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That's a dad joke, but for older kids

A couple of things are wrong. First of all, the thread was two weeks old when you posted. It had run it's course and was buried. I didn't watch the videos that closely because I wasn't interested. I didn't go deeper into her videos until you claimed that 90% of her commentors are ABDL, and I wanted to check to see how many commenters sounded ABDL. It's was that process that made me appreciate her content. I definitely was not a subscriber before you posted, and wouldn't have become one if you didn't make up claims. Secondly, I don't understand why you mislabeled her diagnosis. She was diagnosed with MS at 19, so there is no reason to talk about ME or Chronic Fatigue Syndrome. The only to say something like "It's easy for fake ME" is if you doubt her diagnosis, and I think that's a serious claim that should only be made when there is a basis to make the claim. You also said that nobody with genuine incontinence issues would parade around in diapers like she does, and that means you don't think she s genuinely incontinent. I don't think you would have made those comments if you spent any time watching her visits. You might have passed on her video, but I don't think you would have felt the need to let us know how you felt. Her view count is pretty low, so I don't even think it's all that popular with the MS community. From the comments, especially some of the recent comments, it sounds like people are appreciative of her attitude, and some of note that it gave them the courage to socialize again. Doing that in itself is something that should be applauded

Excuse me? WTF are you to say that to me.

That doesn't excuse your judgmental attitude over something innocent You whined about her standing for oppression, when her videos are all highly positive in tone. I've watched a few of her videos, and they all seem to have a positive tone. I don't have the intention of changing you, but I'm going to standup to the judgemental negative tone, and what I feel is bullying us for thinking differently than you. You may not get the AB scene, but you should know that some people do. For GD sake, this is diaper-related page. Yet, you choose to come on a discussion that had been dead for two weeks to make an accusation based on false assumptions. Seriously, the thread. P.S.- I think you did it to troll everybody, and read the other thread (that was also dead before you lone ally jumped in two weeks later). You did it to stir up sh*t. You knew that using MAGA terms was going to be a trigger. Her content has nothing to do with ABDL. Saying that 90% of her comments have ABDL is a lie. Anybody who has a working brain would see that. Stop lying! Her content is related to incontinence and how a young woman deals with it, along with her dealing MS. Based on what I've seen, she merely shares her story, and will provide reviews of diapers. However, you're appalled that she isn't hiding from her disabilty and proudly sharing her diapers to the world. I think it's your own insecurities that is causing you to project things about her that u So far you have accused her of faking her MS to get on the ABDL, falsely represented your perceived symptoms of MS as representative of every single person with MS. A very quick search on Google showed that to be false. You rely on false claims to support your absurd claim that she is an ABDL Mercenary and then whined about it when your take wasn't accepted. BTW- Pree has 8.75 K viewers. Her last video is two weeks old, and has roughly the same number of views. The highest view count is 145K. None of directly ABDL related, although she does acknowledge it. BTW- congratulations, you helped her gain at least one subscriber. I watched her first video after this post was initially made and passed. I didn't care, but then you made you judgmental BS post two weeks after the final post on the discussion and I commented the judgemental nature of the internet when it's not justified. In the process of you constant whining about how you're percieved, I viewed more and I do like the content. I think it is positive, and I like the tone. Without your and @cathdiap posts- I wouldn't have subscribed. I'm sure your both proud of yourselves now.

Thank you. I drafted the four chapters while I was in Hawaii over Presidents, but I've got to edit them. I'm hoping to get the next one edited by Sunday. Unfortunately that work stuff just kills my time to edit during the week

What? Quit whining about being roasted when you have nothing productive to say. You indirectly accused her of faking her condition (twice) without proof. You stated that MS doesn't have fecal incontinence, even though it does, and you made judgemental statements about how she manages her issues. You're not her, and you have the right not to watch if it upsets you.

