Are They Real?

[D_danny777]

I want to first off say that im just looking for a girl with ab/dl interests that would like to chat, so maby we could get to know each other a little bit and see if theres any chemistry. Im not some creeper desperate to find a mommy to full fill some wild fantasy. Diapermates is kinda sucking tho because I am just so sick of chatting with cam girls online. Getting there info and going the whole 9 yards just to find out that they're only trying to get me to sighn up for a porn sight. Its annoying to think "oh hey im realy starting to like/get along with this person and than bam F'ed in the A. its just not right to mislead someone like that,but ya im done venting and giving a heads up to all the peeps on diaper mates. I vote these people to be as evial as someone who kicks puppies for fun like the legion of doom or sumtin.

[BabyChris121675]

I know all about them. Had one contact me recently and she wanted me to verify my age with my credit card and I told her NO, I am tired of them too. Don't they realize not all people are complete dunces when it comes to the internet? I have had my battles with them and I just delete them from my messenger list and ban them. I hate lying con-artists. Two contacted me on DiaperSpace, and I talked to them, and then when they started the CC thing, asking me to register on a site that was 'free' and that my credit card was for verification purposes, I saw through the scam. I am not a dunce.

Plus, they are ALWAYS eager to please you as soon as they contact you and then when they are ready, BAM! They ask you to click on the verification website. That's when I say good bye, and have a nice life, toots.

BabyChris121675

JUST ONCE, I would like nothing more than to meet a real girl that is honest with me and not playing some damn mind games like that.

[patrick]

may i point out that this isnt really as far from the truth than you may think.

just instead of porn its shoes

[Guest NaughtyAshes]

...Im not some creeper desperate to find a mommy to full fill some wild fantasy.

And every creeper that bombards me on diaperspace uses that exact same line unfortunately.

[night0wl]

And every creeper that bombards me on diaperspace uses that exact same line unfortunately.

*sigh* I hardly ever message girls online because of that. It's a simple rule of the internet. If someone is female, they will be bombarded by every desperate bloke out there. Makes me feel like a creeper just for being male and sending a message to a female

Anyway, back on topic: Does anyone think that these cam girls could just be bots? Natural language techniques are getting quite sophisticated these days, so it can be done.

[diamondback6881]

*sigh* I hardly ever message girls online because of that. It's a simple rule of the internet. If someone is female, they will be bombarded by every desperate bloke out there. Makes me feel like a creeper just for being male and sending a message to a female

I remember when my fiance set up a profile on an ABDL site(don't remember which one, its been awhile). She set it up and by the next morning had something like fifty messages and 25 or 30 friend requests. Needless to say, the profile didn't last too long.

[D_danny777]

kk im gona edit this a lil bit. peeps are voting this down probly due to the retardedness of the second paragraph. still the point remains that cc girls on dateing sites are evil puppy punters!

[senri]

i am a creeper. heck what isnt creepy about a 19 year old wolf fanatic that wears diapers and resses like a baby for fun? i'm just too lazy to be a pervert, at least o those who don't want to deal with it.

i havent had much experience with the whole credit card thing. hard to verify age with it if you don't have one.

anywho just my 2 cents

[d_drew12]

To bad there's not a card number or something you could give them with no financial ties, no money, just an age verifier. Pay, say $20 for a card with a number and use it for life. Okay, all my details aren't worked out as to how it'd work but something a company wanting to verify age couldn't get anything but 18+ on you period.

[tris]

Prepaid Visa and MC, people. Can be found at Walmart, or just about any -mart, for that matter. If you wanna just spoof, remember this one simple rule: Visas begin with a 40-49 number. (ex: 4242) MCs typically start with a 54, (ex: 5489), but can be anything that starts with a 5. Throw in 16 digits total an exp date, and a random 3 digits. Your chances of correctly nailing a real number with correct check digits, exp date and 3 digit verification code are nearly one in a billion. Good luck!

[TBlazer]

Ugh I hear ya man. I recently tried to talk to a handful of "local" girls on craigslist and man what a disaster. Two didn't respond (maybe I was creepy? lol) and the other three tried to get me to sign up for a sight. I forget exactly what the line was, but something like "you seem like a really nice guy, so much different then the other creeps out there." All because I told you my name and what I do? Jeezum.

The internet is swarming with REALLY horny guys (isnt porno still the number one search item?) and for the few girls that venture online it must be like jumping into a shark tank. Given that any stranger could be a rapist in todays world, it makes sense that only a few words could scare a girl off.

I say leave the internet for anonymous friendships, and keep real life for the personal ones. After my craigslist fiasco I decided to go back to the tried and true way: introducing myself to girls and talking to them. Its a lot less creepy, and frankly, most AB girls I read about online say they were turned onto it by their boyfriends, meaning ITS UP TO YOU.

Good luck my friend.

[heartwood]

My strategy is to date outside my circle of friends, tell em in the first month, if they stay, they stay if they dont... so what, there loss. I know this post is about bots and all the havoc they cause. Why do you let em? DELETE the messages that are, "too good to be true" and GET ON WITH LIFE! I like the twist this post is taking, Right on TBLAZER, "ITS UP TO YOU".

[night0wl]

She set it up and by the next morning had something like fifty messages and 25 or 30 friend requests.

Buckets of FAIL

[curiositykilledthecat]

And every creeper that bombards me on diaperspace uses that exact same line unfortunately.

ROFL, win!!!!

I had the worlds worst social engineer trying to contact me from an ad I posted on Craigslist. By the time I was fed up talking to her I called her a failure and told her to f-off.

[JeiSiN]

Such a sigh.

