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7 hours ago, Jilly Poo said:
Wish i could have selected more than 1 answer.
My first discussion with my husband went really, really well. He had no idea I had not only been wearing diapers off and on for years, but he also didn't know I was wearing one at the time I confessed to him either. He was really intrigued and had a lot of questions for me about them. (They were only Depends at the time) He even wanted to partake in my diaper play. At first it was me showing them to him, then he dared me to wet one while he watched the wetness indicator change colors. Eventually he even changed my diaper and once he asked to wear one. I thought I had finally broken the barrier between me living out my fantasy as an Adult Baby and staying closeted for life.
After a few months of off and on again diaper wearing and him changing me, he started to change how he felt about my diapers. At first, he would only put one on me if it meant we were going to have sex (kind of defeats the purpose if I don't even get to keep it on very long) and then he started to mock me for wearing them. Said he was concerned that I might do harm to myself, become dependent on them if I wore them too long or too often. Then he told me they were a waste of money.
After that, I stopped talking to him about my diapers. I stopped wearing them in front of him too. I never bring up the subject and always make sure when I order a new pack, he won't be home when they arrive. I still keep them in the same place so if he ever changes his mind and wants to play along, he'll know where to find them, I just don't bother to ask any more.
How sad! I wonder why he became so negative about your wearing diapers.
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@~Brian~ Brian, I had forgotten that I had to click on my avatar in the upper left pane of the Chat window in order to find the "Manae bge block list" menu item. Thanks very much for reminding me of this very non-intuitive fact. I've now unblocked the people that I had accidentally blocked somehow.
There should be a confirmation that blocking is intended before the block is put into effect!
Here's your reward: to block *any* user, online or not, enter their username in the Chat window's "Search for a friend" text box in that same upper left pane. Then click on their username in the Users Online column, bringing up their chat history with you. Finally, click on the three dots in the upper right corner of their chat history and click "Block User".
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It's easy to block a chat user, even accidentally, but seemingly impossible to unblock the user. Once a chat user is blocked, it's impossible to find the user by using the chat search feature. Fortunately, a blocked chat user is still reachable in the mail tool. I've been told there's a "Manage Block List" in Settings, but I haven't been able to find it. How can I unblock a user, especially one with whom I've had an extended conversation and never blocked intentionally? Really, there should be an easy way to unblock, and even more important, a confirmation pop-up to make sure that the user intended to block the person.
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Welcome to this community of diaper lovers. Did needing protection during performances lead to your becoming a DL or were you a late bedwetter growing up like me?
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Thanks for posting this plea for non-AB but fun diapers! I resisted buying ABDL diapers until I found the ABU Space diapers, which I wore for years. Others I liked were Tykables Overnights, DC Idyls, and even Dotty Prides, with their bright colors. But as you noted, ABDL diapers are expensive, so I’ve settled on NorthShore diapers: blue Supremes, black GoSupremes, and black and tie-dye MEGAMAXes. Supremes in particular are great wickers: I can fill one edge to edge without its leaking. MEGAMAXes never soak up enough urine to get full before leaking at the legs.
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16 hours ago, QueerGirl said:
I can only wear at work right now (backwards I know but I do homecare and my patient sleeps all night). The first night I really had a hard time releasing my bladder, still an issue at times, but I also find myself holding it in for a long time until I can get to work and get the diaper on. I don't want to pee in the toilet if I can help it. Wish I could wear 24/7.
Although I sometimes wet in my sleep due to an enlarged prostate, such accidents occur infrequently enough that I don’t really need to wear diapers at night when at home. Plus, as a very late bedwetter growing up, I’m kind of fascinated by the idea that I might have a true accident. So, I usually sleep undiapered.
When I wake up to pee early in the night, I typically use the toilet. If I wake up after about 5 AM, I usually want to enjoy wetting a diaper. I’m sure you know the craving, QueerGirl! So, I get up, select a diaper from my stash, put it on, and immediately wet it. Sometimes I can get back to sleep. When I finally get up in the morning, I wear and wet my diaper for as long as I can.
