joemama

Funny to read this. I had elbow surgery a few weeks ago and the same situation. Before my surgery, I changed into a fresh diaper with the help of the nurse. She assured me it would be best to be fresh and due to location of the work, no one would bother it. When I awoke, I barely remember it but my wife definitely does. I guess I woke and asked the nurse to help ensure I was pointed down, and then flooded my diaper in my sleepy state. When they tried to get me up, the diaper was not tight from the initial application and slid down due to the weight of the 3 hours in surgery and then the flood after. The nurse and my wife redid things as I could not move my arm at all and the other was fairly useless in my stupor. Next time I will take a few fresh ones, but I hope no more surgeries for a bit. Further humbling is during the next few weeks, my wife was required to help change my diapers. We tried standing and laying down. Laying on the bed having your wife diaper you was very embarrassing, so we did most standing up. While she knows I wear and has for over 20 years, it has always been my problem and she has not taken part in it. She does know of my bladder issues and the spasms and regularly places her hand on my stomach to feel it, like I am pregnant! My elbow is working again somewhat, so we are back to my putting my own diapers on. She still sees them and never says anything. Just treats them like underwear.

I wear typically ab diapers because I like to spice my life up a little and they work well. I need them for my issues. I do not partake in infantile behavior so I do not feel AB

I routinely wear a cloth booster inside of my disposable to help with wicking. If I am doing a long flight or day, I will wear solid diaper, cloth booster inside and possibly a disposable booster too. Then over that a cloth diaper or panty and plastic pants to make sure any press outs are not shown.

I have had 4 rounds of Laser, and 5 of Electrolysis now. The laser has been very effective and I can go weeks of not shaving before I really notice any black hairs. The white/blonde hairs are a bit more stubborn. Of the two styles, the electrolysis hurts worse and takes longer for sure. I will have the next round in a few weeks, but overall I am very happy with where this is going and the level of success so far. Well worth it.

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I went in today having not shaved for 2 weeks. She was surprised at how well I am responding as there was very little hair growing. She spent about 30 min going after the clear/white hairs without numbing cream this time. I refrained from fluids today to see if I could go 30 min without peeing, and barely made it. As soon as she was done and I was up putting the diaper on while she cleaned up. It did hurt quite a bit more today. I have some lidocaine spray I will use next time. She thinks every 2 weeks is a good cadence so we will go for that.

Good professionals are a god send. It can be embarrassing, but most are very professional and treat people with respect for sure.

I got the electrolysis done this week. I was very unsure about it, so I just went with it. When I arrived, she gave me a little cream and said apply it where you want it done. I chuckled a little, thinking, no way this is covering the area. I went to the bathroom, undid my diaper, tried my best to spread it over the area, and finished up. She had me wait 30 minutes before we started. It was supposed to numb the area, but I do not think it really did anything. We entered the treatment room and discussed how the process would work. She was clear that it will take quite a few treatments, and it is not 100% effective in removing all hair. I watched her load a new end on the device that zaps the hair. I told her about my incontinence and that I might leak. She laughed and said she had seen it all, and I was not the first to have an accident, if it happens. She had a pad down for me already. I was a bit shy when she said get naked from the waist down and get on the bed. I took my shorts off and folded them, and placed them on the chair. Undoing my onsie and taking off my plastic pants was a bit awkward as she was watching. I again took the diaper loose, jumped on the bed, and just left the diaper on top of the pile. She jumped right in and wiped the area down. She did a few hairs and some I barely felt, while others really hurt. It was like a hot needle poking me. She made some small talk as she worked on each of the hairs. When we got to about the 15 min mark, and my bladder started to spasm. She felt it and asked me if I was ok. I was trying to do everything I could to clench. A few more minutes, and I felt like I was going to explode, so I told her we needed a break. I jumped up, grabbed my diaper, and tried to put it over myself. Unfortunately, I did not make it in time. There was a small puddle beneath me, while the rest of my void went into the diaper with a hiss from the pressure. She sat there watching this whole thing. I felt humiliated. Once it stopped and I had regained what composure I could muster, she said Are you ready to keep going? I shook my head and got back on the table. We finished out the session without much more discussion. At the end of the 30 min, she said and we are done for the day and started to clean up. She asked if I wanted to try 60 minutes next time. I shook my head, but asked if she was ok with what happened, as we might need to do the same again. She said she did not care and was ok if I was. We will try in a week or so and see, I guess. It was nice that she was understanding, did not laugh at me, and treated it as no big deal. I cleaned up the puddle and got dressed again. She said she would clean it up, but there was no way I was going to let that happen. Overall, a very awkward but interesting interaction. I shaved when I got home, and now, about a week later, there is very little new hair growth. She said if I can avoid shaving until the next session, that will help her see the hairs to get. The next laser treatment is scheduled for later October to remove the dark hairs, for which she wants me to be shaved.

I do the same.

I had a second round today. I have noticed a serious reduction in the amount of hair and speed upon which it returns. There was a strip of hair that obviously got missed on my first appointment, as it came in very heavy, but around it was almost nothing. Now that I am not shaving anymore, I am seeing the white or transparent hairs much more easily now. I spoke to them about how to deal with that and they said electrolysis is best for those, so I will do that Monday morning. That I guess is a weekly thing, vs every 6 weeks like laser. She was very helpful and professional delivering the services. I was a little shocked by how little she cared about the penis flopping around as she lasered away. She just moved it and asked me about my day like it was nothing. Not having to deal with ingrowns or razor burn has been very nice and I am very excited and happy that I made the decision to do this. She said I seem to have a very high pain threshold as most people she works on would have tapped out or complained, so keep that in mind if you decide to try this. I will update after my next round for lighter hairs.

Same here.

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