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Thanks for the replies, it's nice to know meets have happened in a 'vanilla' setting without incident.

If the hiding place you have is safe, I would suggest still collecting the items. They will still be there next time you have an empty house and you won't have the stress of waiting for the delivery. Trust me it will be worth it.

I'm 41, live alone and I still hide my nappies in a void in my wardrobe over which my shoes are stored. I keep a small stash in a large box on the very to shelf. None of my nappies are easy to access, even for me who knows where they are. A good hiding place enables you to enjoy them more when the chance arises or you feel the urge.

It is especially difficult at the moment as you say which is why I was thinking maybe a bit of interaction on here with fellow UK members may be healthy. I am not entirely sure how I feel about real life meets but I am certain I would struggle with meeting complete stranger's. I'd be just too concerned I would be sat in a pub and somebody would lean over to proclaim that needed a change!! I totally agree about the instant gratification part, it seems most posts are done here to scratch an itch, which is why most only have one post by the thread author.

I hope this post is taken in the manor it is intended as I don’t wish it to be a negative. I have often read the ‘Meet up’ section more out of interest of where people live and if anybody is close by than any great desire to actually meet. I have however noticed that most posts die within maybe a couple of posts. You may have a thread started along the lines of:- “Baby boy seeking mummy for fun and changes” or “Daddy 38 seeking baby girl willing to travel” I’ve also seen somebody post they would like a meetup and have had a reply from somebody 250 miles away. To me that seems a little off without first building an online friendship of sorts. I wonder how much success has come of the multitude of threads started in this section alone. It seems to me that the vast majority are started with a sexually drive intent and the rest are with the hope of finding a caregiver. Of the few that have been started with the intent of meeting like-minded people, the responses have instantly been about wearing together and changing each other’s nappies. It all seems like a recipe for instant gratification than actually creating a lasting friendship. Even the meet ups in the UK all seem to be aimed towards jumping straight into nappies and letting out our littles. I just wonder if it would be healthier if there were groups in which in the first instance any nappy or baby talk was banned in order to work out if people get on, in order to create solid friendships. I know if I was to have a social group I would feel happier knowing I could meet for a drink and talk TV, football or whatever and then maybe one day down feel comfortable enough to maybe have a more baby related friendship. Sorry for the longwinded and perhaps slight uneven post just some general thoughts I have been having. Id love to hear peoples thoughts, if anything it may create a community of posters from the UK on here.

I'm not a fan of this type of content at all. The problem is this is the the sort of story documentary makers and 'red tops' love. Just once it would be nice to read a story where somebody doesn't feel the need to play up to the stereotype. A well written piece or well filmed documentary could really help people struggling with this thing we have in common.

My reason is slightly different, although I remember threats if being put back in nappies as a child it wasn't until I got to 10,11 or 12 when my interest spiked. My parents used to buy me and my brother a comic annual each a year one of us git a copy of the Beano and the other got a copy of Dandy, we would swap once we had read them. In these comics there was a surprising amount of mild ABDL content (of course I didn't know at the time). There was several instances of dummies (pacifiers) being forced into mouths, people dressing as infants to avoid being recognised. Quite strange to find so much suspect stories when the comics were not linked to my knowledge. The biggest influences on my future nappy wearing self was on in which Dennis the Menace was punished for being naughty by being placed in a bonnet, with a dummy and placed in a play pen (I can't recall if a nappy was involved). The comic I post below was the result of my first ever erection and resulted in years of fashioning nappies out of towels. My interest never went away and as I am soon to be 40 I doubt it ever will.

There is definitely merit to meeting people in person (though I have not) because as you say it could help. I think the AB meetups are great for people in their early twenties because they seem to be building solid support networks. I just don't think I could see myself 'dressed up' in front of people I barely know. Basically you built a vanilla friendship that enabled you both to feel free enough to let that side of you out. Exactly as it should be. Sorry you lost a great friend.

The problem is what the motivation is for meeting. For example take a quick look on the meeting place forum on here. Each thread is a mixture of people wanting to meet for a hook up or to be changed by somebody. Any other thread is people wanting to meet up an wear nappies together. I have never ventured out into the community but speaking personally I don't think I want any of the above, what I wouldn't mind is a friend who I could go out for a drink with and the subject of nappies and everything that goes with it isn't off the table. This type of ABDL interaction seems pretty rare and in truth how likely is it you will meet somebody of a similar age group with similar interests who sometimes happens to like acting like a baby.

Im not a big contributer here but surely the best way to get "acceptance" is to stop ramming it down peoples throats. I mean when I hear of other fetishes I think to myself "good on em, as long as they are doing it in private or at an appropriate gathering with like minded people."

Well thankfully the box was plain.

So I get home from work and my neighbour shouts round to me that he took a delivery for me.

Only recently have I gotten used to sleeping in a nappy and although I rarely do it but have found that its just a case of the more you have done it the easier it gets. What I have found helps and it is perhaps a little crass to say, is to make sure that If I am turned on I deal with that before going to sleep.

I think the main issue is that the ultimate form of acceptance would be that of your parents.

Welcome, well done for for finally plucking up the courage to sign up.

Welcome and congratulations for taking the leap to signing up.

Welcome freemommy, I would certainly be open to trying a role play scenario.

Great chapter, I like how hopeless he feels and how it makes sense he is being punished in this way. I wonder if the reason he has so swiftly lost night time bladder control is medical or if there is a mental reason.

Great story.