I'm back from Asia, was gone for a month. Listen to me people: Give up with the internet looking. Guys are fucking perverts and the girls are stuck up bitches. The ugly girls think they are all that because they have desperate guys constantly messaging them; kinda like the gross skinny chick in a sweaty bar with a bunch of fat greaseballs asking her to dance. Well, k, that's a bit much. Damn jetlag.

Go get a real girlfriend in real life, have a real relationship, and learn to love each others' sexual desires and cater to them. Explain your desires in the right way and you'll get what you want.

And sorry Mr. 420 "I'm not desperate I swear!!", as a [former] stoner myself, [though I won't be smoking everyday anymore because it sucks], chances of finding an attractive ABDL girl who lives near you that will even consider messaging you back are so fucking slim... let alone an actual relationship! Firstly, most people can't see that a marijuana escape is similar to the escape we get from diapers and being a baby, and don't 'waste their time'. I don't tell people to stop believing in fairytales and throw their bibles away, but people are very critical about what people choose to do for happiness through bias. Find an open minded girl in real life, wait a few months and explain your fetish from a psychological perspective, and start slow. Chances are she'll have some weird 'undisclosed desires' that you'll be able to unlock too through the openness of sexual freedom. You have a MUCH better chance. Trust me. This goes out to everyone. Because I was once just like you.

Hell, you'll have more fun dating and rocking normal sex with a girl for a few months, telling her about the fetish, her maybe trying it but not liking it, and her dumping you for it, being a sad sack of shit, then finding a new girl and repeating the process than you will desperately searching online for years and years wasting your life feeling bad about yourself. Maybe you'll talk to a pretty attractive girl and rock a meeting and have a good time. Chances are other than the diapers, the compatibility will struggle. Fuck that shit. Get a real woman. [Also, the people who are 'content not having someone else', well, no you aren't. That's because you've never experienced the human's capabilities through connection with another. Stop making excuses and stop being afraid of reality. Wouldn't it suck to die and say that you never really tried? Some people think they have tried. Yeah, okay there chum.]

Don't really expect not to get backlash, but more people who read what I'm saying and not respond, and they'll agree with it than the people who bitch and complain. [at least agree with one or two things and get what you want damn it!]

Did you miss me?

-JeiSiN

Maybe I'll retract this when the jetlag wears off... wait, no. Find the meaning through it yourself damn it. BE HAPPY!

[D_danny777]

Yup going out and doing what you said is what a lot of people should do to find a relationship. also i totaly understood my chances of finding a chick nerby is realy slim wich is exactly y it sucked ass when i chatted with someone and it turned out to be a sales person. oh well, learning experience. however still gona cruze around the site from time to time to chat. not to hook up cuz thats being unrealistic, but who knows what can happen?

c'mon dude just like me? doubt it cuz im da shit. lol na im just jk im not like some jersy shore Dbag.anyway ill give mad props for the reply.

[diamondback6881]

Such a sigh.

I'm back from Asia, was gone for a month. Listen to me people: Give up with the internet looking. Guys are fucking perverts and the girls are stuck up bitches. The ugly girls think they are all that because they have desperate guys constantly messaging them; kinda like the gross skinny chick in a sweaty bar with a bunch of fat greaseballs asking her to dance. Well, k, that's a bit much. Damn jetlag.

Go get a real girlfriend in real life, have a real relationship, and learn to love each others' sexual desires and cater to them. Explain your desires in the right way and you'll get what you want.

And sorry Mr. 420 "I'm not desperate I swear!!", as a [former] stoner myself, [though I won't be smoking everyday anymore because it sucks], chances of finding an attractive ABDL girl who lives near you that will even consider messaging you back are so fucking slim... let alone an actual relationship! Firstly, most people can't see that a marijuana escape is similar to the escape we get from diapers and being a baby, and don't 'waste their time'. I don't tell people to stop believing in fairytales and throw their bibles away, but people are very critical about what people choose to do for happiness through bias. Find an open minded girl in real life, wait a few months and explain your fetish from a psychological perspective, and start slow. Chances are she'll have some weird 'undisclosed desires' that you'll be able to unlock too through the openness of sexual freedom. You have a MUCH better chance. Trust me. This goes out to everyone. Because I was once just like you.

Hell, you'll have more fun dating and rocking normal sex with a girl for a few months, telling her about the fetish, her maybe trying it but not liking it, and her dumping you for it, being a sad sack of shit, then finding a new girl and repeating the process than you will desperately searching online for years and years wasting your life feeling bad about yourself. Maybe you'll talk to a pretty attractive girl and rock a meeting and have a good time. Chances are other than the diapers, the compatibility will struggle. Fuck that shit. Get a real woman. [Also, the people who are 'content not having someone else', well, no you aren't. That's because you've never experienced the human's capabilities through connection with another. Stop making excuses and stop being afraid of reality. Wouldn't it suck to die and say that you never really tried? Some people think they have tried. Yeah, okay there chum.]

Don't really expect not to get backlash, but more people who read what I'm saying and not respond, and they'll agree with it than the people who bitch and complain. [at least agree with one or two things and get what you want damn it!]

Did you miss me?

-JeiSiN

Maybe I'll retract this when the jetlag wears off... wait, no. Find the meaning through it yourself damn it. BE HAPPY!

Well said! A huge +1.

Never seen you around the forums, but welcome back.

[loopy]

Well said! A huge +1.

Never seen you around the forums, but welcome back.

You've never seen JeiSiN before? :S Hes been around giving the same sort of advice for ages . And even if its the same kind of advice each time, well it just bears repeating more and more .

Simple fact is, you shouldn't be looking for a girl into the same narrow fetish as you, you should be looking for a girl who makes you happy in many different ways, then try to introduce her to this weirdness .