Lance, you said the following:
A 'big and puffy' butt might indicate that she is wearing a diaper, which COULD be a medical condition, so she could be wearing one. IF she was, she might make comments that, to an AB like yourself, MIGHT make you think she was one. Since I don't know the comments, or the context of the comments, I can't offer you anything more. However, I wasn't trying to be combative, I was trying to offer another possible scenario. As to 'figment of your imagination', I wasn't trying to be insulting, it was more humorous than anything. However, it also holds a bit of truth to it, if we want to meet another AB, whom better than someone we already know that we think MIGHT be one. Our imagination can do wonderful things, and show us things we want to see, even if we aren't sure.
Take no offense from my post, as there was none intended. I was only offering you another explaination.
Gary