osmething wrong)... I actually ENJOY going to the gym. I enjoy going to parks in the summer and walking the trails, I sleep better, and have had to take less anxiety medication as a result..... I will admit after spending all summer in a friendly 'biggest loser' competition with my co-workers, going to the gym every weekday after work, after spending 8 hours doing greuling pjhysical labor.... I had GAINED 45# in those three months, i was super upset, and for about a month barely went to the gym. What was the point, if i wasn't losing weight what was the point of working out.... but i realized... the point of working out was even if i didn't look it, i WAS healthier.. my lung capacity was higher, my cholesterol was lower, and i still sleep better and take less anxiety medication... so even if the pounds don't drop off, there are so many more benefits to just exercising. *edit* oh yeah its Cushing's Syndrome that my doctor things I have... which is scary cause if it is that, its most likely caused by a tumor on my pituitary gland.... although on the plus side most of the times the tumors are benign.

Hi, Dindiapers. You're sure not alone in wondering what would happen if you got into an accident while diapered. I've thought about that for years. It hasn't happened yet, but the possibility caused me to write a story called "Accidents Happen": http://www.dailydiapers.com/board/index.php?showtopic=25985 If accidents turned out this well, I think I'd drive a lot more carelessly. ;-) -RMS

It's closed minded viewpoints like this that I can't stand. Diapers and intercourse are two totally separate things. Do you go out in a tight top, short skirt, thong or bikini? Do those things make you feel sexy? Do they turn you on? How about high heels or sandals? Some people have a foot fetish, does that mean they should not ever wear shoes in public? Hell, there is a whole national restaurant chain based off of women dressing sexy. Maybe everyone should just wear a burqua instead. Wouldn't want anyone in public being stimulated or exposed to something they might find unattractive. Get over yourself. ABDL is not just a behind closed doors thing.

first and 4 most do what u please to do as long as it is not done in front of children, or in a church or any place like that. the other fact of the matter is it is not illegal in any way shape or form as long as your ass crack, balls, dick, and or pussy is completly covered. that is the bottom line.....like it or not (fact). this does not reflect anything thing bad on us. because most people dont even no that there is a diaper fetish. and what bad attention we do get is because most of us had like little pussys and lets people that know nothing about this bring it out on tv makeing us look bad. it is a fact that when people are not aware of something they are freaked out buy it. heres a point gays,and bi-sexaual people 20 to 25 years ago would stir a pot of shit that would cause all kinds of trouble....now look at it to day perfectly normal. another point...interracial dateing like a white person with a black person can not go 20mins in the usa with out seeing...it try that 40 years ago. and i could keep on going with facts...the people that try to keep us from going public are the ones that make this fetish look bad...and that a fact

I can see it now US health care overhaul heading to supreme court Chaos in the streets of Cairo We are getting word of am impending terrorist threat that could have a major impact on.... This has just been handed to me, a woman in walmart partially exposed her adult diaper. No less than a few people may have seen it. Now keep in mind people this is a product they sell at walmart but she wasn't medically authorized to wear them outside of her own bedroom. When asked for comment, President Obama indicated the AB/DL community may just behind the incident and promised justice will reign not just for the victims in walmart today, but for all Americans. In Flint Michigan, Micheal Moore led a demonstration to get adult diapers pulls from the shelves of walmart. When asked to comment, a spokesman for the AB/DL community stated, on the condition of anonymity "It was a tragedy and we could have stopped it we knew it could happen, but we didn't know when or where." We will have up to the minute information as this story unfolds on our website. Coming up, Amy with weather and Stu with sports

NO! Emphatically, NO! ESPECIALLY if her only thrill is to shock other people. Our community does NOT need this. Great for HER, BAD for others who would simply be offended. I'M an avowed DL and would be offended KNOWING that the exposure wasn't "inadvertant", but intentional. Please, please, please stick to places where it might be accepted, kink clubs, kink gatherings, even porn/kink shops. Otherwise, do this DISCREETLY. And, Wal-Mart already is enough of a zoo without it being a magnet for "flaming" AB or even DL types that simply want to shock other people. The need to go "public" can be strong, and person MIGHT have nothing to lose in doing so. However, the damage it does to our community is almost irreparable. We really DON'T need any more negative press...

