SrDiapCaged

With the exception of my morning pee, I will enjoy a drink or two during the day. There are times I will mix it with my coffee, and have even added some to my cereal bowl. I absolutely love to press my soaked soggy diaper against my face to inhale the lovely scent of my pee, lick and suck at the same time. And with the right boi play date, I am more than willing to be a pee toilet for him

I very much enjoy wearing stockings/pantyhose/tights under my regular and boring boy clothes. And such a wonderful feeling to wet myself while wearing them as well

Which is exactly what I am attempting to do..........at the sign of even the faintest hint that there is an urge coming on, then I go into relax mode and let it happen without any pushing, only flexing tummy muscles against the bladder area.

I take it that you have had no issues with poopies while caged, with the exception of a much longer clean up time. Which I find encouraging as I really should seriously use my diapers/pullups fully as they are intended to be used. And I do know that it would greatly assist and speed up my goal of becoming diaper dependent. I guess I just have to get over the "clean up mentality issue" I seem to have?As for my collection of cages, I find that wearing one is rather stimulating in a teasing way, and I do love how I am denied any form of an actual erection other than a nice titillating sensation of swelling within a trapped cage. This adds a deepening sense of embarrassment and shame over the somewhat ED issue that I have. And I must admit that I quite enjoy how masturbating while caged can lead to a ruined orgasm due to total failure and or just simply lots of dribbling semen. I only wear stubby cages as I find it an immense turn on to see my penis looking small and trapped. I still have yet to receive my one cage that is no more than a 1 inch penis bump which would really trap me. Hopefully all that made sense....lol lol

Very good point actually, as it does make sense that becoming diaper dependent would be easier if a person became dual dependent. For me, the clean up is an issue as it really is not pleasant at the best of times, and also, I happen to wear a chastity cage as part of my diaper pleasure. But, I am still thinking about the poopie end of matters.....lol lol

I found some lovely pantie tummy shapers and the like on Amazon. Lots of nice styles and looks, and I have a small assortment arriving tomorrow (31st). Quite looking forward to trying them out as they will blend in with my diapers sissy lifestyle.

To help myself attain diaper pee dependency I know only wear pullups or diapers to help my mind set. At the very very sign of a "pee alert" I immediately go into relaxed mode to assist the escape of nice warm pee into my diaper/pullup. I have found that to assist that pee escape is that I will sit on the potty but with diaper/pullup on as it tends to help mentally to wet easier. However, once things become more relaxed and I can freely wet while at my computer, then I will stop sitting on the potty as an aid to get the flow going (well, except for pee play time). Because I seem to have developed bowel issues which has caused very very loose poopies, I have had a number of escapes as I work on training my pee sphincter to be relaxed at all times. Which has caused me to wonder if I desire to be diaper dependent for both escapes.

As stated earlier, losing control on wetting does tend to weaken control on poopies to some degree. But it is also true that if you work to maintain poopie control, it does slow down the process of losing wetting control. As I train myself to keep my wetting sphincter as relaxed as possible at all times, I have at times noticed the pending escape in the poopie department. And I am still uncertain if I want to have both forms of diaper dependency. It is a dilemma for certain

Delighted to hear that you are recently waking up wet more frequently. And yes, drinking enough water before bed time certainly helps you to wet more often during the night.

It truly is such a wonderful feeling as that soaking wet bulge grows bigger and bigger............so very difficult not to touch and play....giggles

Such a thrilling moment that must be for you. Eventually I will get there myself but right now I am totally pleased when I wake up in the morning and find that I had wetted in my diaper, and leaked, without having woken up.