FTR- my complaint with you isn't about Pree. It's because you painted things that should be defined them with a pejorative term. You know why you used to woke, and it shouldn't be a perjorjative. Wokeness is something that we should strive for, and not something to be feared. Unfortunately, as Americans, we are afraid of our GD shadow, and look for scapegoats. We used to be a good and decent country (for a short while), but not anymore. On this reply, you admitted those are not harmful, but you still defined them as woke, which is a pejorative Thirdly- she isn't doing any of the things that you accuse her. Her videos don't do any of the things that you accuse of her. She isn't try to promote herself as a diaper wearer. she isn't going out of her way to sexualize diapers. She isn't even promoting this disability pride that you're accusing her of. All she does is share her story and how she copes with her debilitating condition. Imagine being diagnosed with MS at 19, and have to deal with it while she was supposed to be prime physical condition. Based on the comments, she gives strength. I'll ask, WTF, is wrong with that? @Jumpin Jackyou indirectly accused her of faking her condition without proof. In my book, you don't have credibility. FTR- based on your posting history, I don't think you're ABDL, and I think you're a troll. I was shocked when I saw her subscriber count (which is probably going up). It's not a big fish. In the past, there was a trend for self-hating posts. Miley Cyrus is not an ABDL and only poses the way she does for attention. It's a combination of our insecurities and narcism to think that everybody thinks like us.

I read what you wrote, and it's hogwash. FTR- anybody who uses the wokes is brainwashed. Secondly: WTF is wrong with accepting a disability? WTF is wrong with loving yourself? And finally, why wouldn't somebody stand against oppression and hostility? I don't want the world that you're advocating. If her wokeness upsets you, that's a good thing. You need to be upset The word the want with your obvious right-wing MAGA BS is horrendous. This is a nightmare that we are living, and won't be good for anybody. It wasn't good for the Germans, the Spanish, or Italians. It's not been good for the Hungarian, and it's not good the Russians. Venezuela has been destroyed by the same mindset.

Based on your words, I don't think you know what you're talking about. You made up false claims, so I can't trust your claims. How did you come up with a claim that bulk of her followers are ABDL? I don't think you know who her followers are, nor do you have a way of knowing. BTW- I don't subscribe to her because there is nothing new for me, and is certainly not ABDL content. Most of the information is stuff I already know, but based on the comments on her videos- she helps some viewers deal with incontinence. She certainly isn't harming anybody FTR- I think you're words are offensive to people with MS or incontinence because you're trying to speak for people that you know nothing about. It's also extremely to offensive to me an ABDL. You don't understand what I do, and yet your dismissing an entire group as just a fetish. It's not for me, because I barely have any sexual feelings. It's especially offensive to come into an ABDL safe space to make these, especially because your entire posting history is 3 posts You have every right to speak for yourself, but not to speak for people that you don't know anything about. You certainly the right to disparage me Just so you know, there is a very easy way to react against Youtube content creators. Are you ready? Don't watch them! There are millions of content to consume worldwide, and nobody is forcing you to watch her videos.

It won't be something like Eddie coming to school in a stroller and a diaper bag. If Eddie has to wear a diaper to school, it will be in a way that is appropriate for 10th grader. I might be naive, but I spend a lot of time inside high schools like Eddie's. I don't think most students would ever know that Eddie is wearing a diaper unless it's exposed. High School kids are old enough to know about medical conditions, and it's not the social taboo that we think it is. Eddie's high school is really big, and Eddie is really good at being a tree There are so many potential targets at Eddie's high school, and the kid in diapers who nobody cares about isn't a big enough prize for anybody to notice. AFAIK, HS boys will bully within their group to establish dominance or outside of their group to combat competitors. As harsh as it sounds, Eddie doesn't have a group, and he's not a threat. Tormenting somebody takes time, and Eddie isn't worth it.

