Codymoogle

BigBoy: a bigger playground for us bigger babies, toddlers, an kids would be AWESOME! Or at least those plastic playgrounds for the backyard being big enough! enfant: the AB signaler would be great!

Very good question paxy! I struggle with this too. I may not work at the moment, but I talk to a bunch of people at least a few times a week that don't know i'm AB. Generally most of my clothing is either "grown up/baby neutral" as in it can be suitable for me to wear when I need to act adult or when I can let myself be lil totally. People I know in the outside word know that I'm somewhat "childish" so it's not really a surprise to them about that I like cartoons, sleep with a blankie (my Dady bankie), and the like. I'm always in a "little" state of mind, whether I act it or not. I'm incontinent so the diapers are explainable and no one's business anyway. I can act big when I have to and that's all that matters, even though it's hard. Maybe one day when Dady and I move in together I won't have to act totally grown up anymore, since he'll be working from home...and if I have to work I can work from home too. ~ Moogies

Dolly broke her arms, I think. On your vacation, Dolly? I can't remember where/when sorry! ~ Moogie

I agree with diapermommie...BIG SIZED BABY/TODDLER TOYS! *dreams of an adult sized "corn popper" push toy* I know there's more baby/toddler stuff I'd like to see adult sized but I can't think of them at the moment. Also, I wish there was a hair removal cream that was safe for ALL areas of the body (even on the diaper area) that would PERMANENTLY remove hair in one application with no risking pain/burns/rashes and no mess. baby eddie - where did you get your car seat and queen sized kid bed sheets? I'm a bigger girl and can't fit into the special needs car seats meant for people up to 120 lbs. ~ Moogle

*hugs Dolly* Good luck! ~ Moogies

Thanks for the advice...going without panties might be okay with a long skirt, I'll have to remember that. As for your last sentence in your post, I don't have to worry about forgetting to go potty because I'm incontinent and would have accidents anyways...I need to learn, whenever I still have money around to buy more diapers for the month, to go shopping for more diapers before i run out! To kat: I never thought about a different panty cut! Thanks! ~ Moogles

I saw this before. I think it's wrong to do this to a baby...as far as the helping to save the environment (which I've heard this "movement" claims to do)? Maybe there are less diapers in the trash...but there's more polluted waters in the ocean when babies use sinks and stuff. I've also heard that babies don't actually develop sphincter control until around 6 months old anyway...so dashing your baby over to the nearest tree to pee isn't TRUE potty training, in my opinion. On another note...when will the toddlers that go diaper free learn to use the actual toilet and not a tree or bush? When they would get older that's not acceptable behavior in society... In my opinion, the whole thing is kind of odd, to be honest and I don't believe it will ever really become a "big thing". But, people will do what people will do. Just my thoughts. ~ Pipi Moogles

They rub up on me, on my legs...the elastic on panties isn't like diaper elastic and when it rubs it hurts. To willnotwill: where do I get training pants to fit me? Cloth diapers aren't an option at this point because I need to find a reliable and really inexpensive place for plastic pants, as I have none. To repaid: Hehe thanks for the advice But sometimes when I'm close to running out of my diapers I dont have money to get more right away so sometimes i have to wait, no other way around it. ~ Moogles

Hey guys and girls, I clicked on the link to donate to DD and become a Baby Banker but when I went to my "purchase paid subscription" section under that link, the Baby Banker upgrade wasn't listed. Am I looking in the wrong place? ~ Moogles

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You put this in the wrong place! It clearly states: Links and Announcements Post your AB/DL links and site updates here Your topic stated that this was NOT ABDL related so why put it here? Try the "Rest of your life!" section. ~ Moogles

I don't actively LOOK for others in diapers. However, I have noticed it on occasion whilst not LOOKING for it. ~ Pipi Moogles

