Diapers amd gay bars

[rubbersheetmike]

On 12/14/2023 at 8:01 AM, bluediaperboy said:

Not only have I done it, myself and several friends wore diapers to a bar in Seattle multiple times. It was a gay bar that was fetish friedly and would have pup, ab/dl, and bondage events every month.  

I've been at fetish events at gay bars, mainly for watersports or s&m, and you can usually get away with it then.

[joeyinadiaper]

diaper in gay bar sounds great!

 

[Sunfoxx]

It's something I personally wouldn't try in the gay locations I've been to. In the saunas it wouldn't really be possible anyway and the bars were usually full of gossip and I've seen people getting torn into, usually in their absence, for much, much less than wearing diapers. Now you could be the kind of person that doesn't give a toss about what people say about them behind their back but I have often found that to be easier said than done.

That being said I have worn fetish items to such places before but always in a way that you couldn't tell just by looking. With diapers though I'd be super careful as getting casually groped is something that can happen and if I was wearing then it'd be obvious by that point.

While that is only my opinion I think a very personal kink like this shouldn't be casually shared with just anyone as not everyone is going to be understanding or even tolerant of everything, gay or not.

[carsfan]

We have a monthly meet up at the gay bar in Vancouver. You come in street clothes as per the rules but once at the bar  you are free to wear just your diaper. The event itself takes place in a backroom but people  order drinks from the bar (located in the regular club area) and wear jus their diapers or whatever baby gear they like. The club is aware of our event. I don't think everyone should show up at their local gay bar for the first time sporting only a big puffy diaper but in this case its been discussed a head of time and oked by the venue.        

[OddlyEnough]

Rock Bar in NYC has both a Diaper Happy Hour (first Tuesday of every month) and “Time Out,” which is a bit sexier. They’re having one of those on the 12th of April at 10PM. 

[Sunfoxx]

Reading that there are gay bars who actually host events like that is making me a little jealous honestly but on the other hand it's good to hear that there are hosts who are open-minded enough to do this. It'd take a lot of courage but I'd definitely give it a try if I ever hear about an opportunity anywhere nearby.

[dl2024]

I was at a gay bar during pride a couple of years ago and my one friend was with me and dared me to put on an adult diaper while I was there.  It was possibly a little visible while I was there because I had on short shorts, a crop top and a mesh body suit lol

[tommyneedsdiapers90]

i have but to be fair it was an ABDL night. they even had animal crackers in bowls at the bar! so cute and thoughtful!

[EDDYNG]

Great, it’s a pity there are no such bars in Asia

[Kurrthemuttboy]

I always wear a diaper when I go out drinking,it just makes sense.

[Young1]

I always wear as well, just not openly in a gay bar/club...... 

[rubbersheetmike]

On 5/25/2023 at 6:33 PM, Alyeskabird said:

I tend to get depressed and such when I hit a gay bar. Trying to make connections and having everyone tell me that they don't do anything with straight guys. It gets kinda agrivating and old really flocking fast.

You dont have to tell them your straight. You can say your curious. When I went to gay bars when I was younger I classified myself mainly as bi although over the years I mainly focused on hooking up with guys. And I met a lot of married guys over the years who were quite curious about gay sex and particularly watersports which was my major interest. If your open to new experiences and flexible about your interests you can meet a lots of guys in gay bars who are likely more like you than you might think. Of course gay bars are disappearing because of the internet and the dating apps where in both cases you can pretty much find people who like what you like and want what you want.

[Kurrthemuttboy]

I'm asexual so it doesn't matter what type of bar I'm in I still won't fit in 

 

[rubbersheetmike]

1 hour ago, Kurrthemuttboy said:

I'm asexual so it doesn't matter what type of bar I'm in I still won't fit in 

 

I think that after a certain age a lot of us become asexual. I havent had actual sex for well over a decade. Do I miss it? Not really. I find ways to satisfy my needs.

[Alyeskabird]

See, that is the problem. I never said I was straight. I am not straight, and I have no idea how people see me as such. Heck I was at the bar as I was wanting to find a nice stud.

[ValentinesStuff]

15 hours ago, Alyeskabird said:

See, that is the problem. I never said I was straight. I am not straight, and I have no idea how people see me as such. Heck I was at the bar as I was wanting to find a nice stud.

I usually go to a lumber store when I need a nice stud.

[arklilknfordaddy]

i have i do evey friday and sat when i go to the bar and i let it show a lil and rhhey are accepting of it