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Has nothing changed since 2006 though? There's been NO developments? I mean, an updated post might be alright.

Still at home and quite honestly, anywhere I can. I've had things in the trunk of my car, filing cabinets (that lock), a locking box and backpacks that I've attached locks to ... So far so good but I need a more permanent location, that's for sure. The filing cabinets are the best idea I have at this point.

You can't get e-mails back ... documented ... So whether this turns out good or bad right now ... or the relationship is good or bad 5 years from now, she'll always have that. Face to face is better.

Sorry to hear. Hopefully you can think about it and laugh one day down the road ... Mighty brave don't you know

More ads on the Tube itself maybe? After 3 videos, you have to watch a 10-second ad? Unless I'm missing something, I don't think there's much like it on the web right now so it's really up to be played with (and figured out). Looking for a permanent sounds great though.

The amount of views of these videos on "The Tube" is an enormous amount compared to the views and posts on the boards here (or am I missing something and I'm mistaken ... at least it appears that way). I'm really wondering if all these viewers are active members/posting or just people who surf around the net, now possibly from other sites and land on DD for the Tube. The only reason why this matters is that SOMEBODY has to pick up the financial slack at the end of the day. Sad to see it down though, great feature IMO.

You don't want something on your mind that much in a relationship to not be discussed ... this isn't the YOU-YOU-YOU show but you shouldn't have to hide what you want to talk about or heck, what you want to do. Just don't force it and when the time is right, I guess the words will come out and a discussion will come of it. If it's important to you and your partner is important to you, then you should be able to figure out a balance.

I would look into talking to someone about what you're feeling and just talking out what you're thinking inside, out loud. Your goals and wants take a lot and are really life altering if you were to ever go through with any of that ... your best thing to do is to wear a diaper for half a month straight, never without one on ... or if anything was to ever happen, I'm sure you would be forced to a colostomy bag or something of the sort. Just something to think about. Talk it out. Unfortunately, everything you've described is not the healthy norm but luckily, it can all be figured out to work for you.

I wouldn't let it single-handedly be the reason to NOT accept a woman into your life. If you're really into someone but they're not into your AB/DL side, then so be it. All you can ask for and really do is to bring up the scenario and what you're interested in and see how it goes from there. It would help to try and find someone who's open-minded, not necessarily an AB/DL from the get go, but someone who might understand or "just gets it."

I second that, those are great great items as mentioned above. I've made some purchases and never regretted it. Worth it.

Some women are just that playful believe it or not. Even with strangers!

Updates?

It was really neat (and probably appreciated) to see someone calm taking on all the questions and really putting another face out there to normalize something that really isn't that "bad" ... break those awful stereotypes. And at the end of the day, it's about personal satisfaction, and it sounds like you're well off Rachel. Great job!

If anyone finds out about Canada, please keep us updated. I'm here waiting in Ontario. I swear someone could make some profit on eBay right about now!

Yeah I'd like to watch the full version of this on the net somewhere ... I'll keep waiting to see what you guys say

Sadly, the trailer for this episode was posted on eBaums world and there's a TON of negative comments ... I wouldn't even bother trying to find it if you don't have the stomach for a lot of hate. Couldn't believe the things I was reading from some people.

I feel like I'm in control of this and I pick it up and drop it when I want to, however I don't think I could drop it altogether ... or at least right now, I wouldn't be able to.

Before they create new products, lets make sure they ship it to Canada to Canadians can try it out too

I wanted you guys to see the video they were using to talk about this issue ... they finally posted a clip ... http://www.citynews.ca/news/news_20085.aspx Question ... they keep talking about the "Great improvements" and they keep exampling this diaper ... can anyone identify it (from the video) as a particular brand or anything they've seen before? They're pooring quite a bit of water in during their "Demonstration" and it looks like its holding up. Just thought I'd bring that into the equation

Here as well. Good find people! http://www.citynews.ca/news/news_20043.aspx Health Minister Prepares To Wear Diapers Wednesday February 27, 2008 CityNews.ca Staff If it's good enough for Ontario's vulnerable seniors, it's good enough for the government official responsible for their care. Health Minister George Smitherman is prepared to wear an adult diaper, to gain empathy for those in the province's facilities. At Queen's Park Wednesday, he said that he is aware of the dilemma around his proposal. "I've got to take a look at the clinically appropriate and ethical issues associated with that, but yes. That is a matter of conscience. It's something that I've been seriously considering." The stunt doesn't sit well with CUPE President Sid Ryan. He had harsh words for Smitherman, and pointed out that wearing the diaper isn't the point. He said that what long-term care residents really need are 3.5 hours of personal nursing care for continence and other issues. "If the minister wants to play silly games, well, then let him put on a diaper and sleep in it all night long and come into the legislature and wear it up until 12pm and let him soil that diaper and lay around in it for the length of time that our seniors have to do in this province." Two nurses who work in senior's home were also at Queen's Park. They said that because of understaffing, they are forced to rush through their duties.

Personally I love it too ... is that not just the verification that you're wearing something below your waist?

That video (and at least that clip on YouTube) is actually pretty good in making an effort to explain what it's all about and why and just some differentiation ... I thought it was well done if anything.

I had to fast forward to get to the point ... made me smile in the end, it won't be winning an award for funny though, that's for sure.

I've also read about the theory that a significant and sometimes embarassing experience can trigger AB/DL or any festish for that matter ... Though I was not embarassed as a younster, nor do I remember lengthy timse in disposable diapers, nor was I a bedwetter, I do remember an embarassing Halloween costume that the whole school had to see and said was "So cute!" ... It's crazy, but that's my earliest ideas of everything I think about today.

Out of trust and confidence, I told my ex-girlfriend about my DL desires ... I've later found out that she had to spread the gossip around to all of our friends ... have they ever confronted me about it? No. Did it make me upset? Of course. I don't trust her for a ton of reasons, which she's proven herself time and time again, which is why she's my ex ... Is it some sort of "OMG THE HORROR" as I thought it would be ... no, and for all I know, my friends are either thinking about it all the time or they're thinking nothing of it right now. My current girlfriend of 3+ years knows and it's something we've talked about very early into the relationship. It's actually something I told her when we first started talking, as she was a outlet for me to vent about these things as I was younger. We've grown up and it's something I'm able to play around with her today ... do I want more? Yes, but everything is "baby steps" and a little bit at a time ... it's hard when you're not living under the same roof and right now, we're not ... But one day, years to come, when that changes I look forward to the fun stepping up. She'll be there for me, which is why I love her. You just need to surround yourself with friends and family that you can trust.