lynniehyde

There is a place in Oregon where you can purchace Mary Janes, black patent, at a reasonable cost. They are: www.muffys.com/. I purchased two pair from them two years ago and have yet to put on the second pair. Very durable. A good value. They also sell saddle oxfords and have a wide variety. Cuddles, --heidilynn

When you gotta go, you gotta go. When you go 24/7 and stick to it, it's difficult to rationalize tearing off a perfectly good dry diaper because you have to pee. With cloth diapers, it's a bit easier because you can always re-pin them. But if total incontinence is what your looking for, my advice would be to go in your pants whenever and wherever you feel the urge. Eventually, your bladder and bowel muscles will weaken to the point where you will not be able to trust your body to control them and will be forced to wear diapers 24/7. Unless, you want to make a mess of your trousers, floor or workplace. Cuddles, --heidilynn

When I had a family (son and wife), we kept it hidden and when we (my wife and I) were into it, my son stayed at his grandparents house. This became increasingly difficult as he grew older. My son found out about this during a messy divorce, when his mother brought him to the house and said, "There's your daddy! There's your daddy!" He was 12 yrs. old. I was dressed in a little girl's frock with my diapers and rubber panties poking out underneath the hem of the dress. I don't know if this was "flaunting it", but he has handled it well. He is getting married in a few weeks and plans to visit me in Phoenix on their honeymoon. He assures me his bride to be knows about me and my lifestyle, seen my website and all and has no problem with it. We'll see. I have had relationships with friends who've had children and I've been exposed to them as a big baby girl at parties and so forth. The kids seem to love it. No problemos. I think it all depends on the adults around who can influence the kids positively or negatively. Acceptible? Depends. lol. (So, what's your problem?) Cuddles, --heidilynn

"Never no worry", as one of my taekwondo masters used to tell me. You will find friends, if you're willing to seek them out or let them find you. Lonely can be endured. But, it's not forever. As far as being a "sitting duck"? I doubt that's the case. You seem far too intelligent to let that happen. Trust is important in any relationship. But, don't let that scare you off from exploring. You'll never know what you might find. Cuddles, --heidilynn

It isn't the diapers holding you back. It's your own perception of how others feel about your desires. When you can feel comfortable about letting a select few know about your feelings, it will become easier and more freeing for you to be comfortable in your own skin. Depression is a hard thing to deal with. But if wearing diapers makes you happy, where's the harm? You may find that if you let others know about the way you are, you will build a whole new network of friends, who have no problem with it and even embrace you for being yourself. Been there, done that. Cuddles, --heidilynn

All I know is, I pegged that speedo and still had headroom. Awesome. I now drive a Buick Century. Not quite what I like, but it gets me where I want to go. Preacher's car, I call it. You've had a drive in it. With Tami at the wheel. We'll always have San Diego. Sleep tight. Cuddles, --heidilynn PS: Quaaaaacck!

318. Right you are. Boy, what a burner. All anybody saw from me were the tailights. Cuddles, --heidilynn

Hey Duckie! I know you're an automobile enthusiast. What's your opinion on a '72 Dodge Challenger? I had one once and it was the slickest, fastest car on the road. Stock, not modified. Only a 302 cui. (as I remember), but what a performer. I tore the New Jersey Turnpike up on my visits to Philly and back to NYC when visiting my girlfriend in PA. Cuddles, --heidilynn

Stripes actually, here in Maricopa County AZ. Oh, and pink undies. Cuddles, --heidilynn

I've been taken into custody, wearing only as much as a tee-shirt, pink rubber panties and diapers. Oh, and open toed, white sandals Sometimes, I was taken in wearing a baby doll dress. They could never get me through metal detection at induction however, without removing the pins. (I wear cloth diapers.) Removing the pins would cause my wet panties to sag toward my ankles. They couldn't have that now, could they? Police around here, now know me and are most tolerant and understanding here in Phoenix, AZ. My problem with going to jail was mainly outstanding traffic warrants. They'll getcha everytime. Cuddles, --heidilynn PS: I've never been arrested for showing my diapers in public.

Like you, I too tried to contact DPF when I heard Tommy was in failing health. I got no response from Markie. I would guess that the trouble, time and expense proved too much of a burden and that's the reason for DPFs departure from the scene. Cuddles, --heidilynn

Excellent advice, Beffy. Cuddles, --heidilynn

Ahemm... They smell. You stink . Comes with the territory. Cuddles, --heidilynn

Mmmmmm. Chocochip? Cuddles, --heidilynn

If you're fearful about others reactions to your actions; all I can say is I feel sorry for you. Unless you're commiting some major crime, the wearing of diapers, even in public, is no crime. It's as just as though you're wearing swimming trunks. (At least here in Arizona.) I don't know why there are so many members of this community, who are so vehement in their rejection of their own acceptance. Have fun. Others will too. Cuddles, --heidilynn