I’m glad that you have a job that enables you to satisfy your craving to wear and wet diapers. Good luck in your quest to wear 24/7.
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15 hours ago, QueerGirl said:
I am still anxiously awaiting my first package of rearz, but I was desperate to try a real diaper after several nights in a pull up, so I have on a walgreens certainty. Second night.
How do you keep your diaper hidden while in bed with your wife?
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7 hours ago, QueerGirl said:
I actually literally sat on the toilet a few times. It helped alot.
Yes, that’s a great technique for getting started. Something that triggers my wetting is drinking some liquid. You might try that while sitting on the toilet in your diaper, then progressing to standing at your bathroom sink. You might also drink as much water as you can hold and then wait for extreme urgency to develop. Maybe you’ll even lose control and helplessly wet your diaper. Some women find that a full bladder in itself is arousing. Fun times ahead!
On 6/4/2018 at 11:25 PM, QueerGirl said:I have been wearing them out of the house at every opportunity since I bought them. Found some real diapers tonight though. GOnna try those too.
I bought my first adult protective underwear on the way to work in 2009. I was very cautious about where I parked and put the package of RiteAid pull-ups into the trunk of my car. But I never wore them to work, since I was afraid others would notice the odor of urine or see a telltale bulkiness on my butt.
You might fit into GoodNites L/XL. I weigh 50 pounds more than their suggested upper limit and I can get them on without tipping them. They don’t hold a lot of pee but they’re more discreet than my favorite pull-up, the NorthShore GoSupreme.
If you want to order adult diapers online, try NorthShoreCare.com. For ABDL products, ABUniverse, Rearz, Tykables, DC, Bambino, and Dotty Diapers are my favorites. I love Tykables Overnights and want to try their Galactic style.
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Welcome to DD, QueerGirl! Please tell us more about how your desire to wear diapers developed. Were you a late bedwetter like me or have daytime accidents as a child? Are you more AB or DL (adult baby or diaper lover)?
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It’s a little past 3 AM here. I just now woke up dry and needed to pee. A bit groggy, I almost decided to wet but then realized I was undiapered, so I got up and put on a NorthShore Supreme. I stood at my bathroom sink and drank a cup of water, which made it easy to relax and flood my diaper. The diaper absorbed it all too quickly.
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I’m luxuriating in a wonderful Tykables Overnights, which I plan to wear until tomorrow morning. I like everything about this diaper, from its colorful print to its convenient tapes to its all-night capacity to the way it feels so soft and squishy when wet.
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On 5/24/2018 at 9:51 PM, rosalie.bent said:
How many of you would genuinely like to fully end your bedwetting? This is a genuine question.
No. My favorite experience is to wake up wetting, relaxed, and confused about what’s happening. But I haven’t wet very often recently.
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I’m wearing a wet NorthShore GoSupreme pull-up that I put on late yesterday afternoon before going to a movie. At the theatre two women two rows in front of me took turns getting up to use the restroom, while I sat smugly in my seat, knowing I wouldn’t have to miss any of the movie due to a full bladder. After the show I did use the restroom because I was going to a restaurant for supper and didn’t want to risk unpleasant odors wafting out of my diaper. After dinner I went home, still dry. That condition didn’t last long, but by bedtime the thirsty GoSupreme (38 ounce capacity) was still dry enough that I could wear it to bed. During the night I woke up and wet it a couple of times, and since I woke up this morning I haven’t resisted any urges to wet. Probably I’ll enjoy my GoSupreme during breakfast and then take it off — about 16 hours after first putting it on.
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Dotty Diapers’ Pride, now damp.
