[Hi Everyone, I'm Jaycee!!!]

Welcome, and very cute.

[Do you have a diaper can, bin or pail, and if so, do you enjoy emptying it?]

On 11/6/2023 at 3:18 PM, Gejoe said:

No it is plenty hot in the summer. What I do when it is warm I put my morning diaper in my container and let it sit for a day to mellow then I hang them out to dry on the line then put them back. At times I will have two or three pee stained diapers hanging on the line. Love the smell of my dried pee when I go to wash them. In cool weather they just go in the container wet. By the end of the week they have the stinky ammonia smell which is ok but not my favorite.

I would do the same as you described , but not sure if I can hang them out of the way of my wife. She's not even into my minor ,, and I mean minor smells coming from my room, see I have a room that I will play in ,, not as much as I used to, but its my storage and play room . But I have to keep the pee smells under control . Just for her. I do respect her and try to keep the pee smells under control as best as I can. 

[How do people not catch UTI's more often with this fetish?]

I have worn diapers 24/7 since 2013. I have never had any UTS's I do get a rash from not drinking enough water in the summer. But as long as I keep up with the water, I am really thinking that's it. Also I have only had poop in my diapers on a few occasions , when I was sick. I do enemas every nite, so I don't poop in my diapers .  I would not like to do poop clean up every day , just my choice .

[How did you tell your Friends?]

On 10/8/2023 at 5:33 PM, Goodniteswearer89 said:

Part of me wants to tell someone about my diaper fetish and part of me wants to keep it a secret just cause it gives me such a thrill with it being a secret. The part of me that wants to tell is the part that wants to tell my girlfriend and see what her reaction would be and if she would be into it also and If I could get her to diaper me and be my mamma. 

I would say if you're wanting to have a long term relationship , like many years I would find a safe way to let her know, and not do as I did and wait till your married 10 yrs beforehand .

[Dribbles, start & stop]

1 minute ago, Spargano said:

Interesting. I am trying it too. I have to say, it’s different. Instead of huge surges you force it to stop. What’s interesting to me is that my hold is sometimes not strong enough and more flows out until I can tamp down. Several times I have had urine flow out after I have thought I stopped it without any feeling in the urethra. I cannot tell if it’s urine that already escaped the bladder but hasn’t been expelled or if it is the bladder flowing without feeling.

as fun as this is, it does seem contrary to the typical method of stay relaxed. Be interested to see where this goes because the always relaxed doesn’t work when you are busy with life and moving around with work. This method I can focus on, which is nice.

I was using the other method where you do like CPR, but I didn't have as much luck. I am doing this method and I don't make it to stop , But I like any mix of both. 

[What diaper are you wearing now?]

Just in my second pull-up for the evening , each lined with a cloth cotton baby blanket, (2 ft by 2 ft cotton blanket)

[Wet Spots]

I have been 24/7 since 2013. I started to have wet spots back then, so I started to wear to work . Now I have been Medical retirement since 2016, and it really don't matter what I wear....

[could I be unconsciously Bi?]

On 8/21/2023 at 4:35 PM, Alyeskabird said:

Acordding to the kensey scale, I think something like 80 percent of humans can be considered as bi. There is something like 5-10 percent that is straight, 5-10 percent that is gay, and the rest of us fall somewhere between the two. For many that are leaning closer to the straight side, its easy for them to ignore the minor interest in the same gender.  After all, one does not want to get beaten up in the bathrooms when protection is not around.

 

I think I am Bi, I am married , 29 yrs on my second . But since we can't have sex because of her cancer that happened in 2006. We tried but we haven't had any sex since 2009. I have had my diapers, my toys, plastic etc. I have been getting brave for the last few yrs and buying the Nice silicone dildos, with that I wander about myself . Anyhow , if you want to MM me I will talk. Send me a message .

[daily diapers not showing up on Google.]

I saved it to my favorites and I have no problems .

[Should I avoid wearing at my very-active job?]

5 hours ago, Wannatripbaby said:

My GF thinks that I should definitely NOT go to work diapered at my new job. 

I recently started a new job as a janitor in a warehouse. I'm constantly active and moving around and taking somewhere around 5,000-6,000 steps per shift. Which with my long legs, is probably several miles. 😅

At my last job, I wore twice a week because it was a fairly inactive position and it helped me to enjoy my days more. 

I was thinking about trying to do the same for this job, but my GF is adamant about it being a bad idea to wear at a job where I have to walk so much. She's afraid the friction will cause injury to a very-valuable part of my anatomy. 😳😱😅

So I wanted to pose the question here to the experts: are her fears accurate? I wouldn't have the opportunity to change if I had any sorts of issues. Does anyone here work an especially Active job and still wear during their shift? 

I worked for at least 5 years in a diaper, and I was an electrician in the oil fields . I was lucky to be able to pick my work clothes , I picked the lose coveralls , and I loved it I could put my hand in the other pocket hole and get right to the diaper, so if I needed to adjust it or check it, it was very easy.

[Do you have a diaper can, bin or pail, and if so, do you enjoy emptying it?]

1 hour ago, Gejoe said:

Never been a problem, and since I can no longer cum they come out of the dryer white and soft.

Maybe it's cooler there? I tried to not put them in water and I really Love the smells, but they turned a brown hard cloth. So I was a little scared to do it without water, I just add about  a cup of bleach to keep them from being molded etc.

[Reverse engineering a diaper]

37 minutes ago, Dubious said:

I bet only Rearz has a patent on their ABDL diapers. 
Most medical diapers most likely has some kind of protection. 

