gbw_dl Posted December 9, 2009 Share Posted December 9, 2009 it finally happened! My friend moved out, and i told him that i have some "personal" stuff that i want to order but i dont want my parents to know about. (i still live with my parents, its free and im going to college and cant afford my own place) i didnt go into explicit detail about what i was ordering, i will leave that to him to let his mind wonder. my friend is very trust worthy and respects my personal life and my boundries. and i asked if it was ok if i ordered some "personal" stuff sent to his appartment. he siad, "should i ask?" and i told him "that i am into some pretty different stuff, lets just leave it at that." and he said, "Sure man, you can send it here". he even said that he wouldnt open it cause he respects my privacy. i really trust him that he wont open my stuff, he has never done anything to betray our friendship. this is the kind of guy that is so cool about things, if he did happen to open my box(which i no he wouldnt) he would be shocked, but after some explanation he would be alright with it. if i ever do come out to any1 he will be the one i come out to. OK!!!! all that said, i am going to order some abenas from xp medical and now i have to decide whether i want a sample pack to save a little money or just order the $20 package of 12 they have. What do you guys think, any advice? Link to comment
turtlepins Posted December 9, 2009 Share Posted December 9, 2009 Go for the $20 pack. You'll wish you had once you're finished with the sample pack. Just out of curiosity, what do you think your parents would say if you told them you were into diapers? Link to comment
curiositykilledthecat Posted December 9, 2009 Share Posted December 9, 2009 just get the 12 Link to comment
diapermanftw Posted December 9, 2009 Share Posted December 9, 2009 Expect your package to be scrutinized, although not opened. This friend WILL know and MAY say something. Be prepared at least for that. Link to comment
Newroad Posted December 9, 2009 Share Posted December 9, 2009 Of course if its a true friend they won't care beyond asking a few questions Link to comment
Bettypooh Posted December 9, 2009 Share Posted December 9, 2009 Of course if its a true friend they won't care beyond asking a few questions Unless you've tried them already get the sample pack From the posts here you'll find that some of the best just don't work for some of the people and you can always order more if you like them As to your friend, yes it is possible for someone to have that much respect for you- that's how I am- but when you think of the size of the package and the lack of weight there's not too many things other than diapers which something like them could be And then there's non-boxed packaging which some sellers use- you can't resist squeezing them and you know what they are after that Plus some diapers have than nice 'diaper smell' which could give the game away too But if your friend is a real friend they will keep their commitment and say nothing so by ordering you not only get diapers, you discover the level of trust with your friend as well I don't advocate "testing" friendships for trust but sometimes it happens and the results are telling. To be on my "real friend" list there has to be that level of trust between us whether openly or in silence. Until something happens to indicate such a level we can be friends- just not best friends- and there is a difference Bettypooh Link to comment
Guitarzan Posted December 9, 2009 Share Posted December 9, 2009 Get the smaller pack and try them out. I'm not totally knocked out by them really. They're really absorbent, but the fit doesn't work well for me. Link to comment
Loveable_guy Posted December 10, 2009 Share Posted December 10, 2009 You could always ship to your home using your friends name. Your parents will not open something not address to you or them and you can just say you will re-deliver to your friends new location. This way there is little concern of anyone other than you opening the package. Link to comment
diaperboyMKE Posted December 10, 2009 Share Posted December 10, 2009 A quick google search of the return address will make the package contents blatantly obvious. Keep that in mind. Link to comment
boy ricky Posted December 10, 2009 Share Posted December 10, 2009 it finally happened! My friend moved out, and i told him that i have some "personal" stuff that i want to order but i dont want my parents to know about. (i still live with my parents, its free and im going to college and cant afford my own place) i didnt go into explicit detail about what i was ordering, i will leave that to him to let his mind wonder. my friend is very trust worthy and respects my personal life and my boundries. and i asked if it was ok if i ordered some "personal" stuff sent to his appartment. he siad, "should i ask?" and i told him "that i am into some pretty different stuff, lets just leave it at that." and he said, "Sure man, you can send it here". he even said that he wouldnt open it cause he respects my privacy. i really trust him that he wont open my stuff, he has never done anything to betray our friendship. this is the kind of guy that is so cool about things, if he did happen to open my box(which i no he wouldnt) he would be shocked, but after some explanation he would be alright with it. if i ever do come out to any1 he will be the one i come out to. OK!!!! all that said, i am going to order some abenas from xp medical and now i have to decide whether i want a sample pack to save a little money or just order the $20 package of 12 they have. What do you guys think, any advice? I would get the 12pk. That way you will have some more if you really really get into it! Also expect your friend will ask more questions. Link to comment
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