As someone who is incontinent and requires to wear diapers on a 24/7 basis,i realy cant compehend how anyone would want to be this way,for it truly is not a fun thing having to change many times a day and when you have to go for any sort of medical everyone sees that you are in a diaper. Not having any sort of control over you your own bladder,and wetting yourself all the time nappy rash haveing to change and the danger of wetting when you are not in a nappy,and your clean one is so close but you just cant control when you will pee is no fun.

I like the story line and the premise, please continue. I look forward to seeing how this develops. ...just my .02 cents

This story looks like its got quite a bit of potential... I hope ya keep it up.... look forward to reading more... Huggies and Luvs BK

I like it! I can't wait to read more

Thank you so much, Jay. I hoped this would find an audience. It's not this forum's typical fare, but I'm glad that it has resonated with at least a few people. I write for a living, but in my free time I get to write things that mean something--to me, anyway. It's wonderful to know that others like it too. Thank you for reading and sharing your thoughts. -RMS

I knew what you meant, DiaperPT, I just thought your phrasing was funny, that's all. And I did take it as a compliment, and it is much appreciated. Stay diapered, my friend. -RMS

Wow, I can think of no higher praise. Thank you, Adot. And funny you should mention pornography, since I wrote an erotic story just yesterday. I'm not sure what the rules are about posting that kind of thing here, but I'll think about posting it soon. -RMS

Well, I do have a problem in that I love my wife with all my heart and soul and she loves me equally, but there are worse problems to have. We have made a peace of sorts with this issue; she simply wants nothing to do with it. It's a side of me I have to hide from my partner in life, and that bothers me. But it really, really beats the alternative. -RMS

I'll assume you mean that my experience mirrors yours, and not that you believe I plagiarized the story. But thank you for the compliment. ;-) -RMS

Thank you both. The story is an expression of my deepest desire to be accepted completely and unconditionally, and I know I'm not alone in that. Thank you for letting me share. -RMS

I read online recently about "Diaper Punishment". I cannot tell if it's all just a role play activity for fetish adults. Or something real that has happened to many of us growing up. Maybe it's both in some ways. I was emotionally abused, I guess. As I've mentioned in other posts, My bed wetting led to many threats to be put into "Pampers" well past my toddler years. As a child in the 70's, part of me wishes my Mom would of just put me in diapers at bed time. Back then, it seemed like "the authorities" let parents do whatever they wanted with their children anyway. I admit, I am a little envious of some kids that got to wear diapers for bed wetting. But I also wonder if it was as traumatic, (more or less) to wear a diaper. I can only say it was traumatic for me to wake up in a wet bed from pee soaked sheets. I guess in a perfect world, no one would wet the bed. Guess I am lucky to have stopped at age 10. Only for parts of me to want to do it again well into my middle age. But since that's impossible, what would of been the best way a parent could of handled this issue. We didn't have Pull-Ups or Good Nites, But I could see how those could be as humiliating as a diaper to some kids. Besides blaming the kid for being too lazy to get up for the toilet in the middle of the night.

According to the United States, one's disturbance is INDEED a public disturbance. That is why we have laws protecting the public from 'Crazy diaper wearers' that look to disturb the public. Bluntly flashing a diaper is a crime, it has been reported many many times and numerous people have been fined for it. Please check your facts and then get back to me if you choose to do so, thanks .

I hate to sound so critical but is it really that much trouble to capitalize the letter 'i' ? I know not all authors on here are experts on grammar and spelling (myself included) but honestly, its not that difficult to capitalize a letter, right?

Who is to say whose definition of stupid is right? I don't particularly care for people who have their noses or tongues pierced, kids who put huge wings and mufflers on their compact cars, or folks that smoke dope with friends after class. They are all stupid decisions that can have varying negative consequences. From missing a job opportunity, to getting harassed by the cops, to going to jail. But I'm not all down on the people that do those things. It is hugely hypocritical to say "This is OK but that isn't." When in reality the people doing those things are all just after attention. Again, just because people disagree with an action does not make it wrong. Those who are so strongly against any public diaper exposure need to open their eyes and take a long look at the world around them. There are millions of people doing controversial things every day. Don't be so quick to judge what is acceptable and what isn't. Fixed, unalterable points of view in an ever shrinking world are one of the reasons human society is in as much trouble as it is.

drew i posted my opinion on my new case because others had some issues with theirs dude. bambino reads this thread and has responded to issues in the past. if there is an irregularity in the product, it belongs here. i don't know about you, but when i'm having an issue with a product i like to know if other people have the same problem. this thread has been invaluable to me and others, due to the quality of the teddies tapes/panel, by reading what you call a bad post, i've saved wasting $80.00 on a case of underperforming diapers. also can't people be excited to get a new case of diapers?

