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I went in today having not shaved for 2 weeks. She was surprised at how well I am responding as there was very little hair growing. She spent about 30 min going after the clear/white hairs without numbing cream this time. I refrained from fluids today to see if I could go 30 min without peeing, and barely made it. As soon as she was done and I was up putting the diaper on while she cleaned up. It did hurt quite a bit more today. I have some lidocaine spray I will use next time. She thinks every 2 weeks is a good cadence so we will go for that.

Good professionals are a god send. It can be embarrassing, but most are very professional and treat people with respect for sure.

I got the electrolysis done this week. I was very unsure about it, so I just went with it. When I arrived, she gave me a little cream and said apply it where you want it done. I chuckled a little, thinking, no way this is covering the area. I went to the bathroom, undid my diaper, tried my best to spread it over the area, and finished up. She had me wait 30 minutes before we started. It was supposed to numb the area, but I do not think it really did anything. We entered the treatment room and discussed how the process would work. She was clear that it will take quite a few treatments, and it is not 100% effective in removing all hair. I watched her load a new end on the device that zaps the hair. I told her about my incontinence and that I might leak. She laughed and said she had seen it all, and I was not the first to have an accident, if it happens. She had a pad down for me already. I was a bit shy when she said get naked from the waist down and get on the bed. I took my shorts off and folded them, and placed them on the chair. Undoing my onsie and taking off my plastic pants was a bit awkward as she was watching. I again took the diaper loose, jumped on the bed, and just left the diaper on top of the pile. She jumped right in and wiped the area down. She did a few hairs and some I barely felt, while others really hurt. It was like a hot needle poking me. She made some small talk as she worked on each of the hairs. When we got to about the 15 min mark, and my bladder started to spasm. She felt it and asked me if I was ok. I was trying to do everything I could to clench. A few more minutes, and I felt like I was going to explode, so I told her we needed a break. I jumped up, grabbed my diaper, and tried to put it over myself. Unfortunately, I did not make it in time. There was a small puddle beneath me, while the rest of my void went into the diaper with a hiss from the pressure. She sat there watching this whole thing. I felt humiliated. Once it stopped and I had regained what composure I could muster, she said Are you ready to keep going? I shook my head and got back on the table. We finished out the session without much more discussion. At the end of the 30 min, she said and we are done for the day and started to clean up. She asked if I wanted to try 60 minutes next time. I shook my head, but asked if she was ok with what happened, as we might need to do the same again. She said she did not care and was ok if I was. We will try in a week or so and see, I guess. It was nice that she was understanding, did not laugh at me, and treated it as no big deal. I cleaned up the puddle and got dressed again. She said she would clean it up, but there was no way I was going to let that happen. Overall, a very awkward but interesting interaction. I shaved when I got home, and now, about a week later, there is very little new hair growth. She said if I can avoid shaving until the next session, that will help her see the hairs to get. The next laser treatment is scheduled for later October to remove the dark hairs, for which she wants me to be shaved.

I do the same.

I had a second round today. I have noticed a serious reduction in the amount of hair and speed upon which it returns. There was a strip of hair that obviously got missed on my first appointment, as it came in very heavy, but around it was almost nothing. Now that I am not shaving anymore, I am seeing the white or transparent hairs much more easily now. I spoke to them about how to deal with that and they said electrolysis is best for those, so I will do that Monday morning. That I guess is a weekly thing, vs every 6 weeks like laser. She was very helpful and professional delivering the services. I was a little shocked by how little she cared about the penis flopping around as she lasered away. She just moved it and asked me about my day like it was nothing. Not having to deal with ingrowns or razor burn has been very nice and I am very excited and happy that I made the decision to do this. She said I seem to have a very high pain threshold as most people she works on would have tapped out or complained, so keep that in mind if you decide to try this. I will update after my next round for lighter hairs.

Same here.

Everytime I see BSD, I get PTSD from arguing with Theo. That guy!

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Kicked a 100 into the kitty to help off set.