The way I look at it is, the "12 Month Process" is to be looked upon as the solid base for becoming diaper dependent. But like all processes, there are always lots of tweaking and adjusting to suit everyone's needs. Hence the reason why everyone here has their own take on how to handle their own personal version of becoming diaper dependent. In my case because I have wasted so much time in the past few years doing the binge on/off diaper thing, I finally realized how stupid I was and in the past few months have concentrated in my goal of becoming diaper dependent (definitely pee, but still very uncertain about poopies). With that in mind and with some reasonable gains I have decided to seize upon an idea that was already mentioned here and started letting myself wet immediate (or close to it) the moment I feel that first pee notice. And while I totally wish to avoid the potty for any pee activity (except playtime) I have taken to sitting on the potty with my pullup on, totally relaxing myself and as soon as I feel the flow begin I mentally tell myself that this is what I want, this is my goal, I want to be diaper dependent at all times (poopies still in question). In this way, I feel that in a short period of time that I will be able to wet the moment I feel that first pee notice no matter where I am and what I am doing because I think that my bladder will have shrunken decently with more shrinkage on the way. As they say, different strokes for different folks, so long as we reach the goal of our desire.

Thank you very much for the suggestion!

It can be difficult to break the "impatient" mode because I can still get that way during my non-pee-potty training. There are still many times that I have to give myself that all important "mental slap" to the head to remind me??

If I had of been consistent right from the beginning a couple of years ago, I probably would be at the stage of frequent wettings in small amounts without fear of flooding my diaper out in public. However, like a lot of us, there was the on/off binging which naturally throws off your diaper dependency training. I finally gave myself a stern lecture early spring this year and I am happy with the slowly emerging results of more wetting in slightly lesser amounts and have even managed a number of totally relaxed wettings while out at a food court. I am hoping for more improvement in the frequency of wettings of lesser amounts and my goal by summer of next year is constant dribbling or dripping with no more fear of flooding my diaper/pullup

As they say, patience is a virtue.........and the wait is worth it

As someone who is very fond of wearing feminine underthings which totally enhances my diaper & wetting passions, I have always had some sort of attraction towards girdles, but have never done anything about it. After reading the previous posts, maybe I had better do something about as it seems I am missing out on some nice girdle/diaper happiness

I wear one everyday, even under my shirt when out and about taking care of errands. I found a place called HommeMystere that handles lingerie designed for the male body in every aspect. I love their items, and plan on ordering more.

While it does not happen anywhere near as much as I would like, I very much enjoy the intimate pleasure of being told to hold open either the front or back of my diaper/pullup and let a "boi play date" aim his lovely penis and bathe me with his hot pee. I find it so very stimulating to feel the flow of his hot pee rushing down the valley of my bottom before bathing my secret place or feeling hit running all over my caged clitty penis. Quite frequently it makes me pee as well which is why I enjoying keeping my bladder full as many times as possible for each wetting.

I wear Tena Ultimate max absorbent pullups each night. These are not only very comfortable, but they do hold 2 good size wettings during the night. And with a diaper pantie cover over them, leakage is very minor.

I quite agree with trying to stay relaxed at all times when it comes to your bladder/bowels. The very first moment you feel that need, go into relax mode so that things can happen naturally on their own without any pushing/forcing help whatsoever. For me personally this seems to be working as I find myself wetting more often but in lesser amounts which tells me that my bladder is shrinking and cannot hold as much. Which is just perfectly fine for me as I really wish to become completely diaper dependent for my wetting needs/desires/pleasures.

As tempting as it may be, the answer is a NO. I would much rather enjoy the long timely path of training myself to wet with utter freedom with no barriers in the way. Besides, each time there is success, it certainly feels very rewarding and satisfying. Mentally, while I highly enjoy wetting myself, my diaper/pullup, and bed, I do like the fact that I know that with time, things can be reversed.

As a matter of fact I was most fortune and pleased to wake up rather earlier than normal to find that I had fully wetted the bed during my sleep. I was absolutely delighted to feel all that wetness in my bedding (though a bit cool) and to find that my nightie was just as wet (yes, as a femboi diaper lover I very much enjoy wearing feminine underthings during the day and night). Wetting accidents like that do not happen anywhere as near as much as I would like, but I am working on it. It was a terrific way to start my day!!