Have you been to a diaper lover get together, Party,or support Group?

[Clothdiaperman]

I would like to meet females who are aware of the diaper lever lifestyle. I would like to go to a diaper lover party or support group to meet others the diaper level lifestyle. Are these parties kept quiet? Are there pictures of the parties posted online? Would it be expected that I would come out into a room with other people wearing nothing but my dress shirt or T-shirt, double diaper, and plastic plant pants? Are the people at these parties excepting of newcomers?

[Snugglebear_69]

It really depends on the event. My Daddy and I have been to little events a few times. Munches were street clothes only while private parties at someone's home had more little attire allowed. 

Privacy is typically very important and enforced so pictures often aren't allowed and sharing any or taking any without consent will get someone booted.

I will say, tge vast majority of people are often men and most of the events that we've been to where women are present they typically already have a partner and aren't there looking for someone.

[rusty pins]

I went to a diaper party once.  My DL friend who was a member here for years (he passed away 5 years ago) told me about it as he had gone once before.  There were just 8 or 9 of us sitting in a den in a house next to the garage.  There was food everyone brought, potato salad and stuff like that.  About 3 or 4 of us removed our pants and sat in just shirts and diapers.  It was just talk mostly.  There was a room in the house set aside to go and change diapers if needed with a big trash bag for tossing your wet diapers in.  I didn't get much out of the get together other than the fact it's one place where you can openly wear a diaper in front of others.  Basically, been there, done that, no need to do it again.

Generally there are rules set before such an event, even big events like Cap Com.  People who are invited to any diaper party, munchie or get-together needs to be fully aware before attending.  If the rules are not posted or made clear at your invitation, ask those questions first.  Yes, typically no photos are allowed.  People respect their privacy and don't want photos taken of them sitting around wearing a diaper, or even clothed in a room with others wearing diapers.  Some people being what they are, would most likely take pictures and post them around.  No one wants to take any chances of photos of them in diapers getting around or showing up on the internet or Youtube.  Likewise, wetting your diaper is usually allowed where as pooping your diaper at the gathering may not be.  You also have to be respectful of other party guests by not getting into arguments or political discussions and especially not asking other guests to change your diapers or be your mommy.  Don't be that guy who is a pest to everyone.

Every party I have ever seen posted expresses the rule that you show up fully dressed in normal clothing.  Once inside you can undress to just your diaper or put on your baby outfit, but the same idea is hosts don't want their neighbors to see people showing up at their door wearing just a diaper or outrageous baby clothing.  Be respectful of your hosts.  After all, they are opening up their home as a place where AB's and DL's can relax and be themselves for a few hours.  Don't ruin it by being a jerk!

[Toddler Pampers]

Being seen wearing just a diaper by a bunch of other men is an event I would completely avoid.  Being confined to a playpen set up in the middle of the living room, while my wife is hosting book club, is my ultimate fantasy.  

[Rachael-Little]

17 minutes ago, Toddler Pampers said:

Being seen wearing just a diaper by a bunch of other men is an event I would completely avoid.  Being confined to a playpen set up in the middle of the living room, while my wife is hosting book club, is my ultimate fantasy.  

Oh now isn’t that a thought being in a playpen while the adults are doing adult things , yes please 

[DiaperboyEddie12]

14 hours ago, Clothdiaperman said:

I would like to meet females who are aware of the diaper lever lifestyle. I would like to go to a diaper lover party or support group to meet others the diaper level lifestyle. Are these parties kept quiet? Are there pictures of the parties posted online? Would it be expected that I would come out into a room with other people wearing nothing but my dress shirt or T-shirt, double diaper, and plastic plant pants? Are the people at these parties excepting of newcomers?

I have never been to a AB/DL party or event or munch.  Nor will I ever attend one.

 

i like the people here but I rather keep my diaper stuff to myself.

 

I do wish you well on your journey.

[Snugglebear_69]

10 hours ago, Toddler Pampers said:

Being seen wearing just a diaper by a bunch of other men is an event I would completely avoid.  Being confined to a playpen set up in the middle of the living room, while my wife is hosting book club, is my ultimate fantasy.  

That would be a hard no for me. My Little side is fir me and my Daddy, not random people.

[Dartplayerinwvc]

yup - had my own DL pinball, beer diaper parties in Mesa Az, been to CapCon and swingers dates

[Pelusban]

3 hours ago, Dartplayerinwvc said:

yup - had my own DL pinball, beer diaper parties in Mesa Az, been to CapCon and swingers dates

I know it's not a "DL pinball" but I'd love to see an ABDL themed pinball machine!

[Dartplayerinwvc]

On 8/8/2024 at 11:44 PM, Clothdiaperman said:

I would like to meet females who are aware of the diaper lever lifestyle. I would like to go to a diaper lover party or support group to meet others the diaper level lifestyle. Are these parties kept quiet? Are there pictures of the parties posted online? Would it be expected that I would come out into a room with other people wearing nothing but my dress shirt or T-shirt, double diaper, and plastic plant pants? Are the people at these parties excepting of newcomers?

* Lover not lever