That's idea of the program, and the theme of the story. Most diaper stories that use forced regression tend to follow through with behavior. IE- leaving them in messy diapers, only changing them at defined times, and forced feeding with laxatives, restraints and spankings. If you've read other stories that I've written, you'll know that I despise spanking. I deal with it when I read diaper stories, because they all have it. I've been writing this story since August, so I've had a lot of time to think about the school. For him, not going to a school would be terrible. I have obvious ABDL fantasies to keep Eddie in his toddler-like state, but I also want to keep with the theme that mom is doing this to help Eddie grow up (even it's delusional). Mind you, Walter White always said that he was doing it for his family. It wasn't until the very end that he admitted that he did it for himself. Mom likes to have a baby in the house, so she is apparently self-sabotaging the treatment. Eddie has regressed over the summer. He's had a toddler immersion program for two months, so now Eddie is beginning to act and think like a toddler. I don't know how this kind of situation would affect somebody's bladder control, but I'd imagine it would require patience and desire, and probably a lot of prompting at the beginning. Eddie sabotaged himself in this chapter, and he's done that consistently in this story. in virtually every situation that Eddie could prove that he shouldn't be treated this- he screws up. He got mad because he wanted to watch television, so he didn't poop on toilet, and then blamed his mom. Imagine being a parent, and having the child that you know has to poo, but you beg them to use the potty, When they get there, they do nothing. BTW- mom wasn't fooled by his effort. He also won't react to a wet diaper and kept 'forgetting' to say something. At this point, he needs a crash course, or wear a diaper to school. I don't think you could trust him to take of his diapers, but he couldn't take care of them in June either. Back in May, he wasn't wearing his Goodnites unless forced and wasn't throwing them away. Eddie's maturity levels weren't very high to begin with. When they did the fictional test I came up with to test emotional levels, he was at 6.5 years. He struggled to act like a teenager and is having a much easier time acting like a toddler. However, i think he's become less self-centered over the course of the summer. At first, when he met with Tara, it was all about him. Now, he recognizes Tara's moods, and he's supportive. He's kind of the same way with Caitlyn, and they are two of the most age-appropriate peers (although much younger). At the beginning of the story, he wouldn't have noticed Caitlyn shifting from foot to foot. He noticed it in this chapter, but he didn't know what to do. However, he saw what Tara did and understood why.

I've drafted up to the first day of school, so it will be addressed. Eddie's peer relations are: Tara, Emily, Caitlyn, Ethan, and Cole. He needs age-appropriate peers, and despite what some will think, mom doesn't want Eddie to wallow as a permanent toddler. The biggest issue for Eddie is PE. Trust me, I've been to Eddie's High School, and nobody would know that he is wearing a diaper unless he screws up. However, he has to dress for PE. FTR, this is meant to be a good school, so nobody will know anything that they don't need to know.

