justindiapers

Agree! And for everyone's benefit, I'll repeat my post from that thread: If you don't use the Facebook Like button on any external sites, install the Ad Block Plus plugin in Firefox or Chrome and block the connect.facebook.net script. That removes the Like button everywhere except on Facebook itself.

plastic-pants.com will also do custom orders for different leg sizes.

As gah!ghost said, the top sheet is the internal cover. I just bought six bags last week (CVS had a huge discount on them on their website) and they still have a plastic outer cover.

Attends Waistband Briefs are still plastic backed, are extremely crinkly and cheaper than ATNs. They hold less than ATNs though, they're more or less comperable to Depends.

Is that a recent change? I have a pack of mediums from about six months ago and at that point they were still huge, cut more like everyone else's larges. As I'm on the small end of medium, I hope they've gone back to a normal medium size or started selling the smalls again.

If you don't use the Facebook Like button on any external sites, install the Ad Block Plus plugin in Firefox or Chrome and block the connect.facebook.net script. That removes the Like button everywhere except on Facebook itself.

In medium at least, ATN's have yellow stripes alongside the blue writing. Not sure on the other sizes. Note that the seller is in the UK, and I don't think ATN's are sold over there.

I'm of the same opinion - even the current Abenas seem to absorb more, have more durable plastic and are less likely to clump. That said, I do like Molicares and wear them occasionally for varieties sake. Both are good diapers. If you try Dry 24/7, make sure you get a sample pack - the mediums are really more of a large by everyone else's sizing. I would assume then that their large is more of a x-large. Personally, I've found the plastic on them to be too easy to rip, though that may be because I have to put them on very tight to make the "medium" fit me.

I've experimented off and on with age play - by myself and with other people. It usually seems to happen after I read a story or watch a video for the diaper element, and then get turned on by the age play element too. But after playing the scenario once or twice, it ceases to be interesting... and then I might go years before the next time I try anything. The only age play related activities that have stuck with me are breastfeeding, wearing baby print diapers and plastic pants, and sissy play. And for me, sissy play is more crossdressing with diapers than regression.

I haven't bought from fetware in a few years, but I have around a half dozen pants from them that have held up fine. As far as I can tell, they're still a distributor of Gary pants, which are high quality. Like froggy said, check the leg size. If your leg size is way different than your waist size, look at plastic-pants.com - they also sell Gary pants, but they'll do custom orders with larger or smaller leg sizes.

How thick of diapers are you two using? My ex and I never had problems with the untape one side method, but that was almost always with thin diapers (usually a Tranquility ATN). If she's been wearing something like a Dry 24/7, try a (much) thinner diaper and see if it still hurts. We never tried the hole method - I've never liked the mess that diapers make when the plastic rips.

Actually, there are at least three more suppliers - Classy Comfort, Cuddlz, and Buntewindel. As someone who got into all this in the mid-late 90s, count me in with the group that is impressed that we've gained so many more options in such a short period of time.

I agree that a relationship has to exist on more than just diapers. However, I would point out that the appeal behind looking for a partner within the ABDL community is that there's no fear of being rejected due to diapers when you already know the other person likes diapers. For that reason, when I've been single, (like now) I've always kept profiles on places like diaperspace, alt, fetlife, etc just on the odd chance that maybe there's someone who is a good match for me in both the general relationship sense and in the diaper sense. That said, the odds are long, and I've never found another ABDL that I'm compatible with other than diapers. Compounding that are all of the incompatibilities within the ABDL community. ABs, DLs, Sissies, Mommies, Daddies, etc - not all combinations are completely compatible. In my case, I'm a DL, and it seems like most of the female personals are women looking for Daddies, which I'm not. So even if we were otherwise compatible, a DL and a AB baby isn't much more compatible than any other random kink combination. Ultimately, I suspect that most ABDLs will have to do as I have done, and am doing again: look for someone who you know is open-minded and whom you are otherwise compatible with, and then suck it up and admit to them that you love diapers and hope that they're cool with it. And yeah, taking that last step was hard... so now that I'm single again, I'm looking in the ABDL community too in the hope that I won't have to go through that again. Long story short, as rosalie and others have said, diapers are a small part of any relationship. For that matter, they may be just a small part of the sexual part of the relationship. (that's the way it's been for me) This isn't necessarily the best place to look within the ABDL community, there are other better sites. And you'll probably need to look beyond the ABDL community to find someone. Keep looking locally, with a mind towards overall relationship compatibility, and you'll eventually find someone who's also cool with diapers.

To give a few examples: Because it's taboo (like crossdressing, nun/priest sex, etc) Humiliation & Control in BDSM play As a part of long term bondage Medical / Institutional fetish or play Urine / Scat fetish or play Geriatric fetish Handicapped fetish Bedwetting fetish As a part of furry play (or are BabyFurs always considered to be ABs? not sure on the motivation...) Emotional comfort for someone who wore as a teen (as this goes back only to teen years, they wouldn't necessarily connect it to being a baby) There's probably far more, but that's all I can think of now. I've personally heard people name everything on that list except geriatric fetish as their primary motivation for wearing diapers, and I suspect there's someone out there with that one too. People can be, and have been, turned on by anything. The mind is infinitely creative.