Many products that stops being made when the machine they was made on breaks, cause it would be to expensive to make the same on a different machine.
If a product you bought has changed, that might be the reason.

You can buy diapers on Alibaba or similar sites, delivered in a container. 

I just looked at that Albaba site, and some of them you have to order 10k diapers, who has $12k to plop down for diapers and then you need a place to store them. That was on the Japan's brands. The diaper price is good, but we would have to get a bunch of us together to split the order. Unless I was on the wrong site. But 15 cents a diaper is a really good price ..

[Do you have a diaper can, bin or pail, and if so, do you enjoy emptying it?]

12 hours ago, Gejoe said:

They are in a closed container pee soaked, during the summer I hang them out to dry then put them in my container

I would think without soaking in bleach water they would mold or dry soo bad you would not get them clean?

[What is the highest capacity diaper?]

On 8/22/2023 at 2:53 PM, fixitboy said:

Megamax claims 6000 ml or about 1.5 gallon but that assuming you use every bit of assorted material in a diaper which just isn't going to happen. At best 1/4 to 1/3 of the rated capacity is usable 

I was lucky to get some MegaMax in a couple sizes and samples. From a second hand store, I will say they are good, But not a 1.5 gallon in my opinion .  I am leaking in about 3-4 hrs with them . Since I do use about 4 diapers in mine, and never the same brand, I do get a good 10-12 hrs from my home built. It's a lot of work, to do it this way, it works for me.  , it would be nice to have the nice AB diapers a little cheaper.

[What is the highest capacity diaper?]

On 8/23/2023 at 5:43 AM, Diapered Dave said:

Capacity is one thing... How much it will stink after 10 to 12 hours is another...

That's a really good point. (Smells after 10 plus hrs) I do build my nite time or sleep Diaper , it will have several layers of second hand diapers with only the diaper, I trim off all of the outer stuff, and put them into or on top of a XL cheap diaper, But to help with comfort and smell I will put a cloth barrier, mostly also used stuff, I like the soft cotton baby blankets , usually 2-3ft square , and it helps . But with all of that weight you need stuff to hold it all up, I use layers there also. I use nylon kinda underwear , then plastic pants, then a pair of tights, then just add what you need to keep warm, or more holding strength . I have used a few of the more expensive diapers and mine holds much more pee with less smell. At least the ones I had samples of.

[Did you ever fantasize a TV or Movie Mom as your Mommy?]

3 hours ago, Little Sherri said:

They used to air that over lunch when I was a kid in the 1980's. I was introduced to a few cultural touchstones over my lunch hours as a kid: Leave It to Beaver, The Little Rascals, MASH, I Love Lucy, All In The Family, The Flintstones, The Three Stooges...

That's very cool...

I have most of those shows and much more, I do a lot of watching TV, I lost count a long time ago, but I guess I have 5-10k dvd's a half dozen large storage containers full. I can't watch most of what's on TV now a days, so I have to buy what I like and no commercials ....

[Did you ever fantasize a TV or Movie Mom as your Mommy?]

What about Beavers mom, She was sooo great.. And soo nice, yeah dad was the hard guy when Beaver got into trouble . But that's way before the time of some on here.

[What's your favourite candy?]

9 hours ago, Little Sam said:

Ooooooh those sound good.

I Love those but after I lost all my teeth from oral cancer I have lost some of the good candy. But I am not wanting to make this a negative thread.. Sorry

[Colon resection surgery]

I have been lucky , I have diverticulitis , I have had it for over 10 yrs. And as long as I eat the correct stuff, mainly no Nuts and other stuff. But I don't know if it helps. But I do a 4 qt enema twice in a row every nite. I don't know but it may help. With that much water, NO added stuff only water. I had a upper and lower scope last week and I have them under control ..

[What'S Your...]

Old posting,,,, But I would Love to have someone Pee into my diaper,,,,,, Soo Hot.

[Plastic mattress peeing/humping]

I started this, but I can't believe there's not anyone here that will enjoy the pee plastic humping , mattress of any kind...

[🎶 I'm dreaming of a white 🎶]

I am Waiting sooo much to see our first Snow..

[Do you have a diaper can, bin or pail, and if so, do you enjoy emptying it?]

15 hours ago, Gejoe said:

I have a diaper container in the garage for my night cloth diapers, I wash them once a week, I enjoy the shameful smell of my naughty bed wetting and need of diapers every night. My daytime disposals go in a plastic bag and into a trash can I have in the garage also, emptied once a week also. 

Do you soak the cloth diapers in water/bleach? or just leave them in an open pail? 

[Are we really that quiet of a bunch?]

I'm sure you're correct about the site changes, but in my opinion it's still the best one I have found. And Many of the people I have talked with are good and here to share and learn. I am a guy coming to secret terms of my gay desires. I am married for a lot of yrs. But am really having stronger feelings wants for gay sex. I read the rainbows 🌈 sites a lot, and I don't post because of my mixed up mind..

[So you wet the bed how does this make you feel.]

I haven't reached my full bed wetting automatically as I am working for. I do however pee at nite when I do get to sleep, , I don't sleep long periods, I will be in a deep sleep for an hr at a time and when I do that I will notice I'm wetter but with a heavy padded diaper it's a little harder to tell. But if I wake up I will pee, because of needing to pee will wake me up. So to answer,,,, I am more pleasantly pleased, to do it at all without noticing ....