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Ouch! I'm not overly enamoured with posts about video games, but then I generally avoid threads with a video game theme. It's a fairly straightforward process. When you log into the forum you get a list of threads with titles that generally explain the topic of conversation. I'd suggest you avoid any with 'celebrity' or similar terms. People are always going to debate people who are in the limelight. I have family members who work in similar careers and it comes with the territory. I've seen things posted about them on random message boards and it's the same as people discussing someone in the real world. Just a load of gossip and opinion and nothing else. If people try to state their opinions as fact, then yes it becomes an issue (media, for example). But I don't think anyone on this forum is trying to do that.

Wet sex was one of my very first fetishes. I dated a guy when I was 16 who introduced me to it. I've had a couple of other boyfriends who enjoyed watersports too, so I've had quite a lot of experience in the area. It also ies in nicely with a lot of other S&M games!

I like the puzzle element to your stories. Is that wrong? : /

I love Victoriana style fashion (corsets, lace, silk stockings, gloves, etc) and leather. I also have a thing for crossdressing guys.

Buy a giant trampoline. They cure depression. Fact.

For what it's worth, I felt the same several years back. I have worked in some horrible places over the years through neccessity. I went to a brilliant school, but my parents didn't have tons of money back then and I had to pay my way through college and uni. I never got to Oxbridge, which was the biggest disappointment at the time (seems trivial now). I worked abroad in a low-level (i.e. got all the crappy jobs no one else wanted to do) rescue/medical role and got to see all sorts of fun stuff (although parts of the job were amazing). Then in England I worked in fast food places, night shifts in not very safe factories, as a cleaner (the worst job ever - I really sympathise with people who do that for a long term job), and in an office support role in a centre that dealt with young addicts (rewarding at times, but got a LOT of abuse, which was a bit scary as a young girl). At the time I just needed to pay the rent and would take any job I could get. I didn't know if I would be in the that job forever or if something better would come along. Then in my first 'secure' permanent role with career advancement (a nice, safe, clean office job) I was made redundant at the start of the recession. My early work experience sucked. I studied for another degree after I was made redundant, took a weekend course at college in something I loved, took on freelance work to build a portfolio and worked evenings as a private tutor to make ends meet. I ended up getting a great 9-to-5 'safe' job in something I find fairly interesting, and I'm now at a stage where my freelance projects (my babies) are paying more than the 'safe' job and I could probably quit and choose my own hours if I wasn't so attached to the money/security. Plus I'm a workaholic, so never going to be satisfied with just one job (unless I have kids maybe). My point is, I'm in a great place now and love my work, but a few years ago I felt like I was a complete and utter failure and stuck doing dead end jobs for the rest of my life. Things can change very quickly. Keep learning new things and planning for the future and just focus on learning what you can from the situation your in. I'm glad I went through everything I did, as it made me very tough at a young age, and I can deal with anything life throws at me now. I watch friends/colleagues break under pressure in situations that I manage very easily. Learn to do the same, grasshopper!

I wouldn't say I suffer from anything. I have ADHD, but wasn't diagnosed until mid 20s so I've learned to cope with it pretty well. I don't take any meds, but probably take more Pro Plus than is good for me. I counterbalance that by eating very healthily, staying fit, hardly ever drinking and not smoking (bar the occasional cigar). I had a very strict, disciplined childhood and went to a school that did not tolerate any unruly behaviour, so although I was an unhappy child it did force me to learn certain techniques that have helped me as an adult. I count myself lucky in that regard. I also stay very very busy, as that keeps me calm. I avoid things that I know I have no hope of doing (anything involving advanced multi-tasking or memorising lots of info is a no go area), but I'm very good at anything where I need to react quickly, create things (I can make furniture, clothing, paintings, books, etc from scratch) or organise other people/things (I do a lot of project management work). I also have a LOT of energy, which gives me an advantage at times. I'm not sure I would count ADHD as a mental illness though, as I find I just have a different skill set to other people and vice versa. I think that's true across the board. I consider it more as 'personality management'. People just have to learn what cards they've been dealt and play with that hand.

I have no preference myself. So it depends on who I'm with and what they like. I once dyed it red and shaved it into a heart shape. I was bored. It seemed like a good idea at the time.

"has botox injections in her sphincter"

I have a LOT of fetishes (I like to think that makes me a more balanced individual):

I'm normally based in London, although currently wandering around the countryside for work purposes.

Was curled up on the sofa last weekend with a horrible throat infection, so got through both Dispicable Me 2 and The Wolf of Wall Street. Both cheered me up. Actually, I was nearly sick watching Wolf of Wall Street as I was laughing so hard! I never liked Leonardo DiCaprio as an actor, but he is utterly brilliant in this. The drugged up car scene is pure comic genius! He should do more comedies.

It's 3:20am here! I'm a life-long insomniac and get all my best work done at night. My brain doesn't come with an off switch, so I live on Pro Plus when I need to be up early (I have two jobs, one of which involves early starts in an office during half the week). I can usually be found either writing, painting or reading in the early hours of the morning. It's just so peaceful around that time. I used to run on the streets at night while the rest of the world was asleep and I felt far more connected to everything.

About bloody time! His work paved the way for modern computing - brilliant man!

I would put money on the actor Benedict Cumberbatch being into (at the very least) age regression. There are soooooo many pictures and videos of him looking/acting like a little kid and he just gives off a vibe of wanting to be mothered and taken care of (I can't believe it's all just media persona stuff). He also reminds me a lot of other guys I've met who were into AB and/or DL play. I have no proof though, just a feeling.