I feel the same way as Oliver. My wife sees me, but no one else really does unless I end up at the doctor's. I use the Tykables subscription, so I get whatever they send. One case was mostly unicorns, and I admit I was timid about being seen by my wife in those. I do order Mega Max and InControl for days when I need more discretion, like at the airport. TSA loves to provide the good old Freedom Grope, almost every time for some reason. I limit who sees, but I do not avoid it at all costs anymore.