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Hey Everyone, Its great to see we have gotten up to almost 70 members. Never would have thought but maybe there are more of us in upstate than we thought. Would love to see the group get more active. Maybe everyone could reply and indicate where abouts in Upstate you are from (understood if you don't want to get too specific) and what you are looking for here. Cheers! Cuse

Watched this last night and thought of this thread right away. Great diaper scene.

down the thruway in the opposite direction

Hey everyone, Its been a while since we have had any action in this club. Would love to get it moving somehow that would be great. Wanted to touch base to see how everyone has been. Would be cool if everyone posted to say where in upstate they are from. I am from Syracuse. Cuse

Call her. What will it hurt? If you don't you regret it. If you do well you at least gave it a whirl.

sure would

Hey everyone, If anyone is interested in potentially hanging in diapers hit me up. Cuse

Welcome back Matty. I am not in Rochester but down the road in Syracuse.

I had my wife read this and not sure it helped. Might have done more harm than good. I don't think she appreciated the approach in some regard. But to the original post I am in a similar boat except my wife doesn't know I am here and it would be a problem if she did and she won't wear. I come here because I think its fair that I get an outlet from people who understand my mindset. She lets me wear and allows me to indulge mostly on my own but will participate here and there when I am wearing. The reality is you need to determine what is most important to you. For me personally I have an awesome wife that is more important to me than diapers. Don't get me wrong I want nothing more than to bring her to the dark side like you do but after years of prodding it just isn't going happen. Sounds like overall you don't have a terrible situation there are many people who would have walked out the door when you told them you wanted to wear diapers. Life and marriage is about compromise and sometimes we need to just appreciate the compromise being better than nothing.

If I could go back I would have lived by myself and not with roommates after college. Instead of wearing almost never I could have really indulged and taken advantage of the opportunity. While living alone I would have taken advantage of having a place and being single to do more meetups with others into diapers.

I have worn Abena, Molicare, 24/7 (that was a while ago so memory is fuzzy), rearz, sensi quattro (cloth back) and megamax. Currently have black and blue megamax in stock. I have tested the limits on a few occasions and they are by far the best from a perspective of holding the most. When I feel like i should be leaking based on experience no leaking. In fact might be able to fit more. I am a dl and don't wear out of the house so i enjoy how swollen up the front gets and how bulky they become. If you wear out of the house that could certainly be a challenge. Megamax are my new go to.

Is there a chapter 9 coming?

Tisha we need some longer chapters always leave me on the edge of my seat.

Welcome Jade. Wish you were closer sounds like a lot of fun.

Dapper Dan where do you buy them? I like molicare and abena but have never tried any of the ones you mentioned above.

Curious if anyone ever buys their diapers locally or if they go online like me. Would love to know where you get your diapers if you buy them locally? Also if curious if anyone has been to the ABDL store in Albany.

It's has been quiet in here. Hope everyone is doing well and getting to wear diapers (personally not so much wearing for me). With everything relaxing some maybe even some diaper meetups are in the future.

Welcome Mike. Ryan_D mentioned an event in Rochester a while back but I am sure with COVID most things are on hold.

Hey Everyone, Have touched base here in a while so figured I would check in. Hope everyone is doing well and getting more diaper time in than me. Cuse

Lyon is not far from Syracuse at all.

Hey everyone. Just wanted to touch base. I hope everyone is staying safe out there.

I am busy tomorrow and Thursday.

Did you come up with any plans for getting together?

I started an Upstate NY club on here. if you are in Upstate stop over and join us.