Friday, July 29, 2016 Mom and Sarah stopped trying to potty train me, so I’m staying in diapers for a few more weeks. I did okay at first when Sarah was reminding me. After that, I was supposed to tell her when I needed to go, and it was harder. It wasn’t that I didn’t want to tell her, even though that’s embarrassing, I just didn’t think about it. I only remembered after I started to go, and by then it was too late. I also didn’t want to tell her that I wet my diaper, and now Sarah doesn’t think I know when I’m wet. That’s not true! I just don’t want to say anything, because that’s embarrassing. Yesterday, mom saw me squirming and said, “Eddie, it looks like you need to go poo-poo. Let’s go sit on the potty.” But I didn’t have to go, and I was watching television. I wanted to wait until the show was over. I protested, “I don’t need to go potty. I want to watch TV!” Mom took a deep breath through her nose, which meant she was mad. She counted under her breath, and then said, “Eddie, I can tell that you need to do a poo-poo. Please come with me and sit on the potty.” I whined, “But I don’t have to go, mommy. I want to finish my show.” “Eddie! You’re too old for this. I shouldn’t have to beg you to use the potty. Please! Just come with me and try.” I didn’t want to go, but I didn’t want to get in trouble. I reluctantly followed her to the bathroom and sat on the potty. She made me stay there a really long time, but I didn’t have to go. After a while, mom pleaded, “Eddie, just try to push.” It didn’t matter how hard I pushed; I didn’t have to go. It’s also really hard to go when my mom is watching. I squinted my eyes and pushed really hard, but nothing came out. Mom pleaded, “Come on Eddie, try harder!” “I’m trying, but it’s hard. Mommy, I don’t have to go potty. I told you that.” Normally, saying something like that to my mom is bad, but this time she seemed more disappointed than mad. She sighed, “Okay, we can stop. Go and watch the rest of your show.” I felt bad, “I’m sorry. I tried really hard.” Mom gave me a hug, which made me feel better. “It’s okay. I know it’s hard, and it will take some time. Go play and we will try again next time.” I went back to the living room and watched the rest of my show. After a few minutes, I felt the familiar cramps and knew I had to poo. I didn’t want to ask mom to take me to the potty again, but Sarah wasn’t there. She was picking up Ashley and Tara, so it was just my mom and me. I cried out, “Mommy, I need to potty!” “Eddie, you just sat on the potty for ten minutes and didn’t do anything. I’m busy right now. I can’t keep taking you to the potty when you won’t even try when you’re there. You’ll just have to use your diaper.” I whined, “But I can’t use my diaper! It’s number two.” Mom shook her head, which is never a good sign. “I’m sorry Eddie, we’re not going to do that. You can use the potty next time, but you already had your chance this time. You’ll have to use your diaper.” Once mom says something like that, there is no point in arguing. She isn’t going to change her mind, and I’ll get in trouble if I keep asking. I started to ask again, but I noticed the look on her face. If I asked again, I would get sent to the corner and spend the rest of the day in my playpen. I went to my spot in the living room, squatted and filled my diaper. I didn’t even bother to tell her. I just waited until she checked. Mom scrunched her nose and said, “Oh, it smells like you did something in that diaper.” She pulled the back of my diaper and said, “Yes, that’s what you did. Let’s go change that stinky diaper.” I thought mom would be mad. I cried, “I’m sorry. I know I was supposed to use the potty.” Mom hugged me and said, “Eddie, It’s okay. This is a new skill, and you need more practice. I told you to use your diaper this time, and you did. Next time, you can try to use the potty.” Yesterday was Nicole’s day off, so they took us to the Aquarium. I used my diaper twice. The first time was on BART, because it was a really long ride. I didn’t go before we left, and there wasn’t a bathroom on the train. Sarah didn’t tell me to use the potty at the aquarium, and I didn’t think about it. I ended up using my diaper, and didn’t tell Sara that I was wet. I waited until she checked, but she wasn’t mad when she changed me. It didn’t even feel like she was disappointed about it either. I think she kind of expected it. I wet myself again later, but it was during my nap. I was sleeping, so that doesn’t count. Then Tara, Emily, and I were playing, and I had to pee. I don’t always know when I need to do that. Even though I didn’t want to ask, I knew I had to. Emily is my little sister, so it’s really embarrassing, but she was the only one there. I couldn’t keep using my diaper, so I asked. “Emily, I need to potty.” “Is it one, or two?” I put up one finger, and Emily yelled out, “Mommy. Eddie needs to pee-pee.” Mom came into the living room, but didn’t take my hand. She sat on her chair and said, “Eddie, come over here. I need to talk to you.” I was confused, “But I need to go pee-pee.” She brought me in close, close enough that I could sit on her lap, and said, “I know you’ve tried, but I don’t think this is working. It feels like we’re rushing it, and you’re not ready to use the potty.” “But I’m trying really hard. Please, mommy! I want to keep trying. I can do it, I promise.” I don’t think she believed me. “Well, honey, you didn’t go poo-poo when I took you to the potty this morning, and you didn’t use the potty at the aquarium. You didn’t even tell Sarah when you went pee-pee in your diaper. Don’t worry honey, we will try again later. Until then, don’t worry about making it to the potty.” I know this sounds strange, but I was relieved. Nobody got mad when I used my diaper, but they were disappointed. I was disappointed with myself as well, which made me feel bad. However, I felt guilty. I’m supposed to use the potty and not want to wear diapers. It’s just that the potty is too hard. I didn’t want my mom to know I was happy about it, and I didn’t know what to say. I asked, “What about school?” Mom replied, “You don’t have to worry about school right now. I think I put too much pressure on you. I wanted to get you potty trained before school starts, but school is an artificial deadline. Dr. Bennett warned us about those. I’ll just tell the school that you’ve had problems with the potty, and we’ll have to deal with it.” “Does that mean I’ll have to wear diapers to school?” Mom shrugged, “Maybe. We’ll see.” “But I’m in high school. I can’t wear diapers. The other kids will think I’m a baby.” Mom agreed, “I know that honey. They don’t let babies go to high school, so you will have to act like a big kid when you’re there.” That confused me. How can I be a big kid when I wear diapers? “What about the diapers?” Mommy gave me a big hug, “I don’t know yet, but don’t worry. It might surprise you, but some big kids have problems with the potty.” “They do?” “Yes, they do, but they handle it themselves. You don’t know how to do that, but we can teach you. Sarah can help you when you are at school. Ashley and Nicole will be there to help as well. For now, you don’t have to do anything. Just go play with Tara and Emily and let the adults take care of it.” Cole got to wear Pull-ups at Play Group, which means he is a big kid. That means he gets treated the same as other kids his age, which isn’t very different for him. He is only five years old, and still a little kid. The biggest difference was that he got to sit in a real chair during snack and lunch, and didn’t have to use a sippy cup, even though he spilled his juice. He still asked his mom to take him to the potty, but I think that’s normal for kids his age. I don’t think Ethan is being potty trained anymore. He didn’t use the potty in Play Group, and his mom never told him to go. He was just like Tara and me. Caitlyn is still working on it. She was wearing a diaper, but her mom took her to the potty. After that, her mom warned, “Caitlyn, next time I want you to tell me when you need to potty.” I asked, “Do you think your mommy is going to let you wear Pull-ups?” Caitlyn said, “I hope so. Mommy said that I need to go all day without using my diaper.” “What happens if you have an accident?” Caitlyn shrugged, “I don’t know. Last time, mommy stopped, and I had to stay in diapers.” I replied, “I think that’s what my mommy did.” While we were outside, I noticed Caitlyn starting to dance, but I didn’t think that much about it. Tara whispered, “Caitlyn, you’re doing the pee-pee dance. Go tell your mommy that you need to potty.”