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After being dry for 13 weeks and 5 nights, I finally woke up wetting again last night! I was in the middle of a dream when I felt myself begin to pee. Somehow I knew I wasn’t supposed to wet, so I clenched immediately to stop the flow and began to tell myself that I was awake and my dry streak was intact. As I regained consciousness, I realized that I once again had begun to wet in my sleep. I remembered that I had been dreaming but not the dream itself. I remembered wetting very clearly but I did not recall deciding to wet. Wetting just happened. I felt very relaxed while wetting, until I suddenly clenched to stop the flow. When I looked at my clock, I saw that it was 2:00 AM, so of course I must have wet in my sleep. This is the first time in May and the 6th time in 2018 that I’ve woken up wet or wetting.
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My urge to wear diapers is strongest when I need to pee. Many times at night I'll need to pee before going to bed and I'll decide to put my overnight diaper on quickly and wet it. Sometimes I begin to wet before I've finished taping my diaper into place and have to hold my hand under the diaper to prevent its leaking. Also, when doing cardio exercise, I wear a GoodNites for girls (I prefer the owl to the superheroes) under my exercise shorts, in case I need to pee while in the middle of a timed workout. Usually I don't wet it while working out but do wet it just after stopping or just after getting home.
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Yes, I keep my soaked overnight diaper on as long as possible. Lately I've begun to feel that this practice has caused me to avoid leaving the house to run errands, so I'm trying to get control over what seems like an addiction. Over a week ago I quit wearing diapers at night to see what would happen. So far I've woken up to use the toilet. I do miss the pleasure of a warm, wet, bulky diaper pressing snugly against my crotch and rubbing against my thighs as I walk around the house.
Good luck to you and your wife in conceiving. Don't let that goal spoil your fun!
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4 minutes ago, BabyLock said:
Haha, I didn't even look closely enough to see there weren't any unicorns on the Pride.
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The term "genderbending" presupposes that a person is 100% male or 100% female, when in truth we're all mixtures in various ratios and at various times. I wear GoodNites for girls under my exercise shorts so that I don't have to get off my exercise equipment to use the toilet. I like the owl and the butterfly better than the superheroes on the GoodNites for boys. I don't buy pink diapers, but I do like what I'm wearing now: Dotty Pride diapers, which have a rainbow of colors. I just ignore the unicorns and the ponies.
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Earlier in my life I had trouble letting go and having an orgasm during sex. The solution turned out to be to let my partner pee on me and then mount me cowgirl-style. Then I would come with a great bellowing orgasm. It was amazing, the best sex of my life! Now it's not so hard to come, so I don't often resort to watersports to get me over the edge.
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No, I just like the feel of doing it in a soaked diaper that I'm about to remove before showering.
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No, I enjoy wearing and wetting diapers too much. It's not even especially sexual for me -- unless I interact with other people about diaper-wearing. I like the feel of diapers on me. I like to wet my diaper, especially when hot urine bathes my privates, rather than just sinking into the diaper. I like to touch my diaper, especially after it gets very wet and swollen. I've even used a vibrator on the outside of my wet diaper, and that's thrilling. The booming ABDL market shows that more and more people are embracing this delightful fetish or lifestyle.
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I was a very late bedwetter and needed diapers to avoid wet pajamas and sheets, but at the time there were no disposables and my parents didn’t force me to wear cloth diapers.
Many years after my last nighttime accident I read about adults wearing diapers for pleasure as well as need. I was fascinated by the idea and finally worked up the courage to buy a package of pull-ups at a drug store on the way to work one morning. At first I wore only during the day, but eventually I began to wear a diaper to bed. When I woke up needing to pee I just used my diaper, an Abena M4.
A couple of years later, in late 2011 I began to wet in my sleep again. In the beginning I only wet 1-2 times a year. I thought my frequent diaper wearing was the cause, but in 2014 I was learned it was caused by an enlarged prostate. By 2016 I was wetting in my sleep much more often, 58 times that year. A change in medication reduced my involuntary wetting to 27 times in 2017 and 5 times so far in 2018.
In summary, I began to wear diapers for pleasure but now also wear them for need due to the return of bedwetting.
Have you had a talk with a significant other, caregiver or spouse, about your diapers, that went unexpectedly well?
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