Nat

Wasn’t that character mentally disabled? I would hate to think they can’t be in kink communities due to their disability because then wouldn’t that be ableism? My ex treated me this way and to this day I still find it very upsetting. I am adult, I don’t want to be seen as a child. I am an adult with autism with childlike interests and feelings and attitude. See me as an adult, not like a kid because of my interests and how I act at times. I still saw that mentally disabled character as 18, not a child because of their disability.

Imagine if the back cover said he was a pervert or a creep, would it have made the story better? I remember in 50 Shades of Gray, it was about BDSM but it Christian was obviously an abuser and groomed this young woman and manipulated her and he hid behind the kink. Sadly these men do exist in kink communities and young women end up with an older man who uses DDLG for control and don’t respect boundaries or they try and make it sexual. These young women just want a caretaker, not a man to dominate them or make it sexual for them. This book also got lot of criticism.

This is giving me [That site] vibes. Arthur wanted her since she was 3 so he waited till she was 18 to finally have her. Yeah that is creepy. Imagine me deciding to date my old neighbor who is now 32 I first knew when he was one? No way could I see myself doing it.

If you cant tell between a child and an adult playing with plushies, something is wrong. This can also hurt autistic and mentally disabled adults just for existing and they get accused of pretending to be kids by what they have on or what they have in their room. This will also hurt NT adults who like Legos or plushies as well. Oh no, ai might think they're pretending to be kids.

I’ve been wearing thick diapers for a while and the bulk doesn’t bother me. I wear loose clothing or jeans and they hide my diapers very well. I don’t care for a thick butt. No one is paying attention and only ones who may know are the ones who wear a diaper.

Wearing 24/7, of course people have seen them such as security, my children, my inlaws, and one of my previous doctors had seen it while examining me. My parents have seen them too. Trying to hide it 24/7 gets exhausting so I decided screw it, this is part of life. I will wear adult onesies if they’re impossible to hide under my clothes I’m choosing to wear. But only my parents and husband know I enjoy wearing them. My dad had figured out I have bladder issues, i also remembering telling him about it when i was 18 or 19. I am not diabetic not have UTI, I’ve been tested. My mom figured out I “needed them” whatever that means. She still doesn’t understand it but knows this is part of who I am. Most people would still use the toilet despite their bladder issues or deal with the discomfort and drop everything to find a toilet and I say I’m too lazy for all that.

I use it for poop. I get constipated and sitting on it helps it come out. I will also use it for poop for in public and at work and at home, if i have on a dry diaper, i will poop in the toilet unless i have had it on for a while so i will poop in it. It’s already wet and I'm going to need to change it anyway.

All communities are echo chambers. Go on a incontinent forum, it’s frowned upon to accept your diapers and they automatically brand you as a diaper fetishist when you just accept it and move on and not really worry about it if anyone finds out and you don’t try to hide it. Do people hide being diabetic? In ABDL communities, depending on what community you’re in, people there reinforce the idea it’s not a fetish so they justify exposing themselves in public and being openly AB while claiming it’s not a fetish and believe incontinent people would purposely expose their diaper in public. It’s why I am not participating in the community much. I have no interest in it and exposing my diapers and having them on display and being childlike doesn’t make me AB. In some other ABDL communities, this is a pure kink for them so they think anyone who likes cute things or are childlike is an age player and doing a kink and that diapers are pure sexual for all of us. They think wearing 24/7 is pure sexual and that we get gratification out of it. I don’t get off of wearing 24/7 and this is a need for me and I certainly am not wearing in public for a thrill and hoping to get caught. It’s why I left fetlife. I seem to be in between for the community.

No, diapers are just part of who I am. It’s made it easier for me to accept them with my bladder dysfunction and just wear and use them 24/7 than using toilets. It’s turned into a lifestyle for me and they have became my underwear and part of my monthly expenses like with vitamins and having to pay my medicare advantage plan just for the sake of an easier life.

Not really. That’s like asking if someone is AB for liking plushies or kid shows.

Mine. https://www.amazon.com/hz/wishlist/ls/3M5Z4NZ3CBCOX?ref_=wl_share Its mostly diapers.

Meh, plenty of people steal what they need. Poverty is the cause or the higher cost of living. I've heard about parents stealing a few diapers for their kids so hence why you see open packages in stores being sold for discount.

When I wear a diaper, I never worry about leaks or if I'm done emptying and I can relax without worrying about leaking urine in my clothes or if it's vaginal discharge. I can ignore any slight urge to use the restroom and not have any false alarms I had to pee and my bladder won't hurt if I'm holding it. I'm comfortable wearing a diaper and just peeing in it. I woke up this morning feeling I needed to pee and after I got out of bed, I noticed I already peed in my diaper and the urge was gone.

We had lot of hail here yesterday and hard rain.

I can do all that but I don't make that decision, my body does. I've also peed on the plane ride.