I would be fine with her babysitting me as well, as long as she wasn't mean. I want a nice babysitter, but I do get cranky sometimes.

I should start an extraneous words jar. It's amazing how much better writing gets when you trim down the words I wrote: I didn’t want my mom to know that I was happy about it, but I didn’t know what to say. I listened to it, and realized I could just drop 'that'. I should be fined when I use 'really', even when it's beneficial in a sentence. I use it when I draft because it's helps me pace my writing, but it's a crutch. Words should be like currency, and only used when absolutely necessary.

I think that is a relatively recent development (like last 10 years). I think the euphemism was meant to support the dignity of the patients, but the need for euphemism was affecting the dignity of the patients. What I need is so bad that I'm not going to call it what it is.

She doesn't seem all that dom to me. She mentioned how she needed to nice and nurturing during sessions with ABDL, as opposed to mean during sessions.

I was actually more offended by the 2nd post than the first one. The first one came off as preachy, and I just find it disgusting that anonymous people can can make claims with nothing more than assumed knowledge to support knowledge. The 2nd post was highly offensive to me, and my issues stem from my desire to go 24/7. As such, I still have the option to go without, but I don't like to. I hate it when I do, because I'm miserable and constantly thinking about getting to the bathroom (FTR- this was true before I went 24/7). I can't sleep through night, because I wake up with the question "Do I pee, or do I stay in bed?" FTR- I think this is a real dilemma for most older males (and older females as well). I also knew that several posters like you came to ABDL as a coping mechanism, and I feel that post disparages you. FTR- with a very quick Google search, i discovered that about 7 to 8 of 10 patients with have issues with their bowels, and between 50 and 95% experience bladder problems. Not only is frequent, I would call that expected. It's also wrong to assume that nobody who isn't ABDL would ever consider ABDL diapers because they work better than any other option available. Inspire and Better Dry are ABDL diapers marketed to non-ABDL patients. The quality of adult incontinence products has improved greatly over the last 15-20 years because ABDL diapers. I happen to like Better Dry, but I like the patterns, so I buy Crinklz. AFAIK, no other non-diaper management product is effective for all but the mildest form of incontinence. Pull-ups are useless for me, because they leak if they do a full void. If you can't trust your product, it doesn't work.