The guy in the back seems to know where it is

I have been doing some research as I get older. I have always had really horrible migraines, and UIC is often an accompanying issue during one along with throwing up, light and noise sensitivity, and aura. But i I recently ran across some articles about ANS issues and some people have a mix of the two. I have always had issues holding things as well as times I cannot see very well. MS is one thing they think can impact both, but ANS issues can also. My bladder is quite small, uro tests show spasms are bad. They tried to scope me and got about 100cc in before it was highly obvious on the camera the spasms. I am starting to wonder if there is not some link between them now. Had anyone had similar issues? Curious if i am alone with this.

Similar here. The wife is going through her midlife stuff and sex really is not a thing these days. I have been told my my doctor, use it or lose it basically. Like any muscle group, it will tend to shrink with lack of use. Again it helps to not pee out the top of the diaper when I wake up and stretch anymore though. Both because it is smaller and does not really get hard anymore.

I had the appointment yesterday and it went very well. I showed up and filled out the 100 forms, man they have to figure a way to reduce the load of paperwork for offices. We went back to the room, and she discussed what I wanted and my hair/skin type. She explained the machine and how it would feel as she went, like a rubber band snapping on your skin. She let me know it needs to be done every 6 weeks due to hair growth cycles and that given my type, I should see a pretty solid reduction after the 3rd session, but may need more after that. I informed her that I was incontinent and that I had a clamp that I would wear to make sure not to make a mess. She did not even bat an eye and said she places a pad down for clients getting services there as well anyways and she was not worried. She said they had a special seat for treatment of incontinence as well if I wanted to try that. It forces kegals to occur to strengthen the floor. I explained mine came from some incidents over the years in that area and also that I had battled with cancer and as such no longer have testicles or a scrotum. She said, oh yeah that would probably not help much then and that the session would be much easier without the extra parts. Kind of made my laugh at her casualness about it. Then she said I needs to take my pants and underwear off and to get on the table. She went back to the paperwork and I timidly undressed right there with her. I used a velcro diaper so that I could reuse after. I was a bit worried, would I be seen as odd to wear a previously soiled but not at its limit diaper and should use a new one, or should I use a new one and figure out how to dispose of the used in her office. I went for reusable as I had just changed an hour or two before the session at work. I got the clamp on while still diapered, and finished undressing. I got up on the table and told her I would like mid-thigh to belly button to be hair free. She said no problem and we got started. Even though I had shaved, she needed to dry shave the stragglers I missed or could not see. She was very very professional and treated manipulating my penis to get to the hairs like it were anything else. As she went, she discussed more about what to expect and after care. Around the base of the penis was sensitive and in the taint, it definitely got my attention. It was nothing you cannot handle though. She was quite thorough and went up the sides of the base of the penis to get those hairs as well. Once she did everything, she asked me to open my legs more and did the insides of my thighs and the crevasse at the legs. Then she asked me to flip over and she repeated the process of dry shave and laser on my buttocks and around the anus. It was all done in less than 15 min or so. Once done she applied aloe to all of the areas lasered and said we are done. She turned back around to clean up and finish paperwork as I rediapered and put my clothes back on. Overall the process was just like getting a haircut and she made no fuss or anything about the whole session. Super professional, easy to handle, and not nearly as awkward as I had expected. After dressing we discuss that as I am getting older, I now have some very light colored hairs and how those will not be treated well, and asked if I would be interested in electrolysis later for them. I booked a follow up for September. They had a package deal for 6 sessions for $900, quite reasonable for me. This morning it feels like I have razor burn in the area, so I applied some diaper cream after my shower that has aloe in it and that helped a little. I will apply that through out the day as I change as I have a long day ahead and have planned out when/where I can change. I just realized how my energy I put into my thoughts for each day as I prepare in the morning. I have to figure out how long I will be away from home, how many diapers I will need as well as creams/powder and waste bags, locations for changes, timing based on expected liquid intake, and determining if I can void before leaving the house, or will I possibly have a BM later. WOW, I have forgotten what it was like to just get dressed and run! I have accepted the incontinence and when asked, tell people, I do not "suffer from it" but that "I live with it". Sure has been a weird 20 or so years! I hope this helps others and if you have any questions let me know. I will update after Septembers session and I really think I might do electrolysis on the light colored hairs too since there is no real awkwardness now.