DPF had all their cloth diapers supplied by BabyKins, and their plastic pants were supplied by Gary Manufactring in San Deigo CA. As to the question regarding Tommys age, Tommy is no longer with us from my understanding, Tommy was in his late 70s early 80s when he passed, again this is just what I have been told, and dont know the vadility of the information regarding his exact age or mortality status. and DPF was orginally started in the early 1980s and was orginally a BBS (for those who dont know BBS is a Bulltian Board System of which was dialed directly via a modem then modern age Internet came to be) I tried to buy DPF from Tommy in early 2000 and Mark his partner thought he could strong arm the price of the site, business, and inventory, unfortuniately the price they were demanding for DPF was beyond reason and now we all know where that left DPF, in the history books. A pitty, because another AB was willing to pick up where they left off. BK

So, again. You are OK with women in short skirts and high heels, men in leather, people with funky bright purple hair, etc? How about toddlers running around with no pants on? There is a diaper exposed... and on a child, none the less. It all screams of double standards and hypocrisy. It's all about being noticed, the world gets off on seeing and being seen. As long as it is not violating any laws there is no harm in it. Or would you rather have us all going around dressing as the Amish do? IMO this nation is way too wrapped up in being offended. This offends me, that offends me, I don't want/need to see that. Well, if you don't like it then please turn your head the other way. Who really gives a rats ass if what they say or how they dress drops a few jaws? My fiancee wears kilts to work and out in public regularly (gasp!), and he is even diapered underneath (oh the horror!). Are you going to tell him that he is wrong for doing something that he likes to do? In summary, screw what the conservatives think. If it were up to them we'd all still be dressing and acting as if it were 1909. It is perfectly OK to get out there and turn a few heads, especially while you are young. What is the point of life if everything interesting or exciting has to be done behind closed doors for fear of stepping on someone's toes?

Yes that's right: cops do NOT take sexual 'diaper' displays lightly. Just like someone would get reported for running around on the streets with a thong, someone will be reported for running around on the streets in a diaper. Again, it's a disturbance to the public and is criminal. Selfish? How is a doctrine of live and let live or judge not, for ye also shall be judged selfish? Unfortunately, this motto is still subject to law. I am merely pointing out the facts of life and the way the world works. Life is far too short to go around constantly worrying about whether or not you might be doing something that some stranger doesn't like. No, you're not pointing out the 'facts of life and the way the world works' because you are forgetting that 'the way the world works' is subject to law... not 'anarchist society' of doing whatever one wants to do. Our society does have its morals and norms but how many morals and norms have been challenged, altered or completely abolished over the years? Let's see here, * For many decades it was thought that a woman's place was only in the home. Still hasn't changed-- this depends on where one lives and their culture-- not 100% everyone's beliefs. * There are still people who think that homosexuality is wrong, and that homosexual couples do not deserve the same rights as heterosexual couples. Still hasn't changed. * Many believe that your soul will burn in hell unless you subscribe to their particular religion. Or, worse, that you deserve to die because you believe otherwise. Still hasn't changed. Show people something they might not want to see, tell them something they might not want to hear, and hope that maybe it will shock them out of their little ideal world bubble Not only would that shock people, but it could very well land that person in jail or with some mighty fines to pay. There are tons of differing ideas, standards and ways of looking at things out there. Just because you may not agree with all of them does not make them wrong. Do these 'standards' that you speak of follow the law? In the free world citizens enjoy this little thing called freedom of expression, which means we can dress and act as we please Free world? Do you mean country? If so, then yes, but it must be within the law and at times (like this) 'freedoms of expression' are against law. >>>>>Noted Bias<<<<< I’m glad you finally acknowledge the freedoms that are a privilege to us and are IN this society!