That never happens to me either I have a math plug-in on my work computer which causes a DLL error if I access from Word. It's annoying, but I've had several lost sessions of work because I've had to BRS restart. It was worse in the old days when Windows '98 gave you the blue screen of death. I've used other platforms, and my brain just doesn't seem to work as well when I use other platform. I certainly couldn't write in Notepad, or Wordpad. I rely very heavily on that read-aloud function when I publish stories. and I like it in Word. Ironically, even though my main characters are almost always male, I always use the female voice. It sounds how I want it to be read. The AI functions are worse Google Docs, and it doesn't upset me, because I usually can ignore them.

I wish she had a better sound. It's pretty basic, but I had to turn the sound to full to hear it, and there was a lot of echo.

You seem to be making many assumptions, and I don't know what your purpose is by this tone. This response is some how worse than the first one. FTR- IMO, you lost all credibility when you accused her of faking MS without a shred of proof. That qualifier of "We have no way of proving" doesn't excuse the accusation. There is implication that you knew you were making, and did it anyway. Once again, you're indirectly claiming that she is not genuinely incontinent (WTF does that mean?) by modeling diapers that you don't approve of. BTW- there are members on this page you do have the conditions that you mention, and use ABDL diapers and mechanism to cope with incontinence. I use them to cope with social anxiety and other other issues. Who are you to self-appoint yourself the judge all people, and how they get to chose with conditions that they have? You joined this page in July, posted twice, resurrecting a discussion that had pretty much ran it's course to make a judgemental post, and you seem offended that the majority don't agree with you.

My process is painfully slow. I write in Word because that's what I like, and I can't talk to Google docs. I strongly recommend drafting in an word processor. My initial drafts have grammatical errors and tend to have passive speech. Plus, I sometimes alter the plot. The first time I re-draft is a complete rewrite of the rough draft. I go through one paragraph at a time to rework each so that it says what I want. After I do that, I do the read aloud to read it to me to make sure that it sounds like it should. FTR- the first time I use that read-aloud- it's slow. It takes about 1 hour per 1000 words. The 2nd reading is much faster; I'm just trimming the words. Some sentences are good, and some are not. I then do another reading, and I normally have to fix a couple of paragraphs. If I do, I go back and do it again. I will keep doing it until I can let the read-aloud keep reading. My benchmark is when my screen goes to sleep. It takes a while, but I'm proud of my prose. FTR- I'm not proud of my rough drafts (They suck). I'm sure if shared the same commitment that I have to my diaper-fiction hobby when I was in high school, I might be have had a lot better grades. FTR, I only do that when it's worth the effort. I don't do that level of detail for a post or even a professional email. It's only important when it's for a broad audience.

I've been in this community a long time as well, and we have this self-hating perspective that can be narcissistic. The whole belief that somebody chooses to fake MS so they can publicly admit that they pee their pants for attention is absurd. FTR- it's the second time I've made that comment to this video. In both cases it's from the response "She's doing for attention," complaint. This one got me worse than first one, because it's so cruel if they were wrong. You have proof that you're that she isn't faking, which makes the accusation far worse FTR-@Jumping Jack has only made one post, and it's this was it. He chose this post which was 22 days after the last post responding to post that was 23 days. It was the only post @Jumping Jack has ever made

These are the kind of cartoons I really like. Jumpstart always had some of the best diaper references