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littleTomás
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Welcome to DD. I'm also pretty new to the site, and I've found it refreshing to have a platform to talk to others about being ABDL.
Welcome,
littleTomás
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First off, there is nothing wrong with you and fear of telling someone else about your love of diapers is perfectly normal. The vast majority of people have never heard of ABDL and have a misconception that only babies and old people wear diapers. You should tell her, but take it slow. Start by saying, "I do this thing that makes me feel _____." Most likely her response to that will be positive and after giving her the chance to respond, you then mention that it's diapers that make you feel this way. Be sure to talk to her in a low-pressure environment where both of you are clothed and comfortable. In advance, write her a letter explaining how you feel and have it on hand when you bring up the idea, so if your at a loss for words you can hand her the letter. To me it seems like diapers are a kink or fetish for you, so you may want to preface mentioning diapers by saying something like, "For me this thing is a kink/fetish and you know how some people are into <Insert mainstream fetish that your girlfriend has heard of or is interested in>, well for me it's diapers." Put things in context, trust your gut, and you'd be surprised how many people are open to trying something different.
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I'm not exactly sure what got me interested in diapers. I've just wanted to wear diapers ever since I was 6 or 7 thought I hadn't worn diapers since I finished potty training. I realized that I was AB when I was about 15.
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As I see it, the same way people talk about consent in relationships should apply to the public. Have the people in the park or at the store consented to you displaying your diaper for them to see? No. However, you have the right to let your little side show in public in a way that is respectful of others. I like the rule from "The Padded Podcast," always cover your diaper and ask yourself "did I get the clothes I am wearing from the adult section of a vanilla store?" I think that following these guidelines can allow you to express yourself in public in an appropriate way.
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On 11/17/2018 at 9:32 PM, rosalie.bent said:
Are there any ABDLs who DONT masturbate in their nappies??
Yep, here's another one. When I am in diapers I'm in little-space which means I am 3, so I don't do anything in a diaper that a 3 year old wouldn't do.
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I'm skeptical about the accuracy of that app. One possible test would be to turn on the app and play different noises and see what results you get. The best device that I know of for tracking sleep is an Electroencephalography (EEG). I am a collage student and have done a bit of work measuring brainwaves to track concentration and sleep using commercially-available EEG devices (mind wave and Open BCI). The software is somewhat easy to use and relatively affordable. Not sure how interested you are in this, but if you want to get a very accurate picture of how well you are sleeping, measuring brain activity is the best way. Cheaper alternatives would be something like a jawbone or fitbit that tracks your blood pressure and heart rate.
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Drink more water and hold it, I guess. Whenever I wear a diaper I just take advantage of being able to go whenever, so I never try to hold it for too long. You can always just wet the same diaper multiple times, just be sure not to get diaper rash.
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Welcome to the site. I am quite new as well and so far I've found a solid community here. I've been caught in the ABDL binge and purge cycle as well, but quite frankly the best way to end that destructive cycle is to reach a place of self-acceptance. Once you can come to accept deep down that this is a part of who you are and that you are ok with what you do, then the binge and purge cycle will truly end. I hope this community can give you the support you want and you enjoy these online interactions. Some general life advice, coming from personal experience, be careful with your credit card because it is very easy to get that bill at the end of the mouth and say, "I spend how much money!"
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"You Got: 40% adult baby!
You're a real adult, but you might not feel like one. On the surface you're pretty organised, but occaisionally you put off opening your mail for a couple of days. You try to keep inbox zero, but you can't help but sometimes fall down a procrastination rabbit hole. You don't tend to rely on other people, and are pretty great at dealing with a crisis. You're an organised person, but you're also not afraid of being spontaneous."--BuzzfeedSort of it the mark on that one Buzzfeed. Clearly they don't know what an adult baby actually is, but it provides yet another meaningless insight into my personality. I love how in that who survey they never once mentioned diapers or even stuffed animals.
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On 11/8/2018 at 11:54 AM, padded_husky said:
The world is oblivious! They have no clue about anything going on around them! I feel like once you experience and realize this truth, public wearing won't feel like such a risk! I use to feel like you do now, I use to worry about someone finding out, noticing my diaper bulge or hearing my diaper crinkle!
Taking that a step further, I heard Dr. Rhoda Lipscomb (the ABDL expert) say in an interview on the Family Affairs podcast that her ABDL clients always ask her if she can tell they are wearing diapers and she says she can't. It makes you realize how few people will notice a diaper when someone who works with ABDLs all day long can't even tell. I guess all of us are so in-tune to what a diaper looks, feels, and sounds like that we forget that the rest of the world isn't.
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Izzy, my stuffed orca. Actually, I made Izzy at a university event during the first week of classes this year. Mind you, this event was for university students only, but they had a build-a-bear station set up and it was very popular.
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On 10/16/2018 at 7:11 PM, sweetlilone said:
I'm just curious. Have you noted anything different with the alignment of your teeth? My dentist said they are like braces and can change their position. I haven't noticed anything with night time use, but maybe someone else has.
You do have to be careful with pacifiers and bottles to make sure they are the right size. I've never heard of people having any problems with using a properly sized pacifier for their mouth, but if they are too small or too large they can cause issues. I'm not a dentist, but there may be one on this site who can tell you how to know if the fit is good.
One thing that is awesome about being ABDL is we don't need to pop tons of pills to deal with sleep problems. I know so many people who take sleep medications that mess with their livers and have harmful side effects, but I'll I need to do to sleep through the night is snuggle with my stuffed orca and/or wear a diaper.
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As far as I know this has never happened. The best thing for any ABDL to do is search for self-acceptance and find time to be in littlespace. I know that my adult side does much better when my little side gets what he wants.
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My parents have quite a few toys from my childhood that are still in the basement of their house. They told me they are saving them for the future grandchildren they hope to have. I would ask for some of them back (the legos, marble works, and playmobil would be my top picks) , but would feel a little strange doing so. Anyone else in a similar predicament?
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I agree with the previous posts that you need to tell her. This can be very difficult to do, so here are some tips:
1. This may seem obvious, but pick a time that is low-pressure, your both comfortable, and fully clothed. Such as watching TV after dinner. This will make things a lot easier.
2. Start by telling her, "There is this thing I like to do and it makes me feel __________," Then mention the diapers and other ABDL related activities that make you feel this way. This can help create an environment of understanding and soften the shock her learning you like to wear diapers.
3. In advance, write out your feelings in a letter to her and have it on hand. That way if you struggle to find the words to say in the moment, you can just give her the letter. The letter can also serve as a recourse that she can refer back to at a later date.
4. Trust your gut and give it time. It may take a few days for her to acclimate to what you've told her. If this happens don't be worried. Many (I would even say most) people have never heard of ABDL and if they have they probably don't know much about it, so it can be a lot to process.
Good luck,
Tomás
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As a UVA student, I wish I could use this as a moment to brag about how UVA is better than VT, but I guess we are in the same boat with no ABDL groups currently at either school.
Tomás
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On 12/6/2018 at 8:43 AM, PrincessArya said:
Oh, this is about ME. In that case, I am 34, mtf transgender from the great state/commonwealth of Massachusetts. I have no idea what the difference between a state and a commonwealth is, but the people up here are very insistent that I get it right.
I feel your pain. I'm from Virginia, but back in High School I was on the It's Academic TV show. At the very end of the match my team had pulled ahead and they asked the question, "In 2008 Puerto Rico voted not be become a state, but instead to remain a..." I buzzed in and said, "Territory", but the answer they were looking for was Commonwealth. I made no sense to me or anyone on the team and we lost the match by 5 points. I still don't understand how Puerto Rico, Massachusetts, and Virginia are all commonwealths. Regardless, Welcome to DD.
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I also play on PS4! I'm trash, but I have fun anyways.
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On 3/13/2017 at 1:51 AM, nappies4me said:
No specific reason Jazzy just to scared to meet others in real life. It has taken me a long time to accept that I like to wear diapers and that it's part of me. While I have gained the confidence to venture out in public a few times wearing, I pretty much still just wear around the house.
I can relate. I've sort of tried testing the waters with my closest friend, trying to gauge her reactions to little hints (no pun intended). However, I have yet to actually tell someone else. I am trying to find an ABDL community near me because everyone I've talked to has said don't wait to get out into the community.
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I'm not currently in a relationship, but if I was all I could ask for is that my girlfriend is ok with my behavior. I think that fact that you are supporting him is fantastic. Relationships are all about making compromises. Set agreed upon limits on the frequency of diaper play situations. Clearly this means a lot to your boyfriend and you can look at this as an opportunity for the two of you to grow closer and deal with challenges together. Take small steps and make sure that both of you are comfortable before you proceed. Also Step 3 (in previous post) is fantastic advice. If it doesn't do anything for you and you don't know how to proceed Sometimes seeking professional help can be good and have a very positive impact on a relationship. If you want to look down that avenue, good starting point would be contacting Dr. Rhoda Lipscomb. She is a certified sex therapist and the diaper expert.
If I had to guess, I would wager that your boyfriend is still in shock over the fact that someone else knows he likes to wear diapers. I haven't told a single person I've met in person that I enjoy diapers. If he can't clearly articulate to you what he wants it may be because he doesn't fully understand what he wants. In my own experience I have spent a lot of time thinking about diapers, but if someone walked in and said, "I'll do anything you want related to diapers," I wouldn't know what to say.
At the end of the day trust your heart, your gut, and your god
Hope this helps,
Tomás
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Greetings general internet, anonymously browsing tor users, distinguished (and not so distinguished) members of the NSA, and ABDL community members,
I am just beginning to step out into the ABDL community. I am currently an Aerospace Engineering student and I am thankful that the semester is almost over. Right now my dream job is doing propulsion systems research and development for NASA at JPL. If you haven't guessed it already, I am a total nerd. I love space, science, brain-computer interface, 3D printing, rocketry, cello music, playing the cello, my stuffed orca, and diapers. As far as video games go I like Civilization 5, Kerbal Space Program, American Conquest, Fortnite, and Europa Universalis 4 (Thought I haven't had the time to be any good at it). I take Kerbal Space Program way to seriously because I play the game with a flight controller, protractor, and graphing calculator. I am into podcasts and some of my current favorites are: Are We There Yet, SciShow Tangents, Orbital Path, Crinkle Cast, Family Affairs, Serial, Reveal, and This American life. After writing them out it does make me feel a little scared that I've only begun to scrape the surface of the sheer volume of podcasts I listen to. However, podcasts and math homework go together and right now I have an abundance of both. I am an AB and engage in non-sexual play. I am straight and a practicing Roman Catholic. I am from Virginia and I go to collage there as well. I defiantly want to go CAP or Teddy Con once I graduate (and get a real job). If you have any personal questions please direct message me. If you want to start a general conversation, then post on.
pull ups why not?
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Pull-ups never fit me quite right, so I can't really wear them. However, because the tapes on diapers can pretty much go anywhere, I am able to get a good sung fit. Honestly, I've never felt the desire to wear pull-ups, so it doesn't bother me that I can't.