Kittycat79

You are right though, in that most AB's seem to have a kind of generic baby role with a combination of different ages. One other thing, at my younger age I tend to get into little space my deeply. But that may simply be because I'm usually just in my crib.

When in little space I only stick to clothing, toys and even lifestyle for appropriate age. I actually have two ages, 9 months and 3 years. I always used to like being really young, hence 9 months. But when I started going to meets and events I found it didn't work, because in truth a 9 month old baby is pretty boring. That's why I started playing at 3 years too. I used real baby development charts (from the net) to find out about my chosen ages. Hugs Katie xx

Lol. Haven't seen you in ages Deb. How are you?

Hiya, I'm seeking a playmate for fun and friendship in the Tunbridge Wells area. I am very experienced in all aspects of ageplay, and in addition to being a little myself I am an experienced mummy and nanny. Very maternal and nurturing. I am seeking another woman of any age who would like to share little space with me, mainly at my home in West Kent. I am happy to discuss roles, and ether of us can be a little girl, mummy, nanny, auntie, or sitter for example. We could even take it turns to be each others caregiver if you would like that. We would have a great time together, so don't be shy. Just message me! Love & hugs Katie xx

I live in Tunbridge Wells. Hugs Katie xx

Hi there, and welcome to the community. Well done taking that first step so to speak. There are lots of diapers and everyone has their favorite, but my advice is don't put pressure on yourself to get the perfect diaper first time you wear one. Part of the fun is trying different types to see what you like. Hugs Katie xx

I'm 50, but only for one year.

I have younger brothers, so until about age 11 there was always a baby or toddler in the house. There were always smelly nappies being boiled in a pot on the stove and always cloth nappies and plastic pants hanging on the washing line. At about 9 or 10 I started taking the clean nappies out of the cupboard and putting them on myself. I still have no idea why. My mum did actually catch me with one on in bed one night, but she just told me to take it off and stop being silly. She never mentioned it again.

I actually love the look of a short t shirt with the tummy showing between the diaper and shirt. But then I'm weird lol.

Is ABDL "Normal"? I guess this all comes down to individual perception. ABDL can be a lifestyle or it can be a sexual fetish, and for many people it is both. As a lifestyle it is very alternative and like most very alternative lifestyles is seen as weird by a section of society. It probably always will be. In cases where it is a sexual fetish, it is really no different to other sexual fetishes. So for example, getting aroused by being treated like a baby or wearing a diaper is no stranger than getting aroused by wearing latex, being tied or getting covered in jelly for example. Like any alternative lifestyle ABDL is the victim of ignorance. So, many people assume that in the first case this is always a sexual fetish, and secondly a sexual fetish for children......even though we know this is incorrect in both cases. It's a bit like someone assuming that a 250lb biker covered in tattoos is a violent thug. In actual fact he may be a great guy who does charity work. It is just ignorance. Would it be nice to be accepted as mainstream? I guess so. But I'm so old that I remember in my teen years when there was not only no ageplay community, but no actual way of finding out about ABDL or even if there were others into this. I think for my first ten years I thought I was the only one, until I saw someone wearing a diaper in a porn mag. So in my opinion our community is blessed to have come a long long way. Hugs Katie xx

As Firefly says, most littles go through this cycle, and quite often it is accompanied by disposal of our baby stuff, only for us to go out and buy it all again. It really is a natural part of being a little, and usually stops once you accept that this is part of who you are and not something to feel shame over. My advice is that if you feel like this, just have a break from it.

I have an actual infant crib that I use. It isn't perfect size wise, but it does have lots of advantages. 1. Price. I bought it second hand from ebay for £25 (30 bucks). 2. Space. I just wouldn't have the room for a proper ab crib. Houses in the UK are usually pretty small. 3. You can buy actual baby sheets and bedding. Size wise it is high enough, and wide enough for an adult. It is only really the length, and I can still lay down in a fetal position. I do know any little who bought two the same and simply used one to extend the length of the other. It is great for photos, lovely to sit in (almost like a playpen) and you can still have a nap. If you've never done it, climbing into a crib is surreal tbh. And sitting or laying in it even more so. Just the sound and feel of the baby mattress and waterproof sheet feels babyish. You can see the crib in my photos below. Katie xxx

It can be both. It just depends on the person. For me ageplay has always been non sexual, because I regress quite deeply and would not really be having sexual thoughts. I have found that being on blockers and HRT has pretty much killed my sex drive, but I still retain my passion for ageplay. I've found that for most people it is not sexual. However there are many people that find ageplay sexually arousing, and this can include several fetish aspects. Here are a few common ones: Domination (A strict mummy/daddy, mean babysitter etc). Humiliation (Usually forced babying/regression). Forced Feminization (Forced to be a little girl). BDSM (Being restrained, tied in a cot/crib/highchair, having a dummy gag tied into your mouth etc). PVC/Rubber Fetish (Plastic or latex baby clothes). Watersports (Being forced to wet or mess, or having others pee in your diaper). Medical Play (A nurse diapering you). School Play (A teacher diapering you). Shrinking/Giantess Play (The fantasy of being shrunk to the size of a baby). There are many more.

Hi Joshy, nice to see you getting out there. Hugs Katie xxx

It depends if it is sexual or not really. If not, then generally down. But if it get's you excited then up makes more sense. Katie xxx

Hi Aimee, Great to meet you. Look forward to chatting. Hugs Katie xxx

Hi Emilien, lovely to meet you. Love & hugs Katie xxx

No, I don't even know what Diaper girl free is. I was on here most days in 2008 - 2010. I was friends with 'Story' and 'Heidi Lynn' and 'Poopypants Princess'. I used to chat and write a lot, and did lots of roleplay. There was a really long roleplay called "Baby Bethany's Birthday Party" that involved about 15 of us. I also wrote an article called "30 Types of Adult Baby I Have Known." (Lots of people on other sites remember reading this). What did you call yourself back then? I may remember you.

Thanks everyone, it's nice to meet you all. And I hope we can all chat soon. Nanna, it's nice that someone remembers me in my original persona.?

I have fond memories of Heidi Lynn, as she was one of the first people who I got talking to when I joined DD for the first time back in 2008. I often used to sit up until the early hours of the morning (I'm British) talking to her, and I always valued her advice and kindness.

Thank you Evil. Hugs

Thanks Bill, lovely to meet you too. I look forward to chatting.

Oh that 's an easy one. Being trans has caused me much more pain and heartache over the years than being a little. Mainly because with exception of my partner, none of my family or friends (outside of the community) know I am into ageplay. In comparison, coming out as trans and wanting to transition meant telling my family, friends, neigbours, boss, colleagues.....in fact everyone I know. Not to mention having to transition socially. No, for me there is no comparison between the pain and confusion of growing up in a body the opposite of your gender, and enjoying ageplay. But that's just me.

I've found that after a few years the guilt goes away, the binge and purge stops and you care less. Although I have to say that if you are in a relationship it helps a lot if you have an accepting partner and it's even better if they actually enjoy it too. Ageplay can come across as a bit strange to many people, but most people like a little something. And in many cases that 'little something ' is a thing that others would find odd or unusual.

Nice to meet you diptodd