jeremy12312

That sad news for my incontinence desire, but good news for my marriage!

From the rules of this forum: - If you don't have the desire to experience incontinence yourself that's fine but do not be critical of those who do in any way. This includes anything advising that there are problems with this that hasn't already been covered.

This thread started with the wording "I’ve spoken to the Surgeon in Mexico and I’m 100% ready..." This isn't a person in the middle of a difficult decision for themself. Either engage with conversation supportively, or keep your mouth shut. This is Incontinent-Desires, not Incontinent-Desires (maybe?). And it certainly isn't Incontinent-Desires (suicide slippery slope logical fallacies).

I live my life by the belief that if someone doesn't ask for advice, don't give it. Saying nothing is always an option, the world doesn't hang on every person's every thought.

Congrats on your decision! Don't let the negative folks who provide their unasked-for opinions get you down.

Has anyone besides @Ineedboth1994 had the consultation about that? I'm still curious to hear more details here, especially regarding possible prolapse, etc. I'm too chicken to do the consult myself, but live vicariously through you brave souls.

The doctor isn't that likely to notice, I've been going to annual physicals for 5 years now diapered, and it's not been seen nor come up in our visit notes. Tuck your waistband in and hike up your pants. If your doctor does notice, it's best not to lie to them so as to not waste their time. You wear diapers for personal and non-medical reasons, since your incontinence isn't caused by any other conditions that they might start trying to diagnose. If you WANT your doctor to find out, examine your motivations and don't be a creep.

Welcome to the modern era. There's more information available at people's fingertips than ever before and almost none of it is rooted in research or truth. So people pick what they want to believe or what reinforces what they already believed, and boom. Their "alternate truths" are just as valid to them as the actual truth.

I just had my first confirmed D) night, ever, last night (there have been some possibles here and there before). Changed right before bed, fell asleep in seconds, didn't wake up once throughout the night, had cold and clammy pants in the morning. Been 24/7 for well over 10 years, but never really on a consistent "untraining" plan until the past year or so. I'm so glad you folks are here because a milestone like this you just want to share and be excited about, but it's not really a thing to chat about at the bar.

You know what's funny, the NY Times just declared the TENA pull-up as the best on the market. They did note that pretty much anything beyond a short release when sneezing meant that diapers were a better choice, though.

German

We have pithy statements, too. Like "Don't shit where you eat."

A very complicated lie that has solutions that your inevitable doctor’s visit has other than wearing diapers 24/7, yet you’ll still want to wear diapers 24/7? If telling a massive lie like this is your preferred solution, your marriage is already broken, you just don’t want the ill-effects. But she’ll put two-and-two together eventually, this isn’t a lie that is easy to keep up. If you tell her the truth, at least there’s a chance she understands. If you lie, you’re just delaying the inevitable.

When I first introduced my diaper-vanilla (we met through a different kink circle) wife, that would have been needed. It's funny how people soften on hard limits after about 20 years.

If the kids are out of the house sometime, I’d test the waters were I in your diapers. Linger in a room she’s not currently in, but will be soon, after doing the deed to leave a scent trail, but deal with the situation before she actually is with you. I also light a candle in the room in this situation with my wife, sort of as an unspoken “there’s a reason this room kind of smells like poop right now” warning. But please don’t send me your hotel or lawyer bill if I’m reading the situation wrong.