Am i BI-curious, gay or straight?

[GannerStorm14]

Hi so im wondering what am i... on the spectrum.
Ive generally only always crushed on girls...

however my brain is pretty wired with diapers and the fetish so that tends to elevate it.
Now when i look at people in diapers, it doesnt bother me looking at young guys or females in diapers, they both turn me on.... but also in terms of diaper sex, the thought with having a guy do it with me turns me on more than a girl....

but ive never crushed on guys, only girls

[Elfy]

Honestly, you sound bi-curious.

If a guy turns you on no matter the circumstances then there is clearly some sort of interest there unless it is just you picturing yourself as the guy.

That's OK though, it doesn't mean you have to do anything with a guy if you don't want to. That would be entirely up to you and how strong your attractions and inclinations are.

[ABAlex]

To be honest I think the only way to know for sure is to try both. If you say you normally only crushed on girls until diapers were a factor,  then you probably aren't completely gay. Perhaps see if you like guys without them as well. Another thing to consider if you started only liking the one is if you are only picturing very female looking guys when you think of it.

Eitherway, there is nothing wrong. Being bi, gay, bi curious is all fine, and you don't really need to worry about labels. If you like something, you like it

[LittleAmytheil]

I get this feeling you might be pushing too hard to fit yourself into a perfect little labeled box.    It sounds like the attraction has more to do with the diapers than the person that's wearing them, or perhaps it enhances your perception of that person because they're wearing diapers.  I'd compare it to people who have a fetish for certain kinds of shoes, and still find them extremely attractive regardless of whose wearing them.

If you feel the need to define yourself there's no shame in continuing to research.  If you're happy with exactly who you are, then you're good as well.

[Jam]

As others have said, it just depends on whether you see yourself in the men in diapers or whether the idea of them in diapers is the appealing thing. 

[GannerStorm14]

Well im not 100%...like i was watching gay diaper porn and usually it takes ages without wearing a diaper to cum cos my body is so used to it, but i was just turned on so much that it exploded, given i was watching other stuff too....

[Dubious]

Nude girls and stories about girls does almost nothing for me
But nude guys and stories about guys turns me on, but I'm not gay, I'm open minded and bi 
When reading stories and imagining, I like to be the bottom and then sissy stories is the middle ground (Mostly girls with penises) 

I wouldn't mind having a secret boy lover, but I'm looking for a girlfriend 
Girls can do the same stuff that boys can

[nenog613]

i'm in a similar boat as you, and i always just say i'm bi, but i don't think its accurate. i get really turned on by the idea of having sex with guys (and mtf transgender, and think about it probably a more than i think about sex with girls), but i'm not sexually attracted to guys. like at all. even if objectively i think a guy is handsome or good looking, i have absolutely no interest in them sexually (which has made actually following through on these fantasies largely a series of repeated failures). it finally dawned on me the reason i get turned on by the idea of sex with guys is basically the same reason i get turned on by wearing diapers. the excitement of diapers is the thought of being humiliated, which puts me in a submissive role, and when i fantasize about sex with other guys its always with me in the submissive role. so for me, wanting to have sex with other guys is more of a fetish than an orientation 

[Dubious]

I'm not sexually attracted to guys either, but I do wanna try oral and anal at some point, so maybe its a fetish thing for me too..

[GannerStorm14]

20 hours ago, nenog613 said:

i'm in a similar boat as you, and i always just say i'm bi, but i don't think its accurate. i get really turned on by the idea of having sex with guys (and mtf transgender, and think about it probably a more than i think about sex with girls), but i'm not sexually attracted to guys. like at all. even if objectively i think a guy is handsome or good looking, i have absolutely no interest in them sexually (which has made actually following through on these fantasies largely a series of repeated failures). it finally dawned on me the reason i get turned on by the idea of sex with guys is basically the same reason i get turned on by wearing diapers. the excitement of diapers is the thought of being humiliated, which puts me in a submissive role, and when i fantasize about sex with other guys its always with me in the submissive role. so for me, wanting to have sex with other guys is more of a fetish than an orientation 

thats exactly me, oh wow. Because I always see myself in the tie up, submissive role..with diapers. hmm

[Wetonme21]

On 11/5/2019 at 7:33 PM, GannerStorm14 said:

Hi so im wondering what am i... on the spectrum.
Ive generally only always crushed on girls...

however my brain is pretty wired with diapers and the fetish so that tends to elevate it.
Now when i look at people in diapers, it doesnt bother me looking at young guys or females in diapers, they both turn me on.... but also in terms of diaper sex, the thought with having a guy do it with me turns me on more than a girl....

but ive never crushed on guys, only girls

Bi curious is my take from it.