Ooooh, I likes it! ~ Moogles

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Well, Mean Mommy...I happen to be one of "those" AB's...So, I will try to answer the above quoted questions to the best of my ability. First off, I would like to say that the majority of the AB's (judging by myself and those I know) that were traumatized as chronological children are not as disturbed as you seem to believe - of course I may be wrong on my assumption but judging by the words "I'm alarmed by these adult babies" and your "uncomfortable"-ness that's what I believe you are saying, as if you feel you are "walking on eggshells" with "these" AB's and that we will snap at any given minute. Please, please correct me if I am in any way wrong in my assumption. Secondly, to to the questions... Are these kinds of AB's interested in sex at all when they roleplay? My Answer: My ABness is, for me (and i do not claim to speak for other AB's here, only myself) not a "roleplay"...It's a life...A way to help repair issues from past childhood trauma, and sort of a "second chance" at a good childhood, if you will. My trauma left me "emotionally drained" and "stuck" in the emotional state of a toddler...In essence, the emotional part of my mind didn't "grow up", even while I gained intelligence and physically grew up. This does not mean I am crazy, this does not mean I am damaged, this does not mean I am stupid, this does not mean I am unable to do "adult" things and act adult when I must, this does not mean I don't enjoy sexual intimacy. I have the intelligence of a person of my chronological age (almost 20 years old), and I have the desires, wants, and needs of a 20 year old (for example: a romantic relationship, intelligent conversation, intercourse, and the like). Simply, the difference between me and a "regular" AB who "roleplays" a baby but then "grows up" after might be best described as I am very, very hypersensitive, and while mature in all other areas, I am very, very emotionally immature. My emotional maturity is that of a young toddler of about two. This doesn't change, even when I must act grown up. This doesn't neccesarily mean I will "flip out" (aka have a temper tantrum) however. Now that the explaination for this question is done, yes I am interested in sex, but only in the highest/deepest level of emotional maturity I am able to obtain. Does this make any sense? As for question two... And are there more specific titles to distinguish between adult babies who act like babies for the sexual thrill of it and those who are taking their pretend infancy more seriously? My Answer: I don't see my ABness as a "pretend infancy" (see my big long explanation in my first answer above), but as far as your question goes, no, I don't know of an official title/label to make a distinction between sexual and non-sexual AB's... Why not just use something like: SAB = Sexual Adult Baby NSAB = Non-Sexual Adult Baby for your own reference? Just a thought. I hope my answers helped you in some way. Take care, ~ Pipi Moogles

Hey all, I've noticed that when I have to wear panties (just regular cotton panties) when I have run out of diapers and need to run to the store for more, the panties don't feel "right". They feel downright weird. I know this "weirdness" would be somewhat normal for a person that wears diapers all the time from incontinence, but...The panties, in addition to not feeling "right", also actually are very very uncomfortable, to the point of HURTING. I have the right size panties, but even then, they have this uncomfy hurt to them. Does anyone else ever get this with their underwear? ~ Pipi Moogles

Oooh beary nicey paxy

Happy birfday Puppy! I hope it's good for you! ~ Pipi

I was never able to be completely potty trained because of my incontinence, but I was taken out of diapers anyway and didn't get back into them into I was 10. ~ Pipi Moogles

As far as material things go my top 4 are (not necessarily in order!): 1. A big set of blocks - ABC blocks or big size legos/megabloks, either would be great 2. A BIGLIER (tall as ME!) plushie giraffe 3. A dolly with brown hair and brown or blue eyes - either cloth or vinyl is great 4. A pink "popcorn popper" push toy ...But the biggest thing I want for Christmas is to go home to my Dady. ~ Pipi

^ Had a giggle fit at the Rudolph conversation so changed the subject so no one would know!

Dire

Tall

^Knows this because he is really SANTA Claus and buyed them for Just!

Sorry for bumping this thread but I think Playtex Ventaire Standard Bottles (Stage 2 nipples, slightly opened with a sterile pin ran along the premade "Y" shaped hole) are great and people should give them a try! They're angled to prevent a lot of gas and that helps even us bigger babies...They did for me anyway. They're the only babas I'll use now! As far as what's IN my babas, all "average" liquids - water, juice, milk, etc... coffee, staining juices (like V8), and thick drinks (like milkshakes or fiber drinks) go in a straw cup cause they would clog/stain the baba